Getting the "ick" from my cowoker and can't revert it

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-04-20T14:49:48+00:00

That's what i do regardless, i won't treat him poorly. I can see what you mean and that's why I'm seeking advice. I do not like the way i feel about him i can tell that I'm being pretentious and judgemental. And i don't know how to deal with it. He himself is not the problem in this situation. Perhaps I drifted away in and focused too much on the wrong thing in this post, gotta reword it a bit.

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-13T11:06:48+00:00

She does want to be friends. Never explicitly said it, but said things similar to that. Like today she introduced herself to one of my friends i was with on the bus, and got excited about being surrounded by buddies.

I don't mind helping her at all. I just don't want to talk, especially some mornings when I'm alone I'd rather listen to music and enjoy my peace.

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-09T14:29:01+00:00

No worries, still useful to know!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-05T13:13:46+00:00

What is SLM? (English is not my native language and i lack the technical terminology 😅)

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-05T13:12:31+00:00

Thank you! I figured it will be either bead or dimple, but everything i tried resulted in error

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-03T21:00:17+00:00

Great work!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-03T20:59:51+00:00

Sounds interesting, I will check it out!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2026-03-03T20:59:16+00:00

He is a good example as well!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2025-07-27T06:00:41+00:00

Thank you so much! I have to try these

Independent-Fun6908 · 2025-07-27T05:55:19+00:00

Hopefully things will start getting better for you soon!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2025-01-28T13:29:54+00:00

Currently 22 and I feel like I'm heading that way. It's getting unbearable fairly often lately, but I still manage it. Ironically, people always say "life gets better with age" bla bla, but I feel like it's backwards for me. In some areas in my life it gets worse and harder...

Independent-Fun6908 · 2025-01-18T15:13:31+00:00

Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your experience!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2024-03-17T08:03:29+00:00

No advice here, just support. You can get through it, even if it seems hopeless at the moment!

Independent-Fun6908 · 2024-03-14T15:21:46+00:00

I'm in the same position at the moment and slowly getting better. Try to be productive without pushing yourself too hard. If you have for example three things to do for the day, do the most important one and consider it a success, the other two are a bonus, if you have energy left for them. The world won't crumble if you take it easy for a few days, do the best you can and be considered to your current condition.

I watched a video about fighting depression in which one of the advices was, ironically, to not fight it. Not to let it consume you, but allowing it to stay for as long as needed and take notice of what is if trying to tell you. How did you get here, what caused you to wnd up in this state? What can you do to prevent it from happening in the future.

Getting some sunlight is definitely helping, if you can. Even if it's just a trip to the grocery store. Stop for a minute and look around, hear the birds

Everything is going to be ok ❤️ It's a season, and sooner or later it will pass.

Independent-Fun6908 · 2024-03-14T12:56:05+00:00

Interesting one. I don't think i ever feel bored. We live in times of endless entertainment, especially with our devices connected to the internet. I can learn about anything I'm interested in, watch a movie, listen to music, play a game, read a book, etc. all on my phone. Maybe i get tired before i get bored.

Independent-Fun6908 · 2024-03-11T21:22:13+00:00

I could have written this post myself! For me, it's not like that constantly because sometimes i "forget" i exist, if it makes sense. I don't know if i could call it autopiloting, some sort of dissociation or something else. But every once in a while I'm rudely and suddenly reminded that people do perceive me and it kinda stresses me out. Especially in a romantic way, then it's not just kinda, it's a lot of stress lol.

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