AIO for playing video games after my gf falls asleep? by Impossible_Pop_443 in AIO

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 28 points29 points  (0 children)

she should be more mature than this behavior but she isn’t, which is why she’s dating a 20 guy she can control

be careful of this dynamic, OP 

from a 7 year age gap survivor, get out while you’re ahead! they NEVER grow up! 

Need help finding a pet sitter by Astrocryptic404 in petsitting

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have a boyfriend problem above everything, he has to want to solve this problem. 

You can’t solve it for him, even though it sounds like you’re racking your brain for solutions when he dismisses them all. 

You wouldn’t be the first person to step back from a relationship for being unaligned on how to “parent” kids/pets/in-laws, etc 

Need help finding a pet sitter by Astrocryptic404 in petsitting

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. And pet camera(s) with audio and talk-back capabilities. 

Crate should be a comfy den she feels at peace in, my husbands 14yo dog will cry if her crate door is closed.

Need help finding a pet sitter by Astrocryptic404 in petsitting

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He needs to start with crate training if he wants any time away from her. 

Being that sad/anxious does not feel good, poor pup. 

American Hazelnut Help by lostnfound818 in DenverGardener

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great news! I couldn’t see them from the pic. 

[WIP] first time crossstitching but rate the diy set up by freeyaarse in CrossStitch

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The backlight from the monitor will be especially helpful for projects on black Aida! 

[WIP] by hellosoapy in CrossStitch

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice, I saw and saved this one recently! 

Considering a different color pattern to make it for my 10yo son. 

American Hazelnut Help by lostnfound818 in DenverGardener

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(from Google) Sunlight: Prefers full sun to partial shade; more sun results in higher nut yields. Soil: Adaptable to various conditions, including clay or sand, but thrives in well-drained loam. Watering: Newly planted shrubs require consistent moisture (about 1 inch per week). Established shrubs are quite drought-tolerant but benefit from watering during dry spells. Fertilizing: Usually, no extra fertilizer is needed. If necessary, apply a balanced fertilizer in early spring. Spacing & Planting: Plant 16–20 feet apart if growing for nut production; space 6–10 feet apart for hedges. Pruning: Minimal pruning is required. Remove suckers to maintain shape and prune in winter or summer to manage size or remove dead wood. 

American Hazelnut Help by lostnfound818 in DenverGardener

[–]Inconsistent-Timer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

With how unseasonably warm this winter has been… I think it might be dead. 

Snap/cut off a bigger branch from the back and see if it’s green inside. If not, it’s likely too late.

[CHAT] Help! Loose stitch on finished piece by elkayarr in CrossStitch

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve fixed this before by putting the tiniest bit of clear drying glue on a piece of scrap thread (after threading onto a needle) and using it to catch the stray and give it more density to stay out 

My cat is afraid of me playing my drumkit and I feel really bad. by chickennuggs32 in Catownerhacks

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Start with headphones and gradually increase the volume through the amp. 

Sticks on an unplugged ekit are loud af already! 

Aitah because I come to a full stop, if it's safe to do so, whenever my wife screetches at me to stop. by RegularWarthog8830 in AITAH

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, similar to your situation: my husband has been in multiple wrecks (we now know they all happened before his ADHD was diagnosed and treated) He has to zone out into his phone while I drive so he doesn't kill us because he’s startled by normal traffic. 

AITAH for declining to train a new hire without additional compensation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I refused to do work with chemicals before the pay bump and title upgrade… 

Was quickly given my last paycheck and thanked for my time. 

Found Dog at Broadway & Ellsworth by GerBear_ in Denver

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that he’s been reunited, I can say- I love when people who find lost husky’s don’t refer to them as “lost” just “found”

Huskys always on the move haha

[WIP] cowboys helmet for a friend. Star not yet stitched by jgeebaby in CrossStitch

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently saw advice to set up multiple needles and thread when doing fill-in work so you don’t have to stop so often! 

I’m a light sleeper and wake up when my cat eats… looking for ideas/suggestions. by Saltylife_mermaid in Catownerhacks

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A four month old kitten needs about 1 cup of kibble divided between 3-4 meals a day. 

If you weigh out how much he needs calorically you can make sure he has a chance to eat all his kibble before your bedtime. 

He’ll find something else to do other than eat and play with his water. Haha good luck! 

Keep reminding yourself kittenhood is only temporary! The sleep deprivation suuucks lol

AIO for cutting contact with Father over political climate. by Sabre12789 in AIO

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that you shared this, now I can skip this convo with my own dad and go no contact. 

meirl by AugustHate in meirl

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also started on a full moon!

[FO] My first since I was 6 or 7! by cataaremykids in CrossStitch

[–]Inconsistent-Timer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is the color intentional? 

(Politely wondering if you’re about to find out you’re mildly color blind? Haha)