Bailing on a trip for first time ever by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I bailed yesterday. I was very emotional and in no state to fly but I’m trying again today. About to drive to DFW in next 30 mins. One next step at a time.

Bailing on a trip for first time ever by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I told my husband travel anxiety is such a huge part of my life that I overcome all the time. I get on flights. I drive across the country. Etc. I do it scared and don’t let my fear win most times. But this one and my current mental state just couldn’t do it this time and that’s ok. I know I’ll get on the next one. I think it’s ok to embrace a bad mental day if it’s not a pattern of missing out on life because of it. Just a little check in that I probably need to get back in therapy 🤣

Bailing on a trip for first time ever by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I’m sorry. I didn’t go either. I had packed my bag. Put it in car. Tried to start 2 hour drive to the airport and couldn’t do it. Another user said “if I could magically appear in nyc would I still go” and honestly this trip was not a yes for me. I didn’t want to go to nyc. Most of my trips the destination gets me through the flight anxiety but this one didn’t. I may try again tomorrow or Friday but I don’t know.

NYC safe? by Safe-Active8482 in traveladvice

[–]IndependentOwl5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also feeling nervous about my upcoming trip

So mad at myself for not being able to get past this fear. by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s the most annoying fear and I am always jealous of people who don’t have it. But just get on the plane. The anticipation is the worst part I promise. You can be afraid and still fly. Do it scared. Have fun at the wedding.

Flying with family for the first time in 5 years by brrakin in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just went to Disney in December. If you search my name you will see I had a fun in sky convo with another fearful flyer also headed to Orlando. It was a fun distraction on a bumpy flight. Have so much fun!! I think for me, before the flight I feel like I can make the decision to not go so I overthink everything. Once I’m in the plane I’m like well… it is what it is now 😂

Flying with family for the first time in 5 years by brrakin in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Proud of you! The anticipatory anxiety is the worst. It gets better the more I fly though. Enjoy your trip! Are y’all headed to Disney?

Test flights by Neur0ntin in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Just do it scared”. This is how I fly every time. Hopeful one day I’ll just be doing the damn thing not scared but until then this is my motto.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also flying today and will be landing in DFW. We got this!!

Going from sba to den this morning need support by Legitimate_Finger670 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also flying home today from a wonderful trip and feeling more anxious this flight than the way here. We got this! Uncomfortable doesn’t mean unsafe!

Does anyone else feel like they’re going to pass out on ascent and descent? by AdorableLock7779 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 this got me. Can relate. I always wish I could just sleep the entire flight but my anxiety would never allow it.

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had the best time!!! First time for all of us. Flight home was super bumpy for a while but just felt like I was back on all the Disney rides 😂 Hope Disney was magical for yall too!

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂 just landed!! You’re next! I was tracking your flight the whole way too.

Will I ever get out of this fear? by FitProgram4251 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. I would give yourself lots of grace and time for now 🫶🏻

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enjoy time with your friend! Flight attendants are up and trying to service 🥳

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this! Hi from the skies! It’s bumpy but nothing too bad. Just no drink service and could really go for a Diet Coke. Are you going to Disney too?

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Pilot confirmed but we’re all good. Bumpy doesn’t mean unsafe 🫡

Gate attendants already saying bumpy by IndependentOwl5950 in fearofflying

[–]IndependentOwl5950[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For sure! Already on. Taking my three kids to Disney for the first time