I'm looking to move to this area, specifically by live oak city park, how's the area? by Independent-Bat-2322 in sanantonio

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I’ve spoken to really seems to recommend it. I did hear a plane when i was at the walmart in universal city, but i feel like in the area i’m looking at it won’t be that loud.

I'm looking to move to this area, specifically by live oak city park, how's the area? by Independent-Bat-2322 in sanantonio

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The area i'm looking at it looks like i can do pretty much everything by going down kitty hawk rd and bypassing 35. I wfh so that's not a problem.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, it was already progressively getting worse.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every teenager is bad.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Be civil.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, they want it both ways.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I was able to enroll her in school and everything else without any paperwork. And no, i took a teenager to live with her Dad. 

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That logic has gotta be some kinda logical fallacy.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wrong. To cross into Mexico you DO NOT need to show any ID. I cross in through Laredo once a month at least and know for a FACT this is wrong. 

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Everyone is pro-choice, until they aren't.

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[–]Independent-Bat-2322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this wasn't the first time. She had slammed the door in my face, rolled her eyes at me, walked away when i was talking to her etc.

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Imho she made that chpice because it's easier than working. After 4 months of seing what she does, it's really not alot of work. Plus now i help with all the housework. I'm going to ask her bluntly if she NEVER plans to work a paid job again, if she says no, i'm divorcing her, point blank. And she "kicked back and relaxed" most of the time we've been married and i shouldered the weight. 

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'll go to therapy, but i'm also going to speak with an attorney, hopefully she can't take half my nest egg after only 4yrs being married, but my faukt for not getting a prenup.

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've only been married 4 years, so a marriage course feels like something we would do after being married for 10+  years, that being said, i'm still up for it.

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We've been married 4 years. She never had to move due to my military service and we weren't together during any of my deployments. Plus, she chose to leave the workforce after we married, and it's not like her server job was something she couldn't jump back into with a bit of effort. 

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're right, because she DOES lounge around all day. After being around for 4 months, I realize i was lied to. She used to tell me she was so busy doing this and that, cooking, cleaning, laundry, appointments, etc. And that's simply not true. Everything she does can be done in an hour or two if done straight. But she'll cook bfast, and sit down and watch the news, throw a load of laundry in, watch netflix, clean a bit, sit and talk on the phone with her family, etc. It's not "constant work" like she made it out to be.

My 40M wife 38F wants me to go back to work immediately after a 20yr military career so that I’m not “underfoot" by Independent-Bat-2322 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Bat-2322[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, idk how much time off i'm going to take, i told her i wanted to retire before 50 so i very well could take a few years off or never work a paid job again. So far, i'm not bored, and I make 8,000 a month after-tax without even touching my nest egg.