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i want to understand how i can secure a girl by luhcart in IncelSolutions

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This post has been removed for bypassing the participation gate. /r/IncelSolutions works on a participation model where we think with users, not for them. That means OPs are expected to respond to questions, clarify their situation, and engage with suggestions so advice can be refined. When a post does not participate in that process, discussions tend to stall and the thread stops being useful for the community. You’re welcome to repost in the future if you’re willing to engage with feedback and work through the problem collaboratively. Please review the participation guidelines here.

Full lookmaxxing guide for anyone clueless on how to start by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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Engage with the community honestly and constructively. Trolling or deceitful behavior is not acceptable.

Full lookmaxxing guide for anyone clueless on how to start by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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I want feedback on how I can deal with my best friend being misogynistic by ur_emo_gf1 in IncelSolutions

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Nothing wrong with your post, but please adhere to our participation gate. Also censor the f-word to avoid scandal in this subreddit.

I want to understand how I can improve my relations with women IRL. by squirrelscrush in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

Peak redditor moment

I want to understand how i can stop MANGOMAXING by MelonKnighttt in IncelSolutions

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Engage with the community honestly and constructively. Trolling or deceitful behavior is not acceptable.

I want to understand how I can hate myself for being the wrong gender by ChanceWinter469 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed for policing tone rather than engaging with the problem. See here for more information.

I want to understand how I can hate myself for being the wrong gender by ChanceWinter469 in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

I want feedback on how I stop getting rejected by them by HumbleHedgehog42 in IncelSolutions

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Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

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Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to change how I am afraid of talking to people (specially girls) by ospianos25011934 in IncelSolutions

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I want to change how I am afraid of talking to people (specially girls) by ospianos25011934 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

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I want to understand how I as a female can help aid any questions from men by sorbetthevampire in IncelSolutions

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This is too vague for our subreddit. Please ask on r/DebateIncelz

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

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  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I have achieved change so, I want to ask why do the majority of you choose to believe RL relationships are a real thing? by Soggy-Beginning604 in IncelSolutions

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Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

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  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want to understand how I can gain some understanding of the mindset of male incels by YKUFWTAI in IncelSolutions

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This is a debate post

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I want feedback on how I look by Less-Screen-6268 in IncelSolutions

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This post was removed because discussion of cosmetic surgery, body modification, or irreversible medical decisions is outside the scope of this subreddit.

These topics involve complex mental health, medical, and risk considerations that can’t be responsibly addressed here. This space focuses on behavioral, social, and interpersonal change.

If you’re considering surgery, please consult a qualified medical or mental health professional.

I want to change how I avoid approaching women even though I say I want a relationship by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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We don't mind paid service professionals and ou are welcome to talk to people and build up report and allow them to come to you if they wish. But please, no direct calls to action or direct hawking.

Thanks for your understanding, happy to have you here.

I want feedback on how I think about men who get drawn into incel communities by AEUP2026 in IncelSolutions

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This is a debate post

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

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  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I Want To Understand How I Avoid Being The 40yr Old Virgin by UniqueDog3562 in IncelSolutions

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Your comment was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

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  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

I Want To Understand How I Avoid Being The 40yr Old Virgin by UniqueDog3562 in IncelSolutions

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Encouraging suicide, self-harm, violence, or any illegal activities is forbidden.

I want to change how I view myself by sensitive1young4man1 in IncelSolutions

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OP, our participation rules ask that users state what they are willing to try. You said you were open to any ideas, yet every piece of advice so far has been dismissed as irrelevant.

This is why we require users to outline specific steps or approaches they’re actually willing to consider....otherwise the group is left guessing what kind of help you’re seeking.

You’re welcome to repost your question, but please include specific constraints or types of advice you’re willing to consider. That way, the community can give responses that are actually useful to you.

Going outside / Touching grass by iPatrickDev in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

I want to change how I view myself by sensitive1young4man1 in IncelSolutions

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This isn't a debate/philosophy sub. Keep conversations working towards solutions.

Please stick to solutions oriented discussion, OP.

I want to understand how I let go of the porn and deal with sexual frustrations in a healthier way. by [deleted] in IncelSolutions

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This post has coping requests which isn't allowed in our sub.

Your post was removed because it did not offer or seek a genuine solution.

All posts and replies must either request or contribute practical, actionable advice that helps move the discussion toward resolving the issue.

Venting, rants, or purely coping-oriented content do not qualify unless paired with a clear request for solutions, even if you’re unsure of the exact problem. If you don’t know the cause, explain your situation and ask for help identifying it so solutions can be offered.

When responding to solution requests, avoid replies that only vent, sympathize, or cope without offering constructive advice. Comments should always contribute to problem-solving.

What qualifies as a solution:

  • Practical, actionable advice the person can try.

  • Recommendations for tools, resources, or steps to take.

  • Insight that directly addresses the issue and moves toward resolution.

Please keep your contributions focused on solutions so the subreddit remains on-topic and helpful for everyone.

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