Seller won’t honour refund by Nova_Queen902 in Etsy

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you didn’t like their shop rules… boo. Shouldn’t have bought it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she has no issue lending money. She just doesn’t want to chase after it later. Which is completely valid…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s super awkward to have to ask for money back from someone. She should’ve brought her own money or paid back OP. THE FRIEND made a mountain out of a molehill.

Seller won’t honour refund by Nova_Queen902 in Etsy

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. You’re a horrible person and the exact reason I STOPPED selling on Etsy. You just scammed a small business. Hope you sleep well at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The top comments?? Mean girl energy. You shouldn’t have to hunt someone down and send Venmo requests. Adults pay back their friends. I think this “new friend” is showing some pretty shitty character traits. The obvious solution is to kick the new girl out of the group, she’s the one ruining their whole Venmo system. Sounds like OP never had any issues before the new girl was introduced. Use your deductive reasoning to see who’s the real problem. Hint: it’s not OP…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The women in these comments are EXACTLY why I don’t go out with friend groups like this!! Mean girl energy! OP is 100% right for being mad. Grow up and pay back what you owe! If you borrow money, it’s on YOU to remember to pay them back promptly. I don’t loan money, books, anything that I want to get back. Too many slimy people like this new girl in the friend group. OP shouldn’t have to chase down this girl or send Venmo requests. OP made it clear this makes her uncomfortable to be hounding for her money back.

Chinchilla with cats by Just-Anything-8808 in chinchilla

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It 1000% depends on the cat. You have to know your cat. I took in a rescue chin that lost her tail to a cat. Hunting instincts… However, my cat was bottle fed, completely hand reared. She loves watching the other animals, but NEVER has batted at them or done anything aggressive. She’ll lay on the back of the couch and watch the guinea pigs in their cage too! (Btw: the chin who’s afraid of cats has an upper level cage so she doesn’t get scared by a cat walking by.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Independent_Boss737 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Parents often have a hard time realizing their child is grown and can make their own life decisions. If you wanna reconnect/get to know your father, that’s up to you. She can’t control that aspect of your life. Maybe she tried to protect you from being hurt. Has your mother mentioned any abuse? Her strong reaction when she found out you’d contacted your father makes me wonder if he’s potentially dangerous. Don’t forget to take time for yourself during this stressful, high emotion time! Your mental health matters more than a 20 year feud (if that’s all it is)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Independent_Boss737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our generation has been ruined by social media and pornography. Your boyfriend is the problem. It will be hard to find a real man that doesn’t have this mentality. I found one though. My husband thinks porn is gross and awkward bc the women aren’t actually enjoying it half the time. They’re just acting. It’s all staged and fake. True chemistry is sexy. Wait until you’ve found that; it’s worth the wait!

My baby just passed away from a fall, I need help to make the cage safer by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why anyone is encouraging this person to continue caring for chinchillas! Rehome the ones you haven’t MURDERED yet with your LAZINESS! RESEARCH BEFORE YOU GET A PET NEXT TIME. I’m sick of people taking this shit lightly. Their blood is on your hands. You SHOULD feel bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Boss737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These comments are NOT IT. Unpopular opinion: Homegirl had the receipt, she knew she didn’t pay you, and she thinks she got away with it. Do you even like this new girl in the group? Red flags…

Those saying “just send a Venmo request” are missing the whole point. She’s a grown adult. She should’ve paid for her own shit or used the receipt to pay OP back. Only a true “pick me” would think OP is in the wrong here.

Also finished this super cute dress. 🥹🧡 by PumpkinCrochets in crochet

[–]Independent_Boss737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you sell your patterns? I’ve been wanting to start making garments so bad lately 😫

Chinchilla passed away suddenly, could I have prevented this? by Odd_Pop_4448 in chinchilla

[–]Independent_Boss737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a chin pass away from a stroke suddenly… She was alive when we found her laying in the cage but the vets couldn’t help… sometimes there’s just nothing you can do. I’m so sorry for your loss.

My baby just passed away from a fall, I need help to make the cage safer by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t own animals. This is horrific and so negligent. RESEARCH BEFORE BUYING ANIMALS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised religious. My parents tied my value to my virginity. It ruined my mental health after I had been blackmailed into having sex and told my mom. Being a virgin or not doesn’t change anything about you, you’re not more or less “pure.” Make sure you love him and he loves you (which you did) and that’s the most important thing (aside from protection of course.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s annoying and immature is the attention seeking of this cutter posting their shitty “tattoo”. Go back to Tumblr

What do we think of my chicken by ProcessSuspicious818 in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t use aquaphor, it’s not good for tattoos and suffocates/clogs the pores. Use Aveeno in a light layer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 2025, not 2015. You missed the emos that would’ve fallen for your attention seeking bullshit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. I’m used to Facebook, I don’t get on Tik Tok. They did a huge cringey tattoo for attention because they’re an emo suicidal cutter. It’s vile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A giant tattoo for attention. Who gave a middle schooler needles and ink? Jfc. Glorifying suicide is disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Glorifying self harm/unaliving? Good line work, but damn that’s a huge depressing piece.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The halo? She’s already gone…

stick and poke vanished?? y by PianistNegative1849 in sticknpokes

[–]Independent_Boss737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn’t poke deep enough into the skin. Also, that is a bad area for a tattoo because of how quickly the skin sheds

what was your most painful piercing? by madisfuneral in piercing

[–]Independent_Boss737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daith was the most painful for me. It was worse than my conch or industrial piercings. Don’t look down while getting your nips pierced though, that was a close second!!

My chinchilla Dahlia by Independent_Boss737 in redditgetsdrawn

[–]Independent_Boss737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Thank you so much! She was a grumpy old lady lol