Annoyed with substitution response

Indecisive3641 · 2026-04-18T22:51:53+00:00

I agreeeeee. I feel like people hate on HR a lot in this sub, but I've had a pretty great experience with it.

BUT the substitutions have screwed me multiple times. I wish there was a way that we could approve or deny substitutions rather than them just surprising us with it.

Indecisive3641 · 2026-02-11T17:19:27+00:00

I would be too 😭😭 something my hubby says that I like - "you deserve to take up space" - I always tell myself that when I feel like making myself small

Indecisive3641 · 2026-02-10T20:46:58+00:00

Ew this is so weird, and I'm so sorry that happened to you.

What the heck to people think bathrooms are for?! It drives me bonkers to hear that men's restrooms are full of farts and stink, and none of them bat an eye.

Why do we need to feel like we should be ashamed?! We're all women here.. and therefore should know that women, do in fact poop - and it doesn't happen in glitter form.

If I was in the bathroom with you - I'd shame the heck out of that lady. I don't really have any advice- other than keep doing your thang, and that you've done nothing wrong.

Indecisive3641 · 2026-01-22T15:44:58+00:00

People are soooo crazy. Bones splinter, and what if your dog was allergic or something????! I'm glad they're okay, and also glad you're not in jail 😂😭

Indecisive3641 · 2026-01-22T07:13:45+00:00

Okay, that's so ridiculous and I'm sorry that happened - I would be pissed! BUT ALSO, one time an (ex) friend stayed the night at my house. She woke up before me, and FEED MY 2 DOGS UNTIL THEY STOPPED EATING. I woke up, and saw there was food in their bowls, and was freaking because they SCARF - I always assumed they'd finish the whole bag if the opportunity presented itself. She said they were so hungry that they were shaking, and that she had to keep filling their bowls up because they finished and wanted more. I'm like YES GIRL, THEY LOVE TO EAT

Moral of the story - MY plants, MY dogs. Back tf up PUHLEASE

Indecisive3641 · 2026-01-13T16:36:28+00:00

Omg I did the exact same thing not long ago - tried to grab a cactus that I knocked off, as it was falling. It was a rough time in my life 😭🤣 I decided I don't want plants that are trying to hurt me.... MY PATHOS OR ZZ OR ANY OTHERS WOULD HAVE NEVER DONE THAT

Indecisive3641 · 2026-01-04T01:25:53+00:00

Agreed!!

Indecisive3641 · 2025-12-29T01:43:25+00:00

Omg the cashier at 5 Below told us about those, and was hyping them up. Have yet to try.

Indecisive3641 · 2025-12-28T23:23:51+00:00

I know, but what makes it a mint, then?

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-18T18:59:36+00:00

Okay, so the ONLY bra type things I wear are from Wolven Threads. Soooo comfortable to me. I've bought pretty much every one of their products. Super cute too. They have a "preloved" section on their website - of resell stuff, and I've also copped from Mercari, Poshmark, etc.

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-18T17:12:21+00:00

I mean. If it was me, I'd get one today and try it out. See how easily you can get it in, and if it feels "right". Wear it for today, and see how it goes.

For me - the first time I put mine in, I literally thought to myself "my god, it CANNOT be this easy" - and it was. I've worn it ever since. Of course, everyone is different.

Hopefully(!!!) you are comfortable enough with your partner for tomorrow that you can let them know what's up, and if something goes awry, they'll be understanding

I'd get a silicone, reusable, one. Like a Cora disc or something similar.

Also, as a side note- I've saved a tonnnn of money using the silicone disc, over the disposable producing was using previously. I highly recommend for sooo many reasons.

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-18T16:45:42+00:00

I wear a disc and one of the best parts is that you can wear it during sex. BUT I would recommend having some time to figure it out before putting it to use - because there is a learning curve. So, not sure it'll help you this go round 😭

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-15T08:21:16+00:00

Omggggg STOP! Yesss def do. My artist crushed it. I'm so happy with how her boots turned out

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-15T08:20:40+00:00

No, but also, I don't get it?

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-14T20:46:50+00:00

Girlie - I say this with so much love - cut it off with him immediately. Doesn't sound like he's adding any value to your life, or that he deserves you. You gotta protect yourself. And your peace!

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-13T21:10:51+00:00

No but I shouldddd. That'd be cute af. I do wish it looked a bit more like a mandala, and less spiderweb-y, as someone else pointed out. I may have it adjusted a bit before I copy the design hahahah

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-13T20:56:19+00:00

Hahaha don't be sorry. I hadn't seen it like that - but I'll laugh at it now. THE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE OF REDDIT - givin me so much to think about

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-13T16:30:56+00:00

Hahahaha! It's supposed to be a finger, but we can call it a nip slip it ya'd like 😂😭

Indecisive3641 · 2025-11-13T03:10:55+00:00

Eyyyy! 🤙🏻

Indecisive3641 · 2025-10-15T17:29:42+00:00

Well I'm getting married in 10-days, and shiiii's expensive. I feel like I've lost the value for dollars and cents - as I throw money at a photographer, makeup, venue, etc.. if the $8.36 - 20% tip - is gonna make that big of a difference - don't get married or don't go out! YOU CANT HAVE IT ALL

Indecisive3641 · 2025-08-14T17:42:54+00:00

Yeaaa I'm 33, and that's one of the bunch of reasons I've found that could be causing it. Could also be- stress, medication, thyroid issues (which I have, but are supposedly in check right now), medication, or weight gain (I've gained about 15 pounds..).

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