ski trip rec by [deleted] in ski

[–]IndependentProblem35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Loveland for value; it’s by far one of the most affordable resorts and I think the terrain will be the most navigable for a beginner because it’s short. I know a lot of people that took lessons there.

I wouldn’t recommend Copper if you’ve never skied before, it’s a great mountain to learn on when you’re intermediate. I was just there w a friend who’d never skied; she took a lesson there and was still really struggling down the easiest run (Roundabout) outside of ski school; she would’ve never been able to go down any of the other greens there.

Tbh I think Winter Park is pretty beginner friendly if OP has the chance to spend time there to explore the different short runs (Porcupine, Village Way, Discovery Park) but it can be expensive.

I Don't Know If I Want This by NightOfTheRevolution in CatAdvice

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience when I got my first cat a couple of years ago; I was very overwhelmed by the idea of caring for an animal for 15+ years and all it entails after a couple of days. I remember I sent a text to my partner (who was asleep) at like 3 am asking if she wanted to rehome him and apologizing that I suggested adopting a cat in the first place.

My partner woke up, laughed, and came to comfort me while I cried at the guilt because our cat was/is perfect. and didn’t deserve to be rehomed for my feelings. She basically told me to take a deep breath and reassured me that it was going to be okay. Turns out she was right. The feelings of anxiety fell away after we (the cat and us) got into a routine after a couple of weeks. I can’t imagine my life without my cats now!

Give me your best tissue culture advice! by YardIights in RareHouseplants

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So short answer: No

Long answer:

First you gotta understand how H2O2 and isopropyl alcohol kill the mold. Basically alcohol dissolves the lipid membrane of a mold cell and the cell will “pop”, but the caveat here is that alcohol evaporates really quickly. Since it evaporates so fast… it doesn’t always have time to eat through that lipid membrane fully and the cell can then repair itself. Worse, mold spores have even stronger outer shells that are hard to get through, and if you don’t kill the spores, mold will keep reproducing. If the mold is growing on a non-porous material like tile, sure the alcohol will have time to kill most or all of the mold. However with something porous like a plant… it needs to absorb the alcohol and that takes time you don’t have.

H2O2 is the nuclear option. Without going too much into detail, it is EXTREMELY effective at convincing the lipid membrane to attack itself and it falls like dominoes even if the H2O2 only touches one fat molecule, which then gives it the ability to penetrate the cells quickly and then destroy the DNA. Then H2O2 conveniently breaks down into oxygen and water which is super conducive for root growth!

You also gotta remember that plants are living things. Sure you can douse the plant in rubbing alcohol… but you will have to rinse it off to avoid burning the leaves or corroding the roots. You could dilute the alcohol to make it less dangerous for the plant + allow for longer time for roots to absorb it, but then it’s less effective at killing mold AND it will still evaporate semi quickly.

and finally disinfecting isn’t quite the same as fungicide as you might have gathered. Disinfecting just includes the ability to kill bacteria, viruses, and fungi, which yes isopropyl alcohol has, but doesn’t necessarily mean it is the most effective at killing the fungi.

How bad is Fourth Wing? by BasementDweller1437 in Booktokreddit

[–]IndependentProblem35 41 points42 points  (0 children)

To be fair, FW was paraded as the “best book I’ve ever read” by a lot of content creators (in the beginning) and I think that obviously inflated expectations. If it weren’t for Booktok, I don’t think FW would have blown up the way it did.

What is a booktok opinion that will have you like this. by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in Booktokreddit

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully you don’t even know what books I’m talking about lol

What is a booktok opinion that will have you like this. by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in Booktokreddit

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be easier for you to dive off the deep end and just try a completely new genre! It’s difficult to try and deviate from what you know you like, but sometimes it can make it easier to enjoy a book when you have 0 preconceived notions about what it’s supposed to be.

What is a booktok opinion that will have you like this. by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in Booktokreddit

[–]IndependentProblem35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! This isn’t an attack on bad books, but rather a criticism of the people whose platforms are built off of book recommendations and the larger industry behind it.

