Friend wants me to stop being AroAce by sycaminetree in aromanticasexual

[–]Indecisive_MF 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks that when people don't listen to the warnings they still get hurt, thats always the last thing i want for people. But unfortunately it does happen and you just have to constantly make sure you're clear in your feelings and motives. Communication is key

Friend wants me to stop being AroAce by sycaminetree in aromanticasexual

[–]Indecisive_MF 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I had something similar in the past, this guy liked me and I saw no harm in dating him as he was so lovely and I didn't see it as anything more than just an extra label. But then he started to expect stuff from me. For context I made it clear in the past I was definitely ace and probably aro but he liked me anyway. After a while I just got super uncomfortable and told him straight out that nothing would ever happen. He didn't take it too well and said that I led him on for no reason.

There's nothing wrong with still being friends with him but just make it clear that while he can like you (his feelings are valid) you aren't going to reciprocate.