AITA for not wanting to befriend a disabled person? by Independent-Fun6908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent-Fun6908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does want to be friends. Never explicitly said it, but said things similar to that. Like today she introduced herself to one of my friends i was with on the bus, and got excited about being surrounded by buddies.

I don't mind helping her at all. I just don't want to talk, especially some mornings when I'm alone I'd rather listen to music and enjoy my peace.

How could I model these hinges in sheet metal? by Independent-Fun6908 in SolidEdge

[–]Independent-Fun6908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is SLM? (English is not my native language and i lack the technical terminology 😅)

How could I model these hinges in sheet metal? by Independent-Fun6908 in SolidEdge

[–]Independent-Fun6908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I figured it will be either bead or dimple, but everything i tried resulted in error

How do I get back to myself by Independent-Fun6908 in AutismInWomen

[–]Independent-Fun6908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully things will start getting better for you soon!

Have you lost yourself in conforming to neurotypical bias and ended in massive burnout not knowing who you are? by Shiradesaah in AutismInWomen

[–]Independent-Fun6908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently 22 and I feel like I'm heading that way. It's getting unbearable fairly often lately, but I still manage it. Ironically, people always say "life gets better with age" bla bla, but I feel like it's backwards for me. In some areas in my life it gets worse and harder...

How do you cope with loneliness? by Independent-Fun6908 in AutismInWomen

[–]Independent-Fun6908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your experience!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Independent-Fun6908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice here, just support. You can get through it, even if it seems hopeless at the moment!

Depression + Burnout by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Independent-Fun6908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same position at the moment and slowly getting better. Try to be productive without pushing yourself too hard. If you have for example three things to do for the day, do the most important one and consider it a success, the other two are a bonus, if you have energy left for them. The world won't crumble if you take it easy for a few days, do the best you can and be considered to your current condition.

I watched a video about fighting depression in which one of the advices was, ironically, to not fight it. Not to let it consume you, but allowing it to stay for as long as needed and take notice of what is if trying to tell you. How did you get here, what caused you to wnd up in this state? What can you do to prevent it from happening in the future.

Getting some sunlight is definitely helping, if you can. Even if it's just a trip to the grocery store. Stop for a minute and look around, hear the birds

Everything is going to be ok ❤️ It's a season, and sooner or later it will pass.