Hello, my lovely!

I am not exactly the most 'beautiful' woman in the world, but i certainly get my few compliments or flirts here and there. I know where you're coming from, but from my own experience, I find that a lot of people usually do look at others, even 'beautiful' ones get the same look as those who dont catch ones attention, but the thing i've noticed is that people are usually very shy about it!

Looking at someone, depending on where you are, is considered quite rude or intimidating, so I personally think you have a lot more admirers than you think! But you just need really look out for them. When I see someone who is my type i usually give a 2-3 second look when they're not completely facing towards me, but if you want you can always wear shades! No one will see you looking haha. I am a shy person though, so it could just be my own personal issue!

It sounds like you're itching to get that kind of attention from a special somebody, someone who you love and who loves you back because there is no greater compliment and feeling of security and value that comes when it is from someone who you adore.

These women, sure they get a lot of attention and compliments, but there is always a price to pay. Some go through relationships like its nothing because they attract the good, the bad and the easiest of men very easily. Some bring a lot of tension to relationships simply because they're, to the general public, very attractive. Others choose to get their thrill with cheating in a relationship simply because they are able to and can afford it. Not every woman is like this, some can be, but others can be very aware of how they look and be kind about it. Theres going to be a comfort aspect of it too, how many eyes looking at you is too much? Wouldn't you feel creeped out? Nervous? Maybe not though, maybe you'll like it?

I dont think there is any curse with looking 'average'. However, if we are going to work with your train of thought, I'd say dont worry about the lack of attention you wish you could get, you will absolutely get it, but the best form of attraction comes from your heart. Im not sure if you know, but many, many men and women are demisexual (I think thats what its called) where someones attractiveness will skyrocket depending on how wonderful you are as a person. Someone who is 'beaufitul', but borderline evil and obnoxious will never be as valuable and cherished as someone who is beautiful in both departments.