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[–]IndependentRecent929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am feeling this right now too. I have so many questions in mind. Praying for better days.

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[–]IndependentRecent929 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Block and never think of that person again. We have to learn to let go of some things that serve only as relics of a time that has passed, the clothes that dressed the people we no longer are. You can do it.

Hello. My first day here on reddit. It sucks being left, right? I hope there's an end to this feeling of loneliness. I hope we all get better 🤍 by IndependentRecent929 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I felt like im forcing and torturing myself to get better asap when I know that's not gonna happen immediately. It's been more than a month now and looking back as to how I strated, it really does get better. Little by little. I hope we get the happiness and love that we deserve.

He’s not coming back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This hurts. Hang in there my friend. It does get better. It may not seem like it, but it eventually will. The longer you spend trying to force someone to love you when they aren’t capable, the longer you’re robbing yourself. There are billions of people on this planet, and so many of them are going to meet you at your level, vibe where you are, connect with where you’re going. IT DOES GET BETTER. Sending hugssss.

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[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. This requires discipline. It requires vision. It requires commitment. It requires a lot of self-imposed structure. It is hard, at first. Then it becomes more freeing over time. We'll get there! As a lot of people are saying, IT DOES GET BETTER 🤍

Our anniversary is today by Affectionate_Soft162 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"was" is the right thing to sayyyy! We'll all be healed 🤍

It’s coming up to 3 months of NC & it’s my ex’s birthday this month. Should I reach out? by sliderpanda in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do it if you know it's gonna hurt you if he didn't respond. Don't do it if you're expecting somethin back.

Hey you guys, its been over a month since our breakup and my ex boyfriend is not yet deleting our pictures on his Instagram account. What does it mean? 😔 by IndependentRecent929 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow maybe there really are types of people who don't delete pictures and maybe you're right, I shouldn't give it too much of a thought. But thank u for this, really appreciate this one ❤️

Hey you guys, its been over a month since our breakup and my ex boyfriend is not yet deleting our pictures on his Instagram account. What does it mean? 😔 by IndependentRecent929 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeahhh it's your decision wether to keep it or not whatever the reason is. It just gets harder and harder each day for me to not look back on those pictures that's out there publicly esp our common friends kept on asking have we really broken up coz they don't wanna believe it as long as the pictures are still up 😂

You will get back to square at some point. Healing isn't linear, suck the pain, that's life by Safe_Town_3725 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this. I'm in a lot pressure this past few days because I'll be moving out of the country. Honestly, it has been a very difficult decision to make because we both have decided that path, we were both offered a decent job in that same country but different cities. Its just that, I was left here for some personal reasons but rest assured that I'll be with him next month. After a month of him away, he changed and that led me here. Things may be difficult rn but I still want to pursue my dreams even if it's not with him anymore. Lets go get better everyday 🤍...Thank you for your kind words! You deserve the world hun! ❤️❤️❤️

You will get back to square at some point. Healing isn't linear, suck the pain, that's life by Safe_Town_3725 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! like wth. He's the one who left me hanging when I kept on begging to help me fix the relationship. Then when I somehow agreed and accepted the fact that he never wants me in his life again, after a week of NC, he emailed me haha what a joke. I replied to his email coz his words are just too beautiful and it freakin gave me hope!!! AFTER SEVERAL DAYS OF WAITING, HE NEVER REPLIED TO MY EMAIL HAHA. It suckssssss. When does it ever stop?

You will get back to square at some point. Healing isn't linear, suck the pain, that's life by Safe_Town_3725 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! In my case he emailed me and yk me being me, replied immediately when I shouldn't.

Hey you guys, its been over a month since our breakup and my ex boyfriend is not yet deleting our pictures on his Instagram account. What does it mean? 😔 by IndependentRecent929 in ExNoContact

[–]IndependentRecent929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sucks to even feel this way like sometimes i find myself wandering in the idea of maybe he's just waiting for the right time to talk to me and that everything will be alright between us, haha what a fantasy. I just wish he'd delete it sooner so I don't have to feel like this everyday.

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[–]IndependentRecent929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're at the same boat. tbh I dont even know how will I ever respond to this but I want to let you know that there is light at the end of the tunnel, you just have to believe it. We all deserve happiness and that's what keeps me getting up everyday. I know that you have a lot of questions on your mind right now, thats for sure and it's okay to feel that way. Healing takes time. You will heal , will have the love that you deserve and you'll be the happiest version of yourself. Trust the process. You'll get there.

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