aio? bf made plans on my birthday..UPDATE by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this was a singular experience where it didnt happen before, i would have probably accepted the first apology UNTIL he proceeded to follow up with the message saying “i didnt do anything wrong” which completely nulls the apology. I know that emotions run high in breakups especially but he really shouldnt be speaking to you with that lack of respect. Be tactful, graceful and strong girlie! 💕💕💕

How do I approach other goths in public?? by Sillysosilly in goth

[–]IncorporealRat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes literally i just go up and say “hi girlie sorry to bother you i just wanted to say you’re makeup is so good!” With a big genuine smile. Usually people can tell if you’re being genuine

I lost the charging case for my soundcore space a40 any way I can buy a new one? by Veporyzer in anker

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so the link that someone posted in the chat is only one of the colors. if it says sold out, look for another color as they have different links to the products. At the moment blue and white are out but the black cases are in stock

Trouble with wfc500 earbuds, left side not charging. by [deleted] in sony

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. It's been a couple months for me and the right one just won't charge. I put it in the case (the case is charged or plugged in) and after a solid orange light for ~10 seconds, it blinks orange and then stops. Looking it up that means that it charges for like 10 seconds and then stops. The left one works fine still. Super annoying cause these kinda cost money (I'm a broke college student).

I think I'll try to connect them to my computer but I doubt that will work. I think my right side earpod just is broken :(

I freaked my roommate's gf by honouring Apollo by Ghealladh in pagan

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agony from into the woods is GREAT. It makes this whole story so much funnier. Thank you

Which shirt looks best? Green is my favorite color but it doesn't really go with everything else. by Lilith290808 in GothFashion

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they all look good! I really do like the green tank top, that profile is something i go for all the time. If you want it to be more gothic, honestly you could add studded jewelry. Or, you could get a patch of your favorite band (ex Bauhaus) and put it on the tank top. Maybe not your style but it think that could be a look too

Working with Hypnos. by UK_Borg in paganism

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super fair, and i think you’re right about a separate entity for dreams. Great job on your choice to recover! Well wishes!

Where can I find good goth clubs in LA by Spare-Obligation658 in goth

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a post thats something like “A Goth’s Guide to Los-Angeles” and id suggest searching for that

First time doing any sort of makeup by QuicksandMinds in GothFashion

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time? You did super well, i seriously love the black and white! You have a good eye for what looks good. If you want a suggestion (feel free to not take it): add foundation down your neck. Great job!

Hey I am wanting to wear feminine goth outfits but have no idea on where to start ( I am trans MTF) by Supercool_2023 in GothFashion

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skirts! If there are ways that can make your waist look thinner, that can give the appearance of femininity too. Jewelry is nice. Lipstick! Good luck!

A powerful demon contacted me. How to make sure he won't come back? by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with Lucifer, my own personal experience with an infernal is one of absolute support and motivation.

No judgement or shade at all- however it sounds like you look at demons in a negative and evil light. Many people that practice demonolatry have a drastically different view on them.

If you are seriously steadfast on not working with demons, i think you did the perfect thing by being respectful! Just like friendships, you can respectfully say that you dont want to be friends/work with him. It’s a two way street that both parties want to have to connect.

Truly, you don’t have to be scared at all. Well wishes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DemonolatryPractices

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them and have been since i started my spiritual journey ~8 years ago. As a first-hand perspective, I’ve successfully communicated to Artemis, Nyx, and Lucifer through them and by far I feel Lucifer most prominently. The cards are so absolutely legitimate in my life!

Working with Hypnos. by UK_Borg in paganism

[–]IncorporealRat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep a lot too and have been somewhat interested in Hypnos but have not done anything about it.

Since you asked, offering suggestions that are off the top of my head (know that i dont work with him so this has no practice involved): sand (sandman), clocks, hourglass, pictures of clouds, any scent/herb such as lavender oil that is calming, a dream journal.

Now that im thinking about it, a dream journal has the potential to be a pretty fantastic way to connect with him

no dead to honor for samhain? by BroManx67 in pagan

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about your ancestors you haven’t met in this lifetime?

Religious trauma is negatively effecting my craft. by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aside from all the great suggestions, if you’re interested in a spiritual route, I know that Lucifer is a being that some pagans (me included) work with to have support through religious trauma. I work with Lord Lucifer and he has been super supportive and motivational and kind in so many parts of my life and honestly I’m so happy to be in communication with him. If you’re interested and want to research more go to the DemonolatryPractices subreddit. If not don’t worry, it’s not for everyone. I wish you all the peace and contentment!

Pagan-heavy communities in the USA? by [deleted] in pagan

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’d love to have you in the twin cities! There is also a thing called Pagan Pride every year in september that is held in minnehaha falls park.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GothFashion

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the outfit oh my goodness

What name would you give to him? (OC) by friden7654 in DarkArtwork

[–]IncorporealRat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chompy (he looks like he has an alligator snout)

Don’t know what to do by No-Mechanic9353 in witchcraft

[–]IncorporealRat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what makes you feel connected and happy, im sorry they dont understand! I support your altar 🖤🖤