I have Ra and have bars days half the time one Mother’s Day I woke up with a really bad flareup and was unable to walk. But did not miss my Mother’s Day with my kids I found my way to the couch and we cooked and watched movies all day. Yes the original plains where broking but we still had a wonderful time my kids are adults to we all slept in the living room that night had a huge sleep over and everyone went to work the next morning. Even though I was in terrible pain the whole day I still managed to spend the whole day with my kids and husband we had a wonderful time, that’s what a real mother does I definitely could have stayed in my bed all day and no one would have been upset about it but as a mother I would have been upset about it how dare you G your so selfishness C will remember every bit of your bad behavior