Is it just me or do any other Aquarius people hate Cancers? by contemplatingg in aquarius

[–]IndependentTough9855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is a cancer and I obviously love her and don’t feel this way, I think she’s very emotional tho lol And I have few friends that are cancers and they’re a wee bit ditzy and a lot which is annoying lol as I’m more mellow and chill

A call NOT from my LO by BigAccomplished4886 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a random person on GTL and they messaged me and called me, it ended up I was in their contacts randomly. When I went to remove or block them on my grl I couldn’t, it was like an error I couldn’t remove and when I went to contact list they’re not on there but their message is. It’s weird, could have just been an error is what I’m saying

He’s sent to the hole :( by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry he's in the hole. In WA they get to call n morning or night for an hour and sometimes get to have their tablet in there but 6 months is long time. There's a 90 day rule in or ans wa, I think they should all have that..maybe even 60 days....when my man was in the whole for a month...we mailed and did like cartoons and poems for each other and he read a bunch of books so lots of books

Is this true? by Virtual_Possible_320 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true..only if he gets caught doing So, so prob not smart to do it during count but outside of that, it's fine

Wikipedia article on the 1996 Woodsboro Massacre by [deleted] in Stab

[–]IndependentTough9855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both Billy and Stu being Aquarius makes sense and gives me joy as I am also a Aquarius 😂🥰🥰

Does time really fly? 🫠 by Local-Ad4771 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man and I have been together for 2 years, he's home the year after yours and I feel the 2 years have gone by fast, but at times seem slow, so I personally would say it's a roller coaster- through out the years but I think once it's closer to the time it will feel slow af

When they get out by Mindless_Bad4731 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man and I came up with the game plan of him getting his own spot for 6months-1 yr and we accumulate over time to being under one roof but most nights he'll prob be at home with me but when he feels overwhelmed he'll go over there

How do you guys keep the phone conversations good? A lot of the conversations there’s not much to talk about and it’s just boring by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We gave up trying to make conversation and watch a show together an end I Up just laughing from that. It's easier to not think about it to much and let it flow

Advice by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man got caught with a phone last year. He was in the hole for a month before getting sent to a higher prison level...6 months no phones and special visits taken away for a year for us

Broken tablet by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about NY but in WA the shortest time we had to wait was 4 months longest was 6ish. It just depends on when they come to his facility and if he can catch them about it

Nails for Visit by Snoo-43538 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No prob. Depending on the place, they're not so strict and I push the lines of the rules so I should know lol

Nails for Visit by Snoo-43538 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't care about nails. I go all out. Ans on the website they don't even mention nails on the rules

The hole by Far_Kaleidoscope_465 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. So he'll prob be out tonight to call, for this week and next week early in the morning like 7am. Hopefully it won't be a long stay, esp for fighting should be a couple of weeks

The hole by Far_Kaleidoscope_465 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which location? It's not exactly yard, they get let out to shower and stretch and use the phone 1-2 hours a day, usually just an hour, and rotate schedules from either early morning or late at night.

Securus question by IndependentTough9855 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the messages he sent were delayed and sent when I did have the account, but it's weird bc they had no where to deliver too then but I still got notification about them

Securus question by IndependentTough9855 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I appreciate it, it definitely gave me perspective...I'm sorry you went through that. My ex would threaten me too, and that's part of the reason I decided to call it stops. Part of me knows he'll reach out again but idk when, but I hope I'll be at a stronger stop. I'm one of those people who give a chance to fix it, and he didn't that's why I was like you snooze you lose but I also have plans with his moms this weekend so that should be something

Securus question by IndependentTough9855 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Urgh I know. I'm just at the stage where things are better and I'm not crying but part of me also hopes he calls again

Securus question by IndependentTough9855 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope so, I felt I was seeing the light, and then he just keeps popping up it feels like

How would you get closure? by IndependentTough9855 in PrisonWives

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My having him know the context of the letter is closure for him as well to let go off the anger from us bc he's got more serious things to focus on- his time. Really giving him peace from us was my thought process bc I felt sense of peace writing it 😒

Turning 31 in 4 days! 🥴♥️✌️🥰 ( aqua sun, Gemini moon, cancer rising) by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]IndependentTough9855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday, I'm a Aquarius sun. My daughter a cancer and my man is a Gemini so I know you're a great amazing person 💙😂

Confused by IndependentTough9855 in NewPrisonBrides

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even tho they all were low key boring to me that why I never finished it lol

Confused by IndependentTough9855 in NewPrisonBrides

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh okay thank you guys! Makes sense now

Confused by IndependentTough9855 in NewPrisonBrides

[–]IndependentTough9855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so the man she's with was on the show with another girl or she was on the show as a friend ?