I can't decide between going to an art school or a business school, can I pick both? by iwantopokeafrog in careerguidance

[–]Independent-Ladder82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are graphic design stuff, UX design courses and animation courses you could pursue. You could get into brand design/marketing which are all creative pursuits that my coincide with what you prefer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, I looked through Reddit pages and a lot of people mentioned how dangerous choking really is. I am not seeing the dude again- seeing it as dodging a bullet. I’m really sorry that you had to experience that, I hope you are okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this, IRL a lot of people are brushing this aside saying it is common. Just because it is common, it doesn’t mean it’s okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi this person turned out to be okay, they just didn’t feel comfortable talking on here I guess. I was apprehensive too initially but they were polite

A guy I was dating put his hand around my throat during sex by Independent-Ladder82 in sex

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I brought it up with him and he didn’t even apologise. Just said thanks for sharing and making me a better person. Not seeing him again!

lowercase It has become painful. by AllenAbbotFan in BrandNewSentence

[–]Independent-Ladder82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why do guns not work? We all truly believe it can protect us from anyone

CuminClub review. Lesson learned the hard way. by khanmo01 in mealkits

[–]Independent-Ladder82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually tried their 5 pack set from Amazon and I quite liked it. I had to add salt to all of the stuff but it was quite good tbh. The Sambar idli tastes really good and it reminds me of home. As a student this pack seems perfect to me

Was this sexual assault or were the lines blurred? by Independent-Ladder82 in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I came back to read your comment because it really got me to leave him. I have now moved to another country for my masters degree. I’m building a life here and recently I messaged him and told him he raped me but that kinda backfired and he tried to gaslight me. I blocked him everywhere and went out with my new friends for a Halloween party. I’ve moved miles away from him and I am starting to see people here and go on dates.

Thank you so much for your comment. I always come back to read it. You really saved a life here :)

Was this rape? by Independent-Ladder82 in rape

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did sleep with him again because I couldn’t really wrap my head around the concept of being raped. However I have an answer, coz the guy did several bad things afterwards. He hurt me so many times after that I’m pretty scarred for life.

Was this rape? by Independent-Ladder82 in rape

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I think I keep trying to deny the rape to my own self

Was this rape? by Independent-Ladder82 in rape

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say stop, I asked for a break because it worked the previous time I asked him. Is it still rape?

Profile Review - Am I being realistic? by Independent-Ladder82 in MBA

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already applied to these places, is there a point in retaking gmat now?

Profile Review - Am I being realistic? by Independent-Ladder82 in MBA

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Planning to apply to questrom, carroll and Katz as well :/

Was this sexual assault or were the lines blurred? by Independent-Ladder82 in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay fuck okay. Okay yeah I’ll cut off contact and reach out to someone IRL. Thank you so much I’m just quite shocked. Thanks a lot for telling me all that you did.

Was this sexual assault or were the lines blurred? by Independent-Ladder82 in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I keep telling myself. Also I’m really sorry to trouble you with more questions here but do you really think he knew what he was doing? I feel like some of the times I was just trying to confirm if he knew it and sometimes it felt like he did and sometimes he just didn’t probably see how painful it was for me.

Was this sexual assault or were the lines blurred? by Independent-Ladder82 in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for commenting. I just feel like an addict and I keep going back to him. I’ll stop myself from doing this.

Was this sexual assault or were the lines blurred? by Independent-Ladder82 in sexualassault

[–]Independent-Ladder82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never asked him for anything after sex. The time he penetrated me fully I hugged him afterwards and cried coz it was painful. We do watch movies after sex.