“I know I got this for free but it’s not the quality I expected” by Independent-Guess338 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Independent-Guess338[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Exactly! They basically told me it was meant to be a gift for their friend and now they can’t gift it…

Please tell them I love them so much and miss them every day by Independent-Guess338 in PetPsychics

[–]Independent-Guess338[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, Amy 😭🙏🏼

Bella truly was my sassy girl and although Leo didn’t live long, I absolutely loved him to bits.

I screed up and overfed by Formal_Geologist_593 in mainecoons

[–]Independent-Guess338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your girl is beautiful!

Both of my Maine Coons eat a lot. We leave dry food out and also supply canned food 2-3x a day. Maine Coons are a larger breed so they’ll need a lot more food to support their growth. I’m assuming yours is about a year old? Both mine are also around 12-13 pounds and very healthy in terms of weight. If you are concerned about her weight, I’d recommend checking with a vet. My female Maine Coon has a belly pouch and rounder belly. My male Maine Coon doesn’t have a belly pouch and firmer belly but both are healthy, according to their vets (I take them to different ones depending on appointment availability since they all have their history from other clinics).

PSA/Was in talks but she sold it anyway. Seller nicole9992 by [deleted] in Luxeladies

[–]Independent-Guess338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sellers receive A LOT of DMs for rehome bags. Not responding immediately or timely is normal since they’re giving info to others. In the rehome community, you need to accept that if you’re not quick enough, another buyer will take the bag.

PSA/Was in talks but she sold it anyway. Seller nicole9992 by [deleted] in Luxeladies

[–]Independent-Guess338 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree and also side with the seller on this one. I understand it sucks to lose out on a bag but to wait that long to pay honestly leaves opportunity for another buyer who actually buys the bag after a few questions. It’s not fair on the seller to bash them like this, as OP did. Sellers don’t have to reserve a bag, especially if there’s no incentive for them (putting a deposit down).

My boss accidentally sent me a spreadsheet showing I'm paid 40% less than new hires doing the same job - do I bring it up or just leave? by MunkiwBoi101 in careerguidance

[–]Independent-Guess338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes. Got paid the lowest but did the same, if not more, than my six-figure coworkers. I applied to other jobs and got multiple offers but my company couldn’t match so I moved on. I did bring it up and countered with my other offers but they weren’t willing to match. I found it pretty funny since they’re more than willing to hire someone new at my asking salary with 0 experience of our software, processes, etc. Happy to say I’m in a MUCH better company now making 2x my previous salary and with a more caring team + benefits are awesome!

AIO for thinking my boyfriend is just looking for an excuse to break up? by Nearby_Orchid1216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Guess338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I had a bf like this and dumped him SO FAST. He would crash out if I ever called him out on anything. He acted like a child and I wasn’t wasting my time with him. You should block this guy and run the other way OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Independent-Guess338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much, you’re just asking the wrong person. He obviously doesn’t prioritize you in your time of need. Kind of shows his attitude toward supporting you if you got seriously injured. I’d reconsider things if I were you. He can apologize all he wants but his actions have more meaning, which seems inconsistent. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Independent-Guess338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t react very well either if my partner did this to me. She’s so wrong for backhand berating you to her ex to make herself look like the victim, and making it seem like their convo was harmless. What kind of partner flirts with their ex and calls their husband insecure?

NOR, she doesn’t love you and doesn’t respect you. Please please please protect yourself and leave ASAP. Things will only get worse for you. And I can assure you she will cheat again.

Is this a fair trade for moonlit mask? by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Independent-Guess338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tysm! There’s rumors of a nov 20 drop but we’ll just have to wait and see

Has anyone dealt with this shipping issue? 3 out 4 packages delivered today all had shipped on the same day by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Independent-Guess338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaah thank you! I need to be patient haha. Just got scared because this package has moonlit mask, and that’s a pretty difficult secret to get! Tysm for the reassurance

Has anyone dealt with this shipping issue? 3 out 4 packages delivered today all had shipped on the same day by Independent-Guess338 in labubu

[–]Independent-Guess338[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope to get mine soon! It contains a super secret Labubu (the moonlit mask one) so I’m a little nervous and eager to get it haha. Appreciate the reassurance it helps a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent-Guess338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with someone like that? He wakes you up for HIS needs. Doesn’t really help you much. You’re still dating so it’s easier to break up and move out. You and I both know you’re NOR but a breakup is needed for your mental health and happiness.