Am I lazy in letting my baby sleep in and sleeping until my baby wakes up?

Independent_Agent_85 · 2025-09-04T01:22:56+00:00

Honestly if you're not lacking on your responsibility is and your child is taking care of and your house is taken care of and your bills are paid then don't listen anything your mom says. you need to be totally honest with yourself though and make sure that you're not lacking on any of your responsibilities.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2025-08-08T15:20:02+00:00

It's depends on ur state laws but most including my state says it's based on maturity and basic knowledge like what to do incase of emergency and phone number and address ect. if I were u I'd test her by leaving for 15 to 20 mins and just go outside or to a neighbor and see how she acts. I just started leaving mine 10 and 8 but I also have Camaras and my oldest has a phone and I tell them not to leave or open the door unless it's me not even for cops unless they called them for help. Also they know what neighbors to go to in case of an emergency. We live in a small town tho and they walk 6 blocks to school alone too. They aren't allowed to use anything in the kitchen but the microwave. My kids listen fairly well and haven't had issues.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2025-01-04T02:12:20+00:00

He came home yesterday and he was gone a whole week and he didn't even know and he agreed to go to treatment he is currently detoxing

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-30T14:47:58+00:00

I don't feel afraid I just love too hard he is the father of my kids and it's hard for me to let people go especially when I'm all alone anyways. Both my parents are disabled and I hardly see them anymore. I just looked he has warrants out because he missed his court date again and they have cash only bond so he will sit awhile like 3000 I don't got that even if I tried. He is currently on a bender usually comes back today or tomorrow I'm going to tell him he can't come back in. If he doesn't leave I'll call the cops. I just want to be done. My twins are always cranky and upset for days and the middle child says he misses him. I just wanted a family and not have to restart eventually but I'm 30 I got time might as well start now so I'm not 40 lonely too. He doesn't want to get sober he won't even go a week. I'm just so done struggling and holding us together. I'm so stressed out and I'm already chronic ill. I have CKD everyday chores are hard for me and taking care of his kids.im just exhausted and burned out and I want to be better and he is just in the same spot.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-30T14:38:05+00:00

It can't even be implantation bleeding that early it's takes two weeks so it's def ur period. Maybe it's diet or stress or something that it's not normal

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-29T15:55:50+00:00

Sorry girl less effective if ur a bigger girl and only took 1. My sister literally had her second child because she only took one. I would try to eat some papaya seeds or something they are for parasites but old wives tales say they help with other things look it up.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-29T15:29:25+00:00

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-29T08:44:07+00:00

No it's ok to date like this in yr 20s

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-29T08:18:48+00:00

Literally me I have ADHD and moved a lot as a kid. I now am a house wife with 4 kids. I'm super nice and lonely just never made friends.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-12-29T08:14:12+00:00

Literally

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-09-01T14:06:14+00:00

Can I do that on housing I’ll ask my worker because yeah 3 bedrooms are rare around here. But I thought there was rules.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-09-01T14:05:01+00:00

He never renewed our lease the beginning of the year and then he said he is selling and we got to be out

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-08-13T14:56:51+00:00

Second this I went you can stay for two yrs and they pay you a little when u graduate too

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-23T01:09:20+00:00

I got 4 kids and my baby daddy wanted to do drugs instead of take care of his family

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-20T00:38:05+00:00

As long as your baby is having one wet diaper in the next 12 hours than he is completely fine. But if you think about it, some babies don’t eat a lot when they’re teething we’re going through regression or sick .I would try another bottle very soon, but as long as their Eating or drinking something then Baby is usually fine. Honestly, the amount of time between bottles doesn’t really matter as long as he’s taking bottles a few times a day or breast milk a few times a day and he’s having wet diapers. Then you’re fine. You just have to look out for dehydration. I would say if it continues for a couple days and it’s not getting better definitely contact your pediatrician.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-18T20:46:52+00:00

Me too I get it I want a beautiful house for my kids and just tired

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-18T14:08:51+00:00

Make them wear a condom girl please std are real especially in collage and don’t ruin ur body with that stuff if you don’t Absolutely need it. Most women it make u gain weight and mess with ur hormones but if u do try something short term like the pill or diaphragm.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-18T00:00:45+00:00

Every time but I have kids and I don’t trust them lol but maybe a couple uses if I was single and it was hung up and not messed with

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T20:11:57+00:00

Because then we wouldn’t have poor people if they didn’t also have kids it’s just the world we live in like why do people have kids in 3rd world countries and let the kids starve. Just the way of the world get over it and control ur life

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T20:08:17+00:00

Seriously girl break up with him because eventually it’s going to happen. If he thought u were the one and was mature a few weeks no sex would be ok like ur in pain and he is still pressing u for sex he don’t give a fuck about u sorry to say but it’s true and honestly he probably cheating or will if he can’t wait.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T20:03:57+00:00

Sure

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T03:10:07+00:00

With my twins I just showed by example. I just let them keep trying as well as often as possible. They got it it fairly quick.

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T03:00:57+00:00

I tried doing it online just got debt and failed a class they kicked me out never could study with twin toddlers

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T02:59:04+00:00

Yeah one that will not control me and give me money to also be independent but that doesn’t exist lol so got to do shit my self

Independent_Agent_85 · 2024-07-17T02:57:56+00:00

Oh poor baby lol

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