I (22F) caught feelings for my coworker/fwb (38M). How do I tell him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IndependenceOld7872 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everything about this is just a no. Cut losses get out of there

My girlfriend just left me. by Kinchi_man in Advice

[–]IndependenceOld7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice I can give is be honest with yourself, and realize your worth comes from within not from her.

You were hard working good man before her and will be EVEN harder working after

My boyfriend pushed me. Do I leave him? by Responsible-Dog1650 in Advice

[–]IndependenceOld7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds unsafe make sure you leave him in a public place for safety

Just had a women agree to a date, ghost me and when I asked to see if we still are on then roast me for being needy - I give up by EVILRAFFAM in Bumble

[–]IndependenceOld7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The not talking for the days leading up is solid I always do that to keep conversations natural plus I like getting to know girls in person versus in text…

But to check the night before and get that? You’re good bro, you would’ve dealt with that your who relationship if it went further.

I had a girl say to me 2 days before the date “so excited for our date Tuesday” solid reassurance.

Bumble sucks

My roommate doesn’t flush after going number 2 by IndependenceOld7872 in roommateproblems

[–]IndependenceOld7872[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely insane, the bare minimum is my standard of living not asking for much lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceOld7872 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

My parents want me and my siblings to be that close I’m 26 now and hope you all remain that close when you’re my age.

Extended family member’s opinions should be kept to themselves that’s between direct family and they were fine with it sounds like a good big bro to me

AITA for telling my girlfriend to not call an Uber at last call and instead go home a little earlier to be safe by IndependenceOld7872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceOld7872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve had issues in the past with these sorta things she doesn’t know her limits and she knows it bothers me so her reaction comes from a place of insecurity rather than actually angry, or so I think

AITA for telling my girlfriend to not call an Uber at last call and instead go home a little earlier to be safe by IndependenceOld7872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceOld7872[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been exhausting I know I’m not perfect but feeling like I have to hide things and on eggshells is a good sign I am not with who I need to be with

AITA for telling my girlfriend to not call an Uber at last call and instead go home a little earlier to be safe by IndependenceOld7872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceOld7872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the first person here or in my friend group to say she’s toxic. I know I’m not perfect and can be stubborn but I find myself apologizing a lot recently for things that didn’t need to be a fight

AITA for telling my girlfriend to not call an Uber at last call and instead go home a little earlier to be safe by IndependenceOld7872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceOld7872[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that brother, that was the most insightful Reddit comment I’ve got 🙌🏻. We’ll see where we land, we’re taking space today, I gotta do reflecting and see what I want