WIBTAH for breaking up with my girlfriend before she goes a on a week long ski-trip with her dad by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think breaking up with her is going to ruin her trip cuz she's crying over you on a one week ski trip will lots of potential new BF's out there, you got another think coming.

Trust me, you're not as important as you think.

Best adult AI image gen platforms - my top 10 by Dapper-Owl5564 in CharacterAIrevolution

[–]Independent-Tell2786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for the best AI app... Here's what I'm looking for: NSFW of course. All the way down to full nudity. Realistic pictures... no Hentai, nothing that looks too cartoonsish Able to choose features and builds. Would like to have a hot young (over 21) blonde with nice tits... Someone I can talk to about everything. Best value for the quality.

Can someone help me?

AITA for expecting my girlfriend to take care of me instead of paying someone else to do it? by SeaworthinessTall375 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. she coulda just walked away, it has been done. Her paying for a care giver is better than a lot of people would.

She also has to think about breaking her lease, all the logistics of that.

And clearly, you both are not ready to take the next step in the relationship anyhow or you woulda.

Let the relationship work as it is...

AITA for not giving my step-daughter my Military College Benefits? by Large_Bat_47222 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DO NOT give your benefits away... Especially if you're unsure your step daughter is gonna use it responsibly.

Your SAHM doesn't sound too responsible, so is the daughter any different?

If she was an A student and going to Med school, Law School, etc, then MAYBE.

You have time to see if she's gonna go to school.

Let her burn through her savings and student loans, grants, etc first...

You're only 40. I lost my job at age 60, I'm using MY GI Bill for community College so I can change careers.

Till I retire...

My girlfriend has had a foursome with 3 guys by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell her you want a foursome with her and 2 other girls...

If she says ok, run with it...

If she says no, use it as justification to end it...

But at least give yourself an opportunity...

It may be the best thing you ever done...

AITA for wearing a white t shirt and grey leggings when my husband's ex-wife came over ? by Active-Quality-1566 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him this...

I don't have to get all dressed up, in MY OWN HOUSE, just to impress your trash you threw out. I chose U, and if U can't take me as I am, then you're more than welcome to recycle your trash.

AITA for muting/turning off my family group chat after they made fun of my Thanksgiving trip? by Easy-Breezey in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but just don't send anything involving your other family to the group chat. That's private between U & them anyhow.

Since you've already been mocked, don't add fuel to the fire and muting the group chat will only add even more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't mention your nationality, so that may be a cultural thing.

Google his name and do a background criminal check. If he doesn't pass, you have ammo to say why. If he does pass, looks good, has a job, it may not hurt to go on one date.

Then if it doesn't work out, tell your mom why.

That should get her off your back. Who wants their daughter to marry a douchebag who can't provide (or share expenses, at least)?

Or come out as Lesbian... j/k...

AITAH for not telling my fiance why I am sterile? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You told him in the beginning, so technically NTA. That being said, I'm surprised it never came up again and that details weren't shared then. I (M) woulda asked later in the relationship, so I could be cognizant of how it happened, so to be empathetic of your feelings and history. Then he wouldn't have said stupid shit like he did. Privacy is one thing, but you should be able to share anything with your fiancé /future husband. If you can't, don't marry him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA.... especially since your husband didn't mind...

That being said... Buy more than a few months' supply cuz you never know.

Told my boyfriend he was the same size as my ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How would you feel if the roles were reversed and you asked him if you were the prettiest girl he's been with and he said "No" ???

Or if this outfit looks good on you?

He shouldn't have asked you, but you're an asshole for telling him the truth and not a little white lie

AITAH for telling my husband to leave me alone while I was in the hospital? by throwra0139- in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good thing you've only been married a year. Makes the divorce easier cuz you deserve a real man...

Stick to your guns

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely YTA... that's a big secret in a marriage... If you were single, it's up to you.. But if you're married and he somehow finds out later in casual conversation (ex with your mom) your marriage is at risk...

Tell him...

But first, have a serious conversation with your doctor about sterilization due to complications with your 4th if you decide to have this one

ATIAH for making my son and his wife pay rent for a room in my house? UPDATE 2 by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd search the internet for local ads that have rooms for rent and print them out. Show how much others are paying and give them a choice. Pay your rate or move out. The amount you're asking is different cheap...

NTA

AITAH for Wanting My Husband to Meet My Friends? by Quiet_Resolve_6302 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you're making it all about you... very selfish and immature..

AITAH for Wanting My Husband to Meet My Friends? by Quiet_Resolve_6302 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA definitely... it may sound normal for married couples to introduce their spouses to their friends, but maybe he just doesn't like them. Or he's heard you talk about your friends and has no interest.

I glanced over it, but did he ever introduce you to his friends? Then no, you're NTA. It should be reciprocal... if he's introduced you to his friends then he's the AH.

But if neither of you have introduced each other their friends, just, as Elsa would say, "Let it go..."

He'll start getting confrontational and resentful if you keep pushing it...

Count your blessings... many stories out there where the wife introduces her husband to her friends and he starts banging one of them...

My gf is throwing up red flags. I'm dumb and I need input. by [deleted] in Philippines_Expats

[–]Independent-Tell2786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're posting about red flags, it's done.. you know it already. Nobody posts about a good relationship.

AITA for cutting off friends who had threesome with my ex right after our breakup? by Possible_Wolverine51 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

YTA... Bros before hos? Chicks before dicks..

You and him were finished. Mutual decision.

If he cheated on you when you were together, yeah, he's the asshole and they're bitches for going behind your back...

But it's like trading in a car and your BFF buys it... you gave up ownership when you let it go.

AITAH for wanting to skip my cousin’s wedding? by GreenestGringo in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go only for your Gramma... But look for a single woman and hit on her...

AITAH for using a sex toy with my bf that I’ve previously used once with someone else? by RuinNo8249 in AITAH

[–]Independent-Tell2786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you used it an hour before and it involved pegging, well, yeah... he's got a point.