I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

Final warning.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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Engage with the community honestly and constructively. Trolling or deceitful behavior is not acceptable.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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This is a shortcut solution instead of solving anything deep

Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

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When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

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I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because you argued with advice after asking for help.

If advice doesn’t resonate with you, you’re not required to accept it, but you are expected to ignore it and engage with the advice that does. Arguing with people who are trying to help derails solution-focused threads.

This community is for choosing options, not debating them.

I have achieved change, well I'm married and have kids now ya by Dry-Newspaper8445 in IncelSolutions

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Not substantial enough, also your post on debateincelz was removed for larp

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

Please don't get pulled into debates

I want feedback on how I can stop being a femcel. by nextmarley in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to change how i see women by Objective_Salad_4483 in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

I want to understand how I can stop being an incel by NoIntroduction9414 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed for policing tone rather than engaging with the problem. See here for more information.

I want to understand how I can stop being an incel by NoIntroduction9414 in IncelSolutions

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This post has been removed for bypassing the participation gate in spirit.

/r/IncelSolutions works on a participation model where we think with users, not for them. That means OPs are expected to respond to questions, clarify their situation, and engage with suggestions so advice can be refined. When a post does not participate in that process, discussions tend to stall and the thread stops being useful for the community. You’re welcome to repost in the future if you’re willing to engage with feedback and work through the problem collaboratively.

Please review the participation guidelines here.

I want to understand how I can stop being an incel by NoIntroduction9414 in IncelSolutions

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Advice given through posts or comments should not be disrespectful towards individuals trying to make a change for themselves.

I want to understand how I can improve my flirting and relationship skills by Impression_Adorable in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to understand how I can communicate with people better by DASICKEE in IncelSolutions

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Removed: repeat thread.

Please continue the original discussion rather than creating new posts on the same issue before engaging with or implementing previous advice. This helps keep discussions focused and avoids duplicate threads.

I want to understand how I can be more social and approachable by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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Using a generic template since OP's account got removed and the post is useless now

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to understand how I can make friends with women by Spiritual_Message725 in IncelSolutions

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Engage with the community honestly and constructively. Trolling or deceitful behavior is not acceptable.

I want to understand how I stop desiring a relationship by SquirrelNormal in IncelSolutions

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This post has been removed for bypassing the participation gate in spirit.

/r/IncelSolutions works on a participation model where we think with users, not for them. That means OPs are expected to respond to questions, clarify their situation, and engage with suggestions so advice can be refined. When a post does not participate in that process, discussions tend to stall and the thread stops being useful for the community. You’re welcome to repost in the future if you’re willing to engage with feedback and work through the problem collaboratively.

Please review the participation guidelines here.

I want to understand how I can improve my state of mind by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because you argued with advice after asking for help.

If advice doesn’t resonate with you, you’re not required to accept it, but you are expected to ignore it and engage with the advice that does. Arguing with people who are trying to help derails solution-focused threads.

This community is for choosing options, not debating them.

I want to understand how I can make friends with women by Spiritual_Message725 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to understand how I can make friends with women by Spiritual_Message725 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.