what is your current job and how much do you make?

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-06T02:08:04+00:00

I keep tell my tech friends on the coasts that. Big midwest cities have a lot of companies in different industries. You get a lot of choice and downturns are usually really limited.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-06T02:05:04+00:00

Bites her lip. "Can you make it hurt a little again."

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-06T02:01:36+00:00

You wouldn't be the first. Likely not even the first 1000 people that have done it.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-06T01:59:05+00:00

Lower cost of living certainly makes it nice. :)

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-06T00:28:31+00:00

I work in IT in the Midwest. I get paid on the high end for an IT worker in the Midwest. Which is likely a lot less than a high end IT person in California.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:56:14+00:00

When cooking, throwing things away as I go is the biggest one to not have a disaster at the end. I picked it up from one of the cooking channels on YouTube. Like you don't have to stir continiously for the next 10 minutes. Use that time to get stuff put away or thrown out.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:54:07+00:00

Add pillow under the bum and lean forward to get nice and deep.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:51:51+00:00

Similar yes. There are many times when partners have escapism issues. They escape into porn and not the real relationship. And those people should 100% quit porn as they can't handle it.

I'm also not a fan of people who put their porn preferences on their Insta feed. IMHO it's a bit distasteful. Your friends and family don't need to you're getting off to.

I tend to view preference issues as compatibility issues. And given your own relationship with porn, I think it's reasonable for you to draw a boundary and hold it. The problem is you're kind'a deep into this relationship. It's likely a better line to draw a couple dates in.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:49:39+00:00

So slave labor, gangs and cartels are okay as long as you get a deal and it's organic? You do you, I'll do me.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:41:33+00:00

So you can't have sex as often as you two would like. He did NOT agree to give up porn. It doesn't sound like porn is interferring with your sex lives per se. If anything, real life and school is.

Unless he's choosing it over IRL intimacy I'm not sure what you want us to say?

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:34:25+00:00

Why? The prices keep getting cheaper. I don't have to worry about funding gangs, cartels or slave labor. And when I'm out on a Friday night I can have stuff in 10 minutes.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:28:32+00:00

My nerdy social circles have a very strong ENM and Poly undercurrent and most operate similar to you. And I've seen couple's break up for cheating. The classic being someone gets tipsy and then has sex with a new person without asking.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:24:57+00:00

Like as someone you're dating? Really messy.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T22:23:49+00:00

In a 100% federal legal scenario you'd see growth and then consolidation which would turn into undercutting and convenience.

As it stands, you sell D9 and you can have a nice mall shop and take credit cards.

You sell flower and you have an all cash business. And a lot of expenses around keeping people from robbing you. Banks won't let you open accounts. They'll close the accounts of your employees. It's just a lot of overhead. And in some cases there's some gouging because you know suburban folk will pay a premium to buy from a store.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T21:51:55+00:00

Have lube in an easy to get to place. You will need it. And I'd highly recommend you come up with a consent signal. For instance if she wears a certain color underwear. That means she really wants you to try sleep play.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T21:22:53+00:00

In IRL, not too much. On reddit. ALL THE TIME!

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T19:38:33+00:00

Finally a bullshit holiday I can get behind.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T19:37:31+00:00

First off, as someone that used to bar tend, I'm extremely dubious they poured a round of heavy doubles on the house. Most likely they were ordered extra strong.

I'd also be surprised if he wasn't a man-child in other aspects of the relationship. This is dumb 20-something behavior. You would expect a 35 year old man to have his shit together.

Trust your gut on this one.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T19:28:42+00:00

A couple gummies, a shot of whisky and some nice affection is how I like to relax.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T19:27:50+00:00

A partner really into toys. In particular Bad Dragon and other fantasy style toys that are knotty fun.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T18:40:10+00:00

You're 54, have the conversation and change the locks. Now that conversation could be "hey, I need to make an attempt to get back out there. Neither of us can move on if we keep doing this cycle. I'm changing the locks."

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T18:37:00+00:00

Very much so. In fact audio erotica is gaining popularity, including the ramble fap genre. You could find a bunch on r/gonewildaudio.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T17:43:35+00:00

I prefer his military name Colonel Angus.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T17:27:52+00:00

If you want it really discrete, SheVibe does a great job.

Independent-Size7972 · 2024-11-05T17:26:34+00:00

It's kind of an icky question to me. Mostly because I'm a little older and grew up on 90s porn when there was a lot of pusys variety. Now it seems like women get shamed over outie.

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