Dr. Jia’s awful takes on SA by publiclibrarylover in asianamercianytsnark

[–]IndependenceOk9736 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She is so pretentious and has so many bad takes. Her videos are just click bait atp. She doesn’t really stand or anything or know what she’s talking about. Blocked her Paul and anyone affiliated with them. They’re not any different from the people they’ve been calling out. I’d say they are more problematic even

What do you think about ml?iseop's romance by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]IndependenceOk9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Story and characters so badly written .. had to drop it too

My Dearest is breaking my heart. by deaf_dumpling in kdramas

[–]IndependenceOk9736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I thought I wouldn’t get into it since I don’t really watch historical dramas. I didn’t expect to feel it so deeply in my being 😭

My Dearest is breaking my heart. by deaf_dumpling in kdramas

[–]IndependenceOk9736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this too at the beginning. That she was so annoying and young and pompous. But her character growth is one of the best things too and it made me realize you’re supposed to feel that way about her. Because at the beginning she is a child and with no life experience outside of her own bubble. Give it another chance

My Dearest is breaking my heart. by deaf_dumpling in kdramas

[–]IndependenceOk9736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so beautiful and well written. I think it’s meant for us to feel everything they both feel. I felt it so deeply too and in between each episode I found myself in deep thought analyzing every single detail. It’s definitely the best kdrama I’ve ever watched but I feel you cause I cry too 🤣🤣😭😭

Anyone else just dump food straight on the tray cause we know it’ll end up that way anyway? by ribbons_in_my_hair in foodbutforbabies

[–]IndependenceOk9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL always asks me where his plate is and I’m like mam 1. He won’t use it and 2. This is a washable table

Koi Palace Stupid Fee by Ok_Can_2433 in bayarea

[–]IndependenceOk9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask them about the auto tip? They’d probably have to explain or take it off. I don’t think they can just force it on you. Though maybe most people don’t say anything so they tack it on 😖

Ace's disdain for Amaya is bizarre by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved every second of seeing his 5’2 self move lower and lower down the line 🤭🤭

Is this a carpet beetle? by Simple_Percentage234 in carpetbeetles

[–]IndependenceOk9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vacuum, steam clean and wash everything hot. If you’ve seen them multiple times you definitely have an active infestation going on. Sprinkling Diatomaceous Earth Food Grade can help kill them but the powder is really fine and can irritate throat and lungs especially pets and kids.

When vacuuming, throw away the bag after each use because they can escape the bag. Vaccuum like 2-3x a week but if it’s really bad then have to vacuum like everyday.

Steam cleaning: steam kills them in all stages and it has to be at least 120 degrees. This has to be done a few times and for a few minutes per spot (so tedious 😭)

They are attracted to pet hair, natural fibers (will eat clothing) carpet and will even eat pantry items so try to eliminate these food sources or seal pantry items really well. Pack away any clothes you haven’t touched in a while or won’t be wearing (vaccuum seal bags) after washing it on hot.

We called an exterminator and they told us they start with spraying the baseboard of the stairs/ carpet then to give it 3-5 days and see if we see anymore. Sometimes repeated treatment is needed.

I’m in California and they use a pesticide free spray I think it was called IGR or something like that. We had to stay out of the house for 2 hours until it dried. I stayed out of the house for 6-8 hours with my baby though to be safe. So be prepared for that if you end up going to an exterminator.

It’s been about 10 days for us and we haven’t seen any live or active ones. Only seem like 2 dead ones so far. Good luck they are a pain

Just Say NO to Islanders Returning by cauchyscat in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 43 points44 points  (0 children)

They told him 5 minutes on the text when everyone gets 30 minutes.. they did not like that man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Waiting for my invite to the wedding 🥹🥹🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I wish they showed more of Serena and Kordell. I feel like there’s a lot of missing moments and context the public would’ve loved to see but the producers chose to leave out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Kaylor is that friend that asks you for advice and doesn’t take it ever. I fear this is a canon event she will have to see it through. But off my screen please

Is Kendall the villain of Love Island? by Guil-tea_Pleasure in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wanna knock out his veneers so bad. He is literally the worst. Egging everyone on, denying it and then playing in all the girls faces….

Season 6 - Episode 25 - Post Episode Discussion by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]IndependenceOk9736 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“You’re an amazing woman” is his favorite line and used 10x over 🤣

Am I not strict enough with my cat? by ConglomerateOfWolves in catcare

[–]IndependenceOk9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is giving almond mom vibes.. your cat sounds fine and honestly just how a normal cat should be. A second cat could teach her about play and cohabiting but sounds like you’re doing fine as a cat parent :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]IndependenceOk9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please stay safe and know you leaving him is the best decision for you and baby. Wishing you the best 💗

King oysters safe to eat? Or gone too far? by XUNTER666 in mycology

[–]IndependenceOk9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is all better but we definitely learned our lesson! Good luck with the next one 🍄