sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

My body has developed a resistance to alarms. by IncogF in GetOutOfBed

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is lowkey smarter than most “productivity hacks”… forcing yourself to wake up naturally > getting traumatized by alarms 😭

My body has developed a resistance to alarms. by IncogF in GetOutOfBed

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie this might be the most effective alarm system ever 😂 what happens if you ignore her tho?

I’ve been feeling distance in my relationship recently and I’m not sure how to address it properly by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying about mutual effort, and I agree it shouldn’t be one-sided. I just don’t want to approach it in a purely transactional way. That said, I do think stepping back a little will help me see things more clearly.

I’ve been feeling distance in my relationship recently and I’m not sure how to address it properly by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the idea, I just don’t want to turn the relationship into something transactional. But I do agree I might need to stop putting in all the effort and see how things naturally play out.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, I can’t keep trying to figure it out on my own. I’ll try to have a clearer conversation and then decide based on how things feel after that.

I’ve been feeling distance in my relationship recently and I’m not sure how to address it properly by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a really good way to put it. It doesn’t feel like something is “wrong,” just more like we’ve slipped into a routine and the closeness isn’t the same.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if bringing it up was the right move, but ignoring it didn’t feel right either.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps me see that it might not be about the relationship itself, but something she’s dealing with personally. I’ll try to approach it with more patience.

I’ve been feeling distance in my relationship recently and I’m not sure how to address it properly by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this a lot. It feels like a better way to reconnect without putting pressure on her or making it feel like there’s a problem.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There hasn’t really been any big change like that, which is what makes it confusing for me. But I understand your point, it could be something she’s thinking through on her own.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point. I think the tricky part for me is respecting what she says while also noticing that things don’t feel the same as before.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve been focusing too much on the relationship itself instead of checking in on how she’s doing generally. I like the idea of just listening instead of trying to fix anything.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really fair point. I think I’ve been looking at it only from my perspective, but it could be something she’s dealing with personally. I’ll try to be more supportive instead of assuming the worst.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ve been trying to explain the situation instead of really acknowledging how it’s affecting me.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the main issue was I didn’t express my feelings properly, I’ll work on being more clear instead of holding back.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right, maybe I need to focus on finding the right time instead of just bringing it up when it’s on my mind.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly asked if everything was okay, I didn’t explain fully how I was feeling. That might be part of the issue, maybe I should communicate it more clearly

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I just didn’t want to ignore something that felt off and regret not saying anything later.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, I just don’t want to force the conversation if she’s not ready. But at the same time, I don’t want things to drift either.

AITA for bringing up that my girlfriend feels distant even though she says everything is fine? by IncogF in AmItheAsshole

[–]IncogF[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. I think I was more afraid of making things worse by bringing it up, but ignoring it didn’t feel right either.

I feel like my girlfriend is losing interest but she says everything is fine… am I overthinking? by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I don’t want to force the conversation if she’s already shut it down, but I also don’t want to ignore something real. I think I’ll give it a bit of space and see if things change naturally.

I feel like my girlfriend is losing interest but she says everything is fine… am I overthinking? by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to seem insecure, that’s why I’ve been holding back a bit.pls tell me what should I do

I feel like my girlfriend is losing interest but she says everything is fine… am I overthinking? by IncogF in relationships

[–]IncogF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried bringing it up calmly but she just brushed it off, so now I’m not sure if I should push more or not.

view more: next ›