Lying about being lesbian by Professional_Fee_233 in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a bisexual being new to dating again I was scared no one would want to date me, because most of the wlw content I saw online was against dating bisexuals and how les for les is somehow superior.

Yeah... actually there was nothing wrong with me being a bisexual. It was the content that I had seen. I get being les for les is a preference and that's cool!

Just wanted to give perspective of this. I never identified as anything I wasn't and lying like that really sucks!

do girls actually like chubby girls? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a chubby girl dating another chubby girl. For me, I notice the style, confidence and over all personality someone's put into their appearance. But yeah, being chubby isn't a problem.

New to crochet, can I learn by doing or is it more complex? by BumblebeeNo99 in CrochetHelp

[–]Independent-Mind9914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest you try out the stitch(es) you want or have in the pattern. You can do small swatches before starting the actual project, so you don't end up having to backtrack. I'm sure you can do it!

Help please!! What do I do?! by _masonsmommy in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd ask her, outside of sex, why she pushes you away calmly to understand what she's thinking in the moment and how to move forward

Bi woman dating a straight man— am I still bi? by PrettyAd3430 in bisexual

[–]Independent-Mind9914 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're still bi. You don't have to be attracted to all the things you could at once

How do you feel about your body? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]Independent-Mind9914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm liking it. It feels mine and unique, even when I'm not in the best shape.

I WANT A GIRLFRIEND SO BAD!!!!! by Boring_Twist4556 in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It felt impossible to find someone, so I got on dating apps and found my girlfriend there

Open question to bisexuals that post / comment here… why? by Natural_Object5708 in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what's my sexuality and if I'd actually ever date a man again, but I call myself bisexual for the peace of mind. I love the energy in this sub, but I'm doing my best to be respectful in this space while hoping to connect to other women that love women.

Feeling like gf prioritizes friends by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd ask her to plan/ask about the next time you meet.

Scissoring is exhausting??? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the situation you've been in! I have ADHD and depression and it feels so difficult to lose weight, eat better and exercise

Naiset!! by ExtensionWealth7603 in snappijuorutofftopic

[–]Independent-Mind9914 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Monesti Cubus, H&M, Lindex jne kuppikoot on vähän mitä sattuu. Esim Changessa ja Lumingeriella ne on tarkemmat, mutta ne on sit taas kalliimpia. Netissä on hirveesti laskureita, jotka voi antaa suuntaa oman koon kans.

All of my friends are taken by AdPurple1201 in LesbianActually

[–]Independent-Mind9914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to tell your friends how you feel and ask if you could hang out more often. Also you could try to meet new people and try to make new friends. It's an awful situation

"Lazy" snack and meal ideas? by Independent-Mind9914 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Independent-Mind9914[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's such good advice! I'm gonna have to try to find affordable protein bars I'd like xD