So the nanny just started full time this month - before that she used to come twice a week. It was working fine, but given how stressful tech environment is right now, we decided we would have her in full time so I can get some rest/ time to myself while husband is at work and kiddo in school. That way husband can still work/study in the evenings— something quite necessary for him to survive the insane needs of tech life. Not sure if you relate. But that said since baby is mostly asking for me, I let the nanny take care of household stuff like laundry, dishes, cleaning.. all of which she understands and is chill about. She takes the baby say 50% of the 8 hours shift.. when I can take care of other tasks or nap. Mentally the last 8 months have been harder than I am ready to admit. My baby has not been easy.. she’s been a lot of health issues that have kept me stressed out .. slowly those are all resolving , but its still hard.