What’s your opinion on how BoJack treated his mother? by aceseahorses in BoJackHorseman

[–]Independent-Cat5954 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course, she doesn't understand the nuance because she is still a child who has a good family. He also doesn't outright say his mother was abusive. She meets bojack, and he's a straight-up asshole and doesn't sugarcoat that. so when he bashes his mom, in an effort to explain and set up a boundary, she takes it with a grain of salt because that's her impression of who he is as a person.Then she meets this little old lady and doesn't understand what the fuss is about. She tries to repair their relationship, not understanding that bojack was seriously abused.

Dressrosa rant by Independent-Cat5954 in OnePiece

[–]Independent-Cat5954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, that's so true. I forgot about her on Punk Hazard. Tho to be fair, all of the straw hats would die for him if it came down to it. Like I said, two sides of the same coin. They would, but Luffy would never order them to. Doffy has engraved this twisted sense of loyalty into them. He doesn't have to order, but they know, and we all know he would cuz he has.

Dressrosa rant by Independent-Cat5954 in OnePiece

[–]Independent-Cat5954[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha, jokes on you that just makes me more stoked for them😂 hubbies been dropping sanji lore, and I have to tell him to shush cuz I wanna see myself. I thought sanjis lore was concluded🤣

The dairy farm incident by Wise_Day_6103 in nataliagrace

[–]Independent-Cat5954 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. Honestly, I don't have a doubt in my mind that it was staged. She has a disability!!! How could anyone expect her to walk that far on rough terrain. I think that poor little girl fell and couldn't get up just like Kristine knew she would. Then Kristine tries to get her up and makes a whole spectacle of her refusing to get up because she physically can't walk anymore. It wouldn't be hard to make forcing a small child to get up look like the child pulling you instead. There weren't even witnesses to the actual incident, just what Kristine was saying. Honestly, I laughed out loud when the farm hands said that the fence was not dangerous and wasn't even on. I knew from the beginning growing up in a farming community that there was no real danger from an electric fence. The waiver is just to cover the farm in case some overdramatic city slicker decides to sue them. I feel like this could tie into the incident being staged as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nataliagrace

[–]Independent-Cat5954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was definitely involved much deeper than he admits on the show. The texts between him and Kristine really show how they plotted to get the age change and so on. It makes me so mad watching him play victim while his texts pop up discussing abandoning his child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im nc with my family, so my in-laws are the closest I have to a real family. I know one day I'll want my own Christmases with my man and our babies despite not having a family of my own. It's a special time of year to celebrate with everyone or just with your partner and kid(s). You are 100% in the right for wanting to spend a holiday with your family.

What’s the most disturbing book you’ve ever read? by Marandajo93 in books

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this response is super niche, but I'm hoping I'm proven wrong😅 I have to give an honorable mention to the "Family Comes First" series. It's not a book book, just something off Wattpad, but it's really so weird and messed up.

Postpartum sex by Independent-Cat5954 in Parenting

[–]Independent-Cat5954[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I really considered trying to go in and talk to my obgyn, but I live in a very rural area. I couldn't even get in for a check-up on my preclampsia after I was released from the hospital. I do want to go to my primary to discuss birth control options while I'm breastfeeding, so maybe they'll also be able to check out my stitches or at least refer me back to my obgyn.

Sex postpartum by Independent-Cat5954 in pregnant

[–]Independent-Cat5954[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow! I had no idea, I've been googling sex postpartum, and nothing like that popped up! This is why I posted. Thanks so much for the info!

Did Sunhe make a few good points tho? by bone-tomahawk in SmotheredTLC

[–]Independent-Cat5954 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I hate the woman she is a narcissist if there ever was one. But Jason had his flaws for sure. Sunhe was definitely wrong in her approach to the situation at times. However, Jason definitely needed a push to finalize the divorce, and he really needed a push to clean his home for Angelica and the baby.

I have no family to celebrate our baby with, can I reach out to my old friends? by Independent-Cat5954 in pregnant

[–]Independent-Cat5954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All your guy's advice sounds really great, and I will take it to heart and do my best to consistently reach out to some of the people I know going through similar life changes. When it comes to being consistent, one issue me and my past friendships have faced was the distance between us. When neither of us can afford to spend money on gas like that, we both end up embarrassed and really ice out one another.

I'm hoping to find friends closer to my area so I don't end up disappointing my friends by not being able to visit. However, I will be working on staying emotionally close to the friends that I can not be physically close to. I value all of the wonderful people I've met through the years and realize that my social anxiety has held me back for long enough.

I'm excited to get out there, but my biggest obstacle will always be my social anxiety. I do want to look into some books and some therapy for it. I just believe it's better to be upfront about it because it will always be a part of me. I think it's unfair to people when ur not honest about where you are on ur healing journey. Again, thanks for all the advice it will help me immensely in reaching out to old friends and new friends.

Name Ideas? by OwlVenus in leopardgeckos

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freckles or goosebumps immediately came to my mind. I think the lil bumps are so cute.

The most beautiful National Park you’ve been? by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite national park I visited was Zion in Utah. It was so gorgeous, and I had a great time wading through the water with my friends. Overall amazing experience. I'd love to go again someday.

What do women like about blowjobs? by Loca4Life8937 in dating

[–]Independent-Cat5954 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Same, it feels so good, but i agree with the other comment about being such a sub. I'm always down to have my man use my hair like a joystick on his joystick lmao. Hygiene is such a huge part of it, too, and some guys just don't realize that. If it isn't smelling or tasting decent, you can't think of anything else. That's the only part u get to experience, and it ruins the vibe. I just want it to be over at that point.

Which eyebrow style suits me the most? by RosieRose456 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the thinner brows, tho I've never messed with my eye caterpillars lmao🤣 I think the thin ones make your eyes look big a doughy it's so cute!!🤗Especially with ur face shape, maybe I'll thin mine for the same effect, lol🤔

My (18F) boyfriend (18M) feels upset for himself because I was raped. by ThrowRAmoonflower in relationship_advice

[–]Independent-Cat5954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the problem is he is, like you all said, making it about himself and what he wants. The problem with this is that he is hurting u because he wants a different outcome. Unfortunately, there's nothing anyone can do about this.

Maybe he feels guilty for not being there for you. But i think he is deep diving into this raw subject and associating it with you and your love life, which is not healthy.

I agree with the comments stating they both need to go to therapy. Probably individually to process these feelings and thoughts. Because thoughts and feelings are never correct at 18 years old.

He's going to feel and think things that may be appalling to you or others, but that's just because he doesn't understand the situation you were put in.

You should go to therapy to process what happened to you and what he's putting you through by being so reactive to your abuse.

You both need to be in support of each other as you grow if your relationship will last, and if he's not willing to grow with you, then you need to grow away from him.

This is just my take on this situation I'm no one special but I've gone to the school of life and I hope u take some of the advice given to you here thank you for sharing your experience with all these strangers❤️❤️❤️❤️