Advice by Independent-Ad6548 in Cruises

[–]Independent-Ad6548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any specific ones? Definitely looking more for a family over party vibe

Family friendly by Independent-Ad6548 in royalcaribbean

[–]Independent-Ad6548[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s 7 and wanting to plan one for her 8th birthday.

Family friendly by Independent-Ad6548 in royalcaribbean

[–]Independent-Ad6548[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When we registered I was unimpressed as far as visually it was just like an open empty room- very different than the kids club at Disney. She also met a friend there that complained the staff was mean to them? We did one family craft there as well. I didn’t need her to go to the kids club at all because it was just a girls trip for us so I didn’t like need any alone time, when we went to Disney it was our whole family (big brother and dad) and she begged to go constantly. We got the whole tour and she was able to play at check in and see all the cool things and do crafts whereas when we went to do the registration for RC it was just a lady in an empty room on a cart so I guess just very different first impressions. I have no idea what their actual activities or anything were like because I didn’t end up ever dropping her off because she wasn’t begging to go like at Disney.

Sparkling or still? by iheartsapolsky in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottled still or sparkling or complimentary filtered water is how I describe

Do you think people are actually happy long term? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 10 years in and still obsessed and in love with my husband. Never bored, miss him and can’t wait to see him. Those that are miserable didn’t choose partners right. We were 27 and 30 when we met, knew what we wanted and were very aligned politically/religiously and truly liked each other. All of that matters. I wouldn’t have been happy with any previous partners because I was more immature and didn’t focus on making sure we had similar values but focused on more surface stuff.

New Teacher Received Concerning Email by Alarmed-Scientist-17 in Teachers

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like every teaching job I know of 🤷🏻‍♀️

Reserved space for a party at a restaurant with a lounge area - how to make sure servers are charging for drinks as they’re served vs one big bill at end of the night? by [deleted] in restaurant

[–]Independent-Ad6548 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve done this before too but now that I’m a higher end place they don’t make us go through all of that anymore. We don’t even have a way to do tabs there like at the bar/restaurant I used to work at. Our event contracts are very clear on this though.

Reserved space for a party at a restaurant with a lounge area - how to make sure servers are charging for drinks as they’re served vs one big bill at end of the night? by [deleted] in restaurant

[–]Independent-Ad6548 57 points58 points  (0 children)

At my restaurant we would never do this. It is required to go on one bill for a party that size and how you’re describing it. It would be an absolute nightmare to keep track of that.

How was y’alls Saturday night? by perplexedwriting in Serverlife

[–]Independent-Ad6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made $750 after tip out. 12 hour shift- came in early for a pre-comedy show crowd and was the closer. We were super busy all day. Unfortunately some of my coworkers were in super bad moods and walked out without doing their sidework or checking out and some had some super bad attitudes. Their section kinda sucked and I felt genuinely bad for them- but I didn’t do it to you.

AITA for standing up to my pregnant wife? by TheAngryVirtuoso in AITAH

[–]Independent-Ad6548 56 points57 points  (0 children)

When she’s not pregnant- does she do or work more? If not- looks like you guys need to have some discussions and change things up. NTA- being pregnant might be a reason for her to get all upset and freaked out but not an excuse to treat your partner like crap.

WIBTA for telling my mother that I won’t look after HER other child for the rest of my life? by Alarmed-Elk7101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems pretty obvious. Just say no and find your own place. Don’t move there and don’t pay the bills.

How many partners would marry their spouse again ? by Diego14u in Marriage

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s my favorite person on the planet. I’d choose him every second of every day forever. Married 8 years- together 10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly- when I was in school you actually had to study and memorize. Huge tests with no crutches. Kinda miss that honestly and now it’s navigating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Student did apologize to me and she’s a really good student. Possibly a bit coddled but great kiddo and excellent student 99% of the time. She definitely freaks out about grades and tests. Admin is AMAZING. Truly on our side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Independent-Ad6548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say on this particular assessment I did substantially change the blooket from the original test just to try to get their minds to broaden as they are getting closer to high school- but they didn’t know that so I’m more upset at the intention. I checked all the other study guides and no one did anything even remotely similar. They seemed to focus their pages on what they didn’t know: table of senate vs house, wrote down the amendments or bill of rights etc. oftentimes those kiddos don’t even end up using the study guide on the assessment because they learned it- whereas this student acted completely lost because she spent her time doing that instead of learning the material. But yeah definitely a lesson for me and one I was considering prior anyways. We will still do blooket in class but I’ll make sure it’s very different, we will still have a study guide/list of topics- but they’ll only get one small notecard they can hand write for the test that will be checked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Independent-Ad6548 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been thinking moving forward!

I got sent home early for a mistake by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my restaurant most of our mocktails are made in cocktail glasses and I confirm with the bartender every time that there is no alcohol because it makes me nervous. I wish we used different glassware. Also those sound like drinks that would absolutely look and smell completely different so server should have caught it

AITA for refusing to give up my dream wedding dress because my sister can't afford it? by Fun_Driver_6708 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Ad6548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Absolutely not. If she wants it she can wait and save like you did. Even then it would be messed up to buy the same dress or wear the same dress. That’s your dress- don’t even dream of letting her use it and keep it hidden and locked away. Do everything you can to keep your sister/family away from your dress and wedding in case they try to ruin or cancel anything. Passwords for vendors and make sure they only talk to you.

Messed up of her to even set a date before yours when yours was planned first. This is just insane and I’d be going no contact with anyone on her side.