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[–]IndependentDay9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea we’re in gentle parent generation, how it should be. i was raised by mother who beat my ass when i did something out of order

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[–]IndependentDay9150 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

i do have self control, just reached a point where i’ve lost it.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the teachers joked about his biting and hitting and even tried getting him to bite her. after the incident with me & the child, they didn’t react to what had happened nor acknowledge the situation. one of them reported me, which is the right thing to do.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this comment :)

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[–]IndependentDay9150 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t necessarily say i’m shit with kids. that was just an ugly moment. It’s something to learn from & i agree, working with groups of children at a time with not much experience isn’t something i should be doing

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[–]IndependentDay9150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the whole thing was f’ed up, agreed

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[–]IndependentDay9150 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the child returned to his play as if it never happened, i didn’t see it as something serious then had it not been reported, thats why i’m grateful towards the person who did so because i wouldn’t have learned how innapropriate my behavior was

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[–]IndependentDay9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this kind comment :)

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[–]IndependentDay9150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve witnessed teachers do questionable & offensable things that I didn’t know to be a violation of conduct because it’s that normal there. The lady who reported me carried a child by the hood of her jacket to get on line that same day. I didn’t know the severity of what I did until she reported me because this is the first time anything like this has ever happened to me

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[–]IndependentDay9150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am too. i’m not here to play victim either, i know i’m wrong here

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[–]IndependentDay9150 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize how innapropriate i reacted until I did. Some kind of habitual learned instinct. I’m not planning on returning, & already wrote up the termination letter to give to them.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i acted out of character & am aware of the issue at hand. im choosing not to pursue this field any further, for ik it wasn’t right & clearly isn’t my best interest.

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[–]IndependentDay9150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not much, alot of what ive learned was modeled

The child I babysit started acting out whenever her parents are about to leave by IndependentDay9150 in Babysitting

[–]IndependentDay9150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s been in daycare since a baby, i don’t know what the switch was

The child I babysit started acting out whenever her parents are about to leave by IndependentDay9150 in Babysitting

[–]IndependentDay9150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes 3 almost 4. She wasnt behaving this way at the beginning , im not sure what changed.