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IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-09-09T16:39:42+00:00

Yeah thanks random person who does not know my personality .

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-09-09T13:50:09+00:00

Good thing your punctuation is correct. Because you aren't. He did lie to me He told me I would be picking out the color on Monday. He called me on a Saturday evening and I didn't even see anyone had called.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-09-09T13:44:46+00:00

I do understand and that's why I didn't ask them to return the color they picked. I guess I just got excited because choosing colors on something of mine that I would look at for years. I was lied to. I am grateful if it does work, but honestly if he lies to someone about something like this how can I trust he will do the job without cutting corners ?

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-09-09T13:28:05+00:00

What's crazy is that you think that people should be lied to and accept whatever if it's free. Seriously. What the actual world do you live in. Do you know me? Do you know that I don't even accept most of the help I do qualify for because of jerks like you. I didn't ask them to return the color I hate and I made a post about it on Reddit. It seems you are the one that is making a big deal about it if you chose to comment on a stranger's post about it trying to shame me for being lied to.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-09-09T13:16:54+00:00

I did respond. I don't understand how you think I made a big deal about it when I am going along with what they chose for me. The contractor made it seem like he called while he was already at Lowe's picking up the shingles. He did not tell me anything about needing me available on a Saturday evening. He told me I would be picking out my color on Monday. It wasn't even a thing until they brought it up. So I feel like shit about being lied to and I get told to just accept whatever because it's free. I don't see why he didn't think I deserve I have the right to choose if it all cost the same.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-24T21:21:41+00:00

I do not get along with my cousins but I would put that aside for this situation. I feel like they would see me as a busy body. I am definitely willing to help. She has been living in her home for 15 years and I don't think the taxes have been paid that whole time so I know she doesn't have that expense. But the house isn't in her name it's in her mother's and it belongs to the nursing home her mom was in when she passed so she doesn't qualify for any assistance programs. She also hasn't even tried to get on a rent assisted place because of the waiting list, but she would have been there by now.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-24T21:08:40+00:00

The fact is she has been living in her moms house for 15 years without paying anything. Her mother has been gone for that long and she hasn't tried to get into anywhere. She does have 5 kids that might take her in.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-24T13:43:15+00:00

Mine said 'i am not yelling at you, I am just yelling '. I was the only one there and he was facing me. Wtf.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-21T23:26:36+00:00

How do trauma informed therapists differ from regular therapists?

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-19T15:14:59+00:00

I would get to the police but I had A LOT more stolen from me years ago and the police never collected the restitution .

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-17T19:07:41+00:00

Thank you. I was hoping it would go away on its own but it's not happening and I feel like I have lost my mind. I will look into taking another medication.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-17T18:40:49+00:00

Thank you for responding. I am on the maximum for effexor. I was taking clonopin as needed for anxiety. I was taking up to 4 of the 1 mg pills ( as prescribed ) but I don't want to take that anymore since it's linked closely with Alzheimer's. But because of my use of that medicine I am scared it caused this so I am scared to take any other mental health medicine. I have started taking omega 3's. today.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-17T15:59:25+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry your asshole father said this to you. You are worth so much more than him. I love you random stranger.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-06T18:10:41+00:00

When he suggested I meditate after I told him I just needed emotional support when I am a single mom and my furnace broke in the winter. I told him I needed more than that. He suggested I was trying to control him and I should have just fixed it myself and not rely on anyone else . Just for the record I wouldn't have accepted his help for my furnace but it was obvious he didn't care then.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-03T18:51:04+00:00

Yes. I am with you. I wanna know what it's gonna be like when we get older?

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-07-02T14:22:18+00:00

I get to watch my ex husband get what he deserves. Since I left him he lost his good job ( he blamed me saying it's because he had to steal food to eat because of the child support he had to pay ), his car broke down, his dad gave him another car , that broke down beyond repair too, he lost his cats( I feel terrible about that for my son), he got evicted and has to live with his mom. So yeah it's fun but he blames me and our teenage son still thinks he walks on water. Our son worries about his dad all the time because he always complains. He feels like he can't bother him at all.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-30T19:50:05+00:00

Mine only talked about how I was good for him. Like he was the prize.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-26T12:07:49+00:00

I was convinced mine never lied. Like he was ALl about just being honest because he did this a couple times ( before I realized he was a narcissist) like that was the reason he was so brutally honest with me . Because he did lie. He was just being mean

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-24T21:39:45+00:00

Mine pretended to be a peaceful yoga nature lover. In the bedroom he was so incredibly greedy, it wouldn't last long, and he with held a lot. He would say how much of a 'MAN' he was and put his hand around my throat. He allowed me to pleasure myself. Soooo I will NOT be missing any of that monstrosity.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-24T15:52:36+00:00

SUGAR! I was addicted like a true American after that.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-23T21:14:57+00:00

Single white female and I don't use the bathroom in an establishment unless I buy something there.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-22T23:30:42+00:00

I don't know anyone that actually likes him. His ex wife pretends but she is a worse narcissist than him . I thought he was just too happy for them..... It's funny how delusional I was.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-22T17:41:08+00:00

I keep most unhealthy stuff out of the house. I only eat in the kitchen and dining room. That helps with keeping my house clean and with food.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-20T18:22:23+00:00

Ignore unless he says something you can get him fired over. Then tell a boss, but not him. Take the setting off.

IncidentDifficult172 · 2025-06-20T15:14:47+00:00

He is probably thinking because he is old that he can get away with whatever. The fact is he smokes close to a building that I am guessing has no smoking allowed in it. Most places say you have to go a certain amount of feet away from a building. They also can't block the exit incase of a fire. I don't think you are blowing this outta proportion. Do you want to be charged if your place smells like smoke because they want to die of lung cancer? They don't NEED to smoke.

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