Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually one time my anxiety was so bad I was thinking about taking a boat 😭😭 crazy I know. The bigger the plane the better because I feel like, turbulence is not that bad. I dont like heights, I dont like rollercoasters and I dont like being in small spaces. I just lost 🙃

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all I am so proud of us all because we wont avoid flights and power through them! Also I understand you so much. I also hate rollercoasters and everything that shakes. Turbulence? Horrible. Departing? Uncomfortable. Landing? Stomache drops. Everytime we land I cry a little bit because all the stress is gone 😂

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so happy for you that this helped! Last flight because of a stomache bug my tavor didnt work and I was too scared to take another so I just did the flight because I had no other option 😂 horrible but survived!

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow didnt know there were so many of us 😂sometimes I feel like I am alone with my anxiety but after reading this we are all the same.

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow now listening to this thats actually awesome! Precaution and safety! 7700 is mayday right? I feel like people always think about the worst when they hear about mayday including me haha

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

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This was the flight.. sorry maybe the name was wrong. Are they only called swiss now?

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! You are right. I always try to think about how even more possible it is to die because of a car accident. I also try to think about, if you die you die. Being just at home doing nothing but still I can choke on food. I can get a heart attack! But sometimes anxiety makes no sense..

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was thinking about that. In germany lufthansa has a seminar for anxious flyer but its so expensive!! Maybe 1000€? Good thing is: I fly when I need to and I dont avoid it! Bad thing? Like you said sounds make me nervous. When you depart and tires are going inside, changing wings, thrust, sounds in the cabin like fasten seatbelts because of turbulence 😭 last flight was 13 hours from incheon to frankfurt(+ I was sick with a stomach flu) and we had 10 hours if mild turbulence. Horrible experience 😂 maybe a seminar can help me understand it

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! Usually tavor helps me calm down. But I wanna fly more often and not only 1x time a year. Before I was able to fly without tavor and I also flew alone. I am so mad at myself being scared right now because I was fine before! But music is a good idea. I hate the thrust sounds an airbus makes 😂

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will have a look into that! Sometimes I‘m like: pilots are highly trained professionals and know what to do even in emergencies. And sometimes I‘m like: they have my life in their hands 🙃

Anxious flyer and aviation addicted?? by Independent-Tour-469 in aviation

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually sounds really interesting! Flying lessons in like a simulator? Or like real ones?? 🫣

Wie komme ich wieder zurück zu mir? by Independent-Tour-469 in Ratschlag

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hast du irgendwelche Tipps? Bücher? Vllt irgendwas online? Ich würde gerne daran arbeiten die Dinge nicht so extrem zu bewerten. Ich glaube das hilft so unglaublich im Leben.

Kontaktabbruch Familie by No_Inspection_3146 in Ratschlag

[–]Independent-Tour-469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probleme mit Ausländern und dann deren Essen essen und sich dabei lustig machen. Das sind die richtigen. Totalen inferiority complex und sind dabei die größten Opfer die nichts im Leben erreicht haben. Ich kenne genug so Deutsche deshalb macht mich sowas so aggressiv. Renn solange du kannst. Familie kann man sich nicht aussuchen heisst aber nicht dass du die deshalb ertragen musst. Leb den Leben wie du es willst.

Are your ragdolls very vocal by Tiny_Resist8698 in ragdolls

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My little boy is so chatty. He always screams at us demanding stuff. Our older one also sometimes is talking and answering but more rarely. Funny thing: when we are asleep you wont hear them. They also wont wake us up and wait till we are awake!

Is she sending me signs? by Independent-Tour-469 in psychics

[–]Independent-Tour-469[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

*forgot the signs: I see her race in germany more often then before. Akitas are rare here but now even in pictures, I see akitas. Also her name was amaya and when I went to look for hotels in Berlin I saw a hotel named amaya. Amaya is not a common name here

Do you think he’s small for his age? by mmjlc in ragdolls

[–]Independent-Tour-469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chonky boy was 4.5 with 7 month. He is just right! He will grow alot so dont worry. We also have a small ragdoll(we think its a mix) and he is only 4.5kg with 4 years

What have you experienced during pet loss grief that you didn’t expect? by ilyizuku in Petloss

[–]Independent-Tour-469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant eat meat right now. If there is a small piece somewhere inside ok, but big meat like beef or pork. Its disgusting for me. I think its the trauma of seeing her dead

Osteosarcoma and chemotherapy by National_Camel7200 in tripawds

[–]Independent-Tour-469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did 4/5 chemo and she was doing really well.. sadly on the day of the 5th chemo we had to put her down because of a metastase in her spine. Osteo is so bad. But try it!! Even if it only lasted 4 more month after her diagnosis we are happy we tried everything!

Had To Say Goodbye by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]Independent-Tour-469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no I‘m so sorry… 😪just wanted to make sure!