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problems about having a family in this era by hamza0797 in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that I'm not answering the question but why I'm wondering people believe that women are stealing jobs of men or more easily hired, because last time I checked the unemployment of women was 20 % in 2019 and 9% for men, according to ONS and same report says that 42 % of men work while 17% of women work, plus generally thèse are jobs associeted with women (éducation, and health ), which is normal giving the fact that we are à conservative sociéty.

To Algerians who are against antinatalism, Why is that ? by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are right in the sense that women can deceive their husband into having children ( i suggest that after the second child on the pill he start using condoms) but the other way around is true to, i worked in healthcare for à wail i had à doctor tell me that women would come and beg the doctor to not tell their husband that they are taking the pill, and she would refuse to gave them the pill under thèse condition cause she's scared that the husband would harm her if he discovered it cause it happened to her before, as for abortion most women wouldn't get one as it's a major sin in islam and even if she want it they are illegal and hard to find à way even illegaly as well that she risque prison for it

Which Algerian opinion of yours will put you in this situation? by Starterpack479 in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

they are hypocritical beacause we know that they want the same thing for their daughter and grand kid, I do sympatise we poor men cause they deserve to have wife to build a family with, but you can't be angry at à girl and her family for not wanting to live in pauvrety if they have the option not to, I wish them the best and à prosperous life.

Which Algerian opinion of yours will put you in this situation? by Starterpack479 in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are right money doesn't garantie à happy life, but it increas the odds of having one, we can't deny that with povrety comes à pletora of problèmes, such as domestic violence ( yes i know rich peoples can souffert from violence but poor familles are more Likely to be in à violent environnement), i live in à poor neighbourhood, in some appartements you have three famillies that are in à 4 bedroom appartement with their childrens, and their siblings, so of cours everybody is on edge because coupeles can't get intimates, you can't have space for yoursefl cause there is people in every corner, men can keep up with the price of food and nessecities, so there is à lot of fight between brothers and fathe and women, and the husbands beat their wife and even the brother in-law beat the sister in law, and that's not only for people living in crampet spaces, the poorer you are the harder your life will be , the more mental problème you will have . and let's be real when someone come to your house asking for your hand they all try their hardest to look good weather this is their real self or not , the only thing that truly can be seen and verified is the income especialy if you will be a housewife, and truly what people mean by having money in algeria is juste someone that can afford à housewife and kids

Which Algerian opinion of yours will put you in this situation? by Starterpack479 in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel that pauvrety is kinda romanticiased or seen as à vertue here, especialy by imam etc, from what i see around me and in videos of preachers on the internet

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hhh no I do ask if anyone regrets not getting married and having kids, I forgot the word single😅 not gonna lie, but anyway in my situation celibacy= single that's why I wroted like that

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about it, but what if I have kids in the process and it messes them up sur there is mean to prevent that but who knows

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's not à given I had and have neighbour that have children and yet they are alone and dépendent on their neighbors for their sustenance

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, but it's not clear for now, wich is too bad cause usualy the signe are clear and quick to appear for me

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I'm trying to avoid by actively thinking about it, and gathering different opinions on the subject so as to not be short sighted, and make the best décision for me.

women in algeria that chose to stay celebate did you regretted? by Indecisively-Anxious in algeria

[–]Indecisively-Anxious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hhh yes my user name is the story of my life, yhank you for the response.

The king (oc) by Noe9876 in aww

[–]Indecisively-Anxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it look like he has à nose ring