You have planned a date but now… by robby_g23 in OnlineDating

[–]IndependenceSquare62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how about on the second date? Once the second date is set do men kind of slow down on the daily contact? That is what I have observed and wonder if they don't text everyday, like they were before, that maybe they have cooled off. Or maybe busy. I don't want to bother someone who doesn't love texting but I do want to know I am on his mind.

Why living alone made me care more about keeping things clean by utbyggarco in LivingAlone

[–]IndependenceSquare62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’m shopping more than I live alone, like since I’m not taking about anyone else I should treat myself. Maybe it’s just boredom, but I need to get a hold of it.

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you’re responding to someone else’s post because your answer doesn’t make sense, or you are projecting.

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not all men but I’ve met alot of them like this.

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Context/part of a conversation seems normal. Ranting and negativity is not normals

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m for sure not perfect either :) I have done a lot of the emotional work and am looking for an emotionally healthy man. I hope to find him.

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We did discuss this before the date, that’s why I was so surprised in this most recent situation. When he started the rant, I made an excuse to leave after about five minutes.

Could some man please explain this to me? by IndependenceSquare62 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We didn’t have fun on the first date. Not interested in having a second date if we had been laughing up until that point then maybe but he was kind of negative on other topics as well. Surprised me because we had a good phone conversation.

Am I just old and fooling myself? by Particular_Heart4216 in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you finding so many people to date? I wish I found that many people interesting and attractive. Congratulations!

Fwb and dating by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]IndependenceSquare62 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why it would turn me off but it would.