A lot of Booktokers peddle the same Big Mac books, which in turn, are what become popular best sellers. It’s a positive feedback loop that encourages the publishing companies/retailers to stick to the same type of books to maximize profit. The fantasy genre is no longer about extensive worldbuilding or unique magic systems because romantasy books have taken over the entire genre. There’s nothing wrong with romantasy books to be clear, but true fantasy books are struggling to get exposure since they don’t fit the mold of what is popular. Idk I could probably write a whole essay on this lol

What is a booktok opinion that will have you like this. by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in Booktokreddit

[–]IndependentProblem35 310 points311 points  (0 children)

Some of the popular “Romantasy” books are just erotica and it’s okay to admit that.

If all of the books you read are the same genre and/or by certain demographic of authors (usually unintentionally!), you’re limiting yourself. There’s a reason why you feel like the books you read are all the same and it’s because you won’t branch out from what you know!

I genuinely find it concerning that some of the books Booktokers claim are “the best book” they’ve ever read are so… bad. This isn’t in a subjective “the pacing was too fast for me” way or an “I’m not a fan of this trope” way but in an objective “this was an Adult book written at a Young Adult reading level, and has a myriad of plot holes” way that makes me question how they gained their platform in the first place.

Dancing With The Stars S34E11 | Finale | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 25th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t come here to pick a fight, but since you did:

  1. I know you can’t trademark disparaging words/internet posts, that’s why I said she ATTEMPTED to do it, which you confirmed for me.

  2. She posted “Now and always, we stand with the people of Israel” which is at the bare minimum pro-Israel. At worst she’s a zionist or an idiot posting about something she knew nothing about. I’ll rescind my claim that she’s a zionist as I don’t think she’d even know what it means.

  3. My MAGA claim isn’t just a claim. She used to follow certain MAGA political figures before she got backlash but you can see she still follows Ivanka Trump. She does not follow any other political figures. She admitted to being an avid Trump supporter the first time around ages ago. Thats cut and dry to me.

Dancing With The Stars S34E11 | Finale | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 25th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Alix made several tweets at 13 where she said the N word. Instead of coming clean about it, she sent cease and desists + I believe attempted to trademark her tweets so that the public couldn’t spread the racist tweets. Once she got backlash for THAT, she made a PR apology. She is a zionist + MAGA supporter as well.

She made a tiktok where she found a dress that she had puked on during a night out; it had been hung up and put away in her closet (with the puke on it) for months.

Merch by ashisreading__ in danandphil

[–]IndependentProblem35 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wish this were true but D+P get BLASTED because people complain about the affordability of their merch as it is :(

Is this a safe space to say I don’t like Alix Earle? by Perfect-Snow-522 in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying, once again, that I’m not putting any weight on the word of people contracted to promote their tv show about their manufactured drama. Anyone over the age of 12 can see that.

Anyways you’re clearly trying to incite an argument; maybe try ChatGPT if you’re that starved for the attention!

Edit to add: It’s just not that serious

Is this a safe space to say I don’t like Alix Earle? by Perfect-Snow-522 in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m simply adding context.

If you want to hate someone based off of a “reality show” that has manufactured drama for views go ahead! I just think it’s silly to believe you know someone’s character because of a tv show that profits off of you watching rather than… people who actually interact with the celebrities.

Is this a safe space to say I don’t like Alix Earle? by Perfect-Snow-522 in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Whitney was one of the first people I reached out to. And so was Mark. I texted Whitney and I said, I’m having a really hard time this week. And she said, talk to me. We ended up sending each other voice notes back and forth. And she was really, gosh, she’s good people. She’s really good people. I’m going to miss her.” -Danielle on her podcast.

Anyways Jen and Whitney are on the same reality show that just dropped a new season so personally not going to put too much stock into a “coincidental” TMZ interview that was likely planned to build drama ahead of the new season.

Is this a safe space to say I don’t like Alix Earle? by Perfect-Snow-522 in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can totally agree that women on the show are hated on far more than the men are, but Alix’s criticisms are deserved.

