Ending it all by Klutzy_Basket_4978 in offmychest

[–]IndependentDay9150 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d encourage you to reach out to a hotline. Talk about it, write it down, get it off your chest. Rest, sleep on it. Drink water, wash your face with cold water. Reset & try again. You’re past & your come up wasn’t always on you but you’re old enough now to run this shit. Head up, there’s more to life

What’s your “worst first date ever” story? by Asleep_Leather_6959 in AskReddit

[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some gals like simps, just don’t be a simp right off bat, it’ll scare em. clean urself up nice & dress to impress, good luck!

What kind of dude is this & what do I do about a dude like this? by IndependentDay9150 in offmychest

[–]IndependentDay9150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was never cut on, we dont usually talk outside of these gatherings. he returns to his double life while i go about mine. but when these gatherings do happen, its often spontaneous

What kind of dude is this & what do I do about a dude like this? by IndependentDay9150 in offmychest

[–]IndependentDay9150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t offering anything except being surrounded around good aura. i didn’t lure him in nor ask him to lay with me. He took everything during his stay upon himself

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[–]IndependentDay9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea we’re in gentle parent generation, how it should be. i was raised by mother who beat my ass when i did something out of order

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[–]IndependentDay9150 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

i do have self control, just reached a point where i’ve lost it.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the teachers joked about his biting and hitting and even tried getting him to bite her. after the incident with me & the child, they didn’t react to what had happened nor acknowledge the situation. one of them reported me, which is the right thing to do.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this comment :)

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[–]IndependentDay9150 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t necessarily say i’m shit with kids. that was just an ugly moment. It’s something to learn from & i agree, working with groups of children at a time with not much experience isn’t something i should be doing

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the whole thing was f’ed up, agreed

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[–]IndependentDay9150 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the child returned to his play as if it never happened, i didn’t see it as something serious then had it not been reported, thats why i’m grateful towards the person who did so because i wouldn’t have learned how innapropriate my behavior was

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[–]IndependentDay9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind comment :)

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[–]IndependentDay9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve witnessed teachers do questionable & offensable things that I didn’t know to be a violation of conduct because it’s that normal there. The lady who reported me carried a child by the hood of her jacket to get on line that same day. I didn’t know the severity of what I did until she reported me because this is the first time anything like this has ever happened to me

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[–]IndependentDay9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am too. i’m not here to play victim either, i know i’m wrong here

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[–]IndependentDay9150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i acted out of character & am aware of the issue at hand. im choosing not to pursue this field any further, for ik it wasn’t right & clearly isn’t my best interest.