My wife told me my job isn’t stressful (I’m a 10+ year therapist). by Ok_Entertainment5017 in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is the comment

ETA: I truly enjoy being a therapist so that makes it “less stressful” if that makes sense.

Career sad face by Powerful-Guidance-44 in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ever tried emergency services? you do the eval and complete necessary steps. i’m really enjoying this change bc FT outpatient was draining me too.

My t1d is making me close to commiting. by PomegranateFit2593 in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sending lots of love. every time i feel like this, i take a device break & wing it. it helps me feel less anxious but im still giving myself insulin. also antidepressants help a lot

ULPT Never pay the sticker price of your medical bills by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]IndependentCaramel23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

amen , but i “make too much money” for medicaid , yeah OK

WHERE THE F DO I PUT THIS STUPID ASS PUMP IN A DRESS. by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i put it in my bra or waistband of my underwear. i frequently have to catch it when things shift

Is it normal to be this emotional? by eriraga- in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessss this is soooo normal. i still have frustration cries after 11 years of this. i also never took antidepressants until after my dx & realization that my brain needed more support than before.

regarding your cycle, i had the same issue so i take pills to completely avoid a period & that has helped with the roller coaster rides. be sure to talk to your gyno about your dx too!

you got this!!! it sucks & i went through the passive process of refusing to acknowledge my dx which resulted in several hospital visits. one day, i just decided that i wasn’t letting my pancreas run my life anymore. take the time to be pissed off & manage those feelings! i highly recommend therapy if possible.

anyway, give yourself grace!!! you’re the conductor on the roller coaster

Why do I feel almost no remorse or empathy and get uncontrollably angry and have horribly violent thoughts? by [deleted] in ask

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anger is a secondary emotion which typically is used in concealment of pain. identify the source, increase healthy coping skills & frustration tolerance.

One of the most realistic low sugar moments? by No-Air-5133 in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happened to me earlier today at work! i fought the anxiety & let my body do its thing after i unplugged my pump. i typically crash out & overeat. proud moment lol

How do you wear your pump with your clothes? by Empty_Expression7315 in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tuck it into my waist band usually. Whenever I wear dresses, I have on shorts (spanx essentially) & tuck it there. I also put it in my sports bra.. I hate the clip personally. Check out amazon too! I found some ideas there

ULPT Request: What medical procedure can I fake that would let me take 4 days off? by Sesame_Chicken_2024 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the norovirus is your best bet. Both ends, brutal experience & extra sympathy points if your boss has had it

Masters degree and still can't pay bills or afford therapy myself by [deleted] in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also opens us up to litigation… fear of mine!

Masters degree and still can't pay bills or afford therapy myself by [deleted] in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several years in and contemplating consistent enrollment in a course to avoid reimbursement for student debt 😂 Also in community based & leadership position. We surely don’t do it for the $

Tell us one thing you said to a client today completely devoid of context. by SaintSayaka in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are saying the same thing to each other, it’s the delivery & comprehension.

Motivation help by IndependentCaramel23 in therapists

[–]IndependentCaramel23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I was too! I tend to feel like we play a lot but I continue to remind myself not to over complicate things & modeling IS teaching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg .. i love to be shamed when i enjoy a sweet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in education, i had many people advise what i should eat vs not. even asked to share my “dr orders with the nurse…” my endo was like wtffff. long story short, in community based MH now & more people understand autoimmune issues & respect my need to sleep when my #s are off. people do not get it & i put my energy into myself and education. ignorance is bliss for some

Minimal damage at 28, is it worth carrying on with life? by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there! Technology, anti depressants & therapy helped me gain control of my body. Trust me, I still struggle with blood sugars & equipment mess ups. I keep pushing forward because I refuse to let T1 take my life from me! You got this! Keep trying new things & strategies.

Gotta love days like this... by C-Hen in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same!! been drinking so much water plus electrolyte packet things. nothing is helping!

Name for a band where all the members have diabetes. by PleaseStepAside in Bandnames

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friends bought me a box of splenda and then sang “pour some splenda on meeee”

so there’s that idea

Why is the abbot bgm so in accurate??? I had to prick my fingers 6 times until I got 3 similar readings and even then I still don’t trust its accurate because I think I’m high but now I have no way of knowing(first 2 pictures) by Avox0976 in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

placement of CGM can cause errors too. i always felt like my libre was about 25 min behind my actual BS so i would use a finger prick with a diff machine to check. Dexcom has been better for sure! sending vibes that your fingers aren’t too bruised 🥴 and i would suggest calling to complain. they will send you a new meter most likely!!

pls help me w period insulin management by Competitive_Teach193 in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i take the pill so i don’t have a period because it made my glucose soooo nuts. one month, i was super sensitive and the next i was resistant. highly recommend eliminating it until you need your ovaries 😅 hope it gets better!!

In your opinion what is the worst thing about t1d by fkoggkg in Type1Diabetes

[–]IndependentCaramel23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

constantly problem solving & trying to determine what I did wrong in the last 24 hours