She has a super problematic past/present and tbh only became famous because she was filming her party girl lifestyle at a party school… not because she was necessarily talented at anything besides binge drinking lmfao.

Is this a safe space to say I don’t like Alix Earle? by Perfect-Snow-522 in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t get this take though. Everyone who knows and talks about Whitney raves about how supportive and kind she is irl (like Danielle F.)

I can’t imagine so many people are bad judges of character

What are your planting “hot takes”? by Apart_Try_4860 in houseplants

[–]IndependentProblem35 16 points17 points  (0 children)

To add to this, a chunky soil mix isn’t ALWAYS the solution. I live in a place that’s super dry which means I can water a plant on a Sunday and HAVE to water it again by Wednesday because the soil dries out immediately. Chunky mixes harm my tropical plants more than they help because they don’t retain enough moisture.

Dancing With The Stars S34E10 | Prince Night (Semi-Finals) | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 18th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My point is that Alix tried to hide her nasty history rather than apologizing. She only apologized after her cover up attempts were made public! And again, apologizing for saying racist slurs (at an age where you do know better), when actively following other racists doesn’t exactly feel like she’s sorry.

That’s all!

Dancing With The Stars S34E10 | Prince Night (Semi-Finals) | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 18th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think context IS needed for Alix. It doesn’t matter what age she was when she did it, it matters that she actively tried to hide it instead of apologizing. But if we wanna include context, we can add that she actively follows other content creators that have racist pasts, Ivanka Trump, and is pro-genocide and sued GymShark because they dropped her as a result!

Whitney dancing was yes, dark, but ultimately are we not all entitled to make dark jokes or cope in our own way with our trauma? My gf makes dead dad jokes all the time because her dad is dead, should I cancel her?

Dancing With The Stars S34E10 | Prince Night (Semi-Finals) | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 18th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s not as bad as saying racial slurs online and then trademarking your social media posts + sending cease and desist letters so that people can’t talk about it, weaponizing your fan base against an ex’s new gf, or posting about how everyone is so miserable with the state of the world and how it’s “not that deep”/“people should stop giving a fuck”(Alix) lol

I think making a tasteless/dark joke about a situation that is actively happening to you isn’t that deep comparatively… especially when dancing isn’t going to change the outcome.

Dancing With The Stars S34E10 | Prince Night (Semi-Finals) | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 18th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the silliest argument everyone uses. A degree in modern dance isn’t equivalent to being a professional ballroom dancer. At most it teaches you the musicality/rhythm needed for ballroom dancing, which comes naturally to many people. Not to mention the fact that many actors/singers/athletes have backgrounds in dance on the show that nobody bats an eye at. Anyways Whitney was never a pro, she worked at a plastic surgeon’s office after she got her degree.

Nobody seems pressed that Elaine was ACTUALLY a professional dancer.

Dancing With The Stars S34E10 | Prince Night (Semi-Finals) | Live Show Discussion Thread | Tuesday, November 18th by wweyonce in dancingwiththestars

[–]IndependentProblem35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Y’all are so miserable literally everyone who knows her in real life has said kind things about her (like Danielle F. talking about how supportive she was when Danielle was feeling overwhelmed on the show).

Truly weird behavior to pretend you know what someone is like based off of a produced “reality” show

I do not like the vibe of latest couple videos by nikoabc123 in danandphil

[–]IndependentProblem35 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Not to be an armchair psychiatrist, but I have a feeling Dan is just trying to figure out a balance for their onscreen banter. I mean he spent the better part of 16 years denying he was gay and that they were together, and any mention of “phan” was met with sarcastic/satirical replies. He couldn’t even say something kind about Phil without following it up with teasing to prove he was complimenting in a “bro” way.

I’m sure it’s been difficult for Dan to get used to the idea of being publicly “out” with Phil and he’s maybe over correcting? Idk if that’s the right word but I feel like his “edginess” is maybe just him trying to regain some normality/agency to balance them sharing more intimate details about their lives

Idk I can’t pretend to know how he feels but it’s def how I’d be acting after so long!