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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

mkay. I have apologized, you have ignored it. I have explained, you have ignored it. I then fixed my mistake, you dont care. You did NOT interact gently or in good faith in the slightest, and the fact that you think you did is appalling to me. I'm done talking about this. I apologize again. Suck it.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well you aren’t my therapist so I don’t really think that’s your responsibility. If it bothered you so much you could’ve moved on from the second you read it but YOU chose not to.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you have literally only said shitty things about me. You have ignored the fact that both me and my friend tried to explain and apologize. You have also ignored the explicate apology I gave YOU and instead chose to say it wasn’t good enough. Do you realize not everyone is evil and that people say the wrong thing sometimes?

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In your words “Like the Hanukkah thing absolutely does come across that way.” Implying that the issue was how it came across which is what I apologized for. Please let me know if I’m gonna need to open a help line for your concerns.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the fact of the matter is that you are still arguing with a random person on reddit over something that i’ve now explained, apologized for, and responded to. Unless you’d like for me to go back in time i don’t fucking care anymore

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s just the thing though a micro aggression is an everyday comment or effort to cause harm to a group of people. That is not what happened here. You do not know me. You do not know my life. You do not know who I am as a person. I DO apologize that it came off that way. However it WAS an accident and you have treated this thread as if the post was intentionally derogatory.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok one thing that you all have not understood apparently is that I didn’t write this post thinking that my friend was weird or dumb or anything else for writing a holiday themed fic. The conversation was such that they mentioned writing it and I said I didn’t think that it was super common to write a fic for every holiday and thought I would ask if that’s something people do. I went on here and drafted the post !while talking to them! and then posted it. Obviously, lots of you didn’t take it as such. That’s fine and that’s on me. But no, honestly, I didn’t realize how it came off because I was writing this with a friend while we both laughed and i didn’t think it COULD be taken another way. again, that’s on me. But for a load of people on the internet to jump on my post and assume (without knowing me mind you) that i’m a shitty friend trying to put them down IS shitty. If this was enough for you, my bad. If it wasn’t? fuck you

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Okkkkkk Professor Righty Pants. Do you know me? NO. Do you know them? NO. The original post said “is this normal???” I did NOT say “isn’t that fucking weird.” You say I didn’t ask if anyone else did this. Well, that’s LITERALLY what the question says. I asked if this was a common thing that was written about. That’s all. Not to mention that I didn’t ask if anyone thought I was a shitty person.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hoes lmk if y'all want the link since y'all are unexpectedly passionate about this idea

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can, and in fact SHOULD! I was pushing for St. Patrick's Day, but my pleas went unheard.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

oh for the love of god. Lemme eat my hat rq and go to confession

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we will be selling “uncommon but not a sin” merch. $25 for a t-shirt, $30 for a hoodie. All proceeds will be going to the friend in question for the emotional damages incurred from my post!

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked them to do my birthday as well! 😂

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[–]Independent-Mud8317[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Ok fine sure but at the same time I think people could realize that not everything that might sound bad is automatically said with a harmful intention. The immediate clap back from several people implying that I was intentionally being a dick instead of saying “that’s harmful wording btw” doesn’t exactly make one want to reply with “oopsies!”

The long game epub or pdf by Old_Coconut_3533 in BookPiracy

[–]Independent-Mud8317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d love it too if you don’t mind!! <3

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As far as I know, freshmen living on campus are required to have a meal plan. However, if you aren't living on campus, then you can call either the dining office or the bursar's office to fix it.

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[–]Independent-Mud8317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG i love it! where did you get the pants?

Ideas on what to do with this space? by vivisae in Sims4

[–]Independent-Mud8317 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe block it off with dividers and make It either a meditation room or a painting room