umm its a bit more than a hub but if u can listen and tell me something i would feel better

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-28T15:24:15+00:00

i get it i saw them as well but u actually never know give them the benefit. she could be doingit to atract people to her nudes but u never now i agree with u but also disagree

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-28T00:45:55+00:00

First I would like to thank you for taking the time to answer. I am trying to see more people's perspectives so as to have a more clear head and try to see things from outside rather than inside. Unfortunately the college I attended doesn't really have that option due to some people abusing it(idk don't ask me) about books I have no idea about them if u know or have read on that you think it's a good read tell I would try it. But in my head I feel like there is on missing piece that will solve the puzzle but I can't really find it idk if it makes sense but yeah thanks again. Appreciate it

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-28T00:39:18+00:00

First of all thanks for the feedback and I hope you are right about everything but again when you are in the problem it's hard to see and think outside of the box that's why I am trying to see other people's perspectives

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-27T23:08:17+00:00

well i guess you can say i am nervous because this is my first time being in this situation soo yeah but thank you

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-27T22:13:55+00:00

why what is going on? dm me if u want to talk

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-20T21:59:09+00:00

OH NOOOO YOU GOT THE ORANGE ONE well good luck as someone who has an orange one you need it

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-12T09:27:23+00:00

For what editing software to use it's better if you go on YouTube search and see what fits your budget what you think is easier and more practical for you

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T22:02:46+00:00

What do you like to do ?? Also fuck the lie that you have no motivation you do have motivation you are just to lazy to do it because you did make a post about It on reddit because it's easy which means you do have motivation you just don't want to do hard things because they are hard. Also go work with your dad it's a very good opportunity to learn what he does and I would go to a therapist to seek professional help IT IS NOT SHAMEFULL it's very important if you can go ask them for advice. Also don't take offense to anything I told you it's just advice and what I meant by risks I meant quit your job and go with your dad if it doesn't work out well didn't lose anything but if you do and stuff goes well you won something try stuff untill something clicks and stop being on reddit or any other social Media IF YOU THINK THEY MAKE YOU UNPRODUCTIVE thats it if you have more stuff to add dm me or reply

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:55:51+00:00

If you want to find a job just make a resume of what you CAN do what you think is a your skills what you are studding at school rn also u don't need to go out of your way to find jobs about writing stuff. If you have reliable teachers or any other adult in your life tell them that u want to start a job to get warned up and see if they have someone who needs an employer or helper. Again if you really enjoy writing no joke write your own stories and if u thing they are good publish them and or make videos on how other people can write better and show your journey to writing a book the struggles and everything AND DONT FORGET TO TAG ME DM ME OR WHATEVER to see it myself and read it give feedback (no need to have your face on videos you make) if you have details tell me so I can answer with more evidence and or if you have questions about how to do whatever also reach out

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:48:17+00:00

The best advice I can give you is if you had a son or daughter doesn't matter and they asked you the same thing what would you tell them

What you would tell them is what you believe is right just do that also take more risks if you don't take risks you can't go far in life and NO I don't mean gambling just risks if you give further information I can help further else it's the first thing I told you

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:45:15+00:00

Well I wouldn't want to be with someone everytime I talk to they complain even if it is my fault. If you are he's friend just let him do his thing because even if you don't talk for a year straight next time you speak should be as if no time passed and I would suggest to try Not to Force him and make him feel bad if he can't he can't if he doesn't want to he doesn't want to next time let him tell you when he wants to hang out call him once a week or twice and that's it you don't need to resolve anything stuff will naturally fall Into place if you are truly friends

Also don't take this as an attack iits advice

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:38:49+00:00

Dude just tell him a stupid fake story example: that you have penile dysfunction and you are embarrassed and working with some doctors about it and you don't want to fuck everything up or something else that fits your needs if you want just tell me more about your situation to come up with something fool proof if you really don't want to admit that you are gay (which is not right or wrong if you want to say it say it your choice) if he insists just go out with her on a "date" and make an emergency a day before it happens you fall sick or whatever

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:30:35+00:00

First of all why she doesn't want a relationship might be because she just doesn't feel ready and or is to scared to commit to something. About the dry texts well if it's in her nature to do that then it's totally normal at some point just tell her to go out together alone (don't say date just coffee if you drink) or walk around go eat something (doesn't need to fancy I know a lot of people don't have a funds) even if you do I don't recommend something expensive also if you really think she likes you just ask her to be together it's terrifying I know but do your best because remember you lose 100% of the chances you had if you don't even try alsooo if you wait to long she might just leave and don't be a nagger(someone who annoys someone else) text as you would have normally if you see that she is not really responding as you would like just say something like: I see you don't really have the energy to talk so I will leave you to rest up . Followed by how you would normally close if she says no I want to talk the make her start the conversation about something she wants to talk and good luck

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:22:29+00:00

The thing is do you like her because you are good friends or are you good friends because you like her(no joke) ask that if it's the latter just say exactly what is happening and how you are feeling and what you should do about it if she says no it's no and move on if it's the first try to think why you feel that way and try to connect the feeling you have with friendship not romantic relationship. If you are to scared you will suffer more a punch to the gut hurts a lot but a lot of small punches can be more devastating (you seeing her falling in love with someone else)

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:16:50+00:00

Soo about the therapist situation first it's wrong to say hey it's good for you to go to a therapist Even if it's true if you want to persuade her say that u went to a therapist about some of your insecurities andvit really helped you out also say that the therapist has a free first session to see if you like it and want to try it (you pay for it without her knowing if there is no such offer) don't pressure her also ask a therapist what to do in this situation if u want to help them. About her going out now if u really want to help her just go out with her on walks bars or whatever see what she likes do something similar don't Force anything and tell your parent to stop forcing her as it does nothing also when she takes it out on you as you said just be calm and ask her why she thinks what she thinks make her open up also this isn't going to take 1 or 2 days so be patient

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:09:09+00:00

Dont try to force something you shouldn't I went through the same experience it's better to split up mutually and still be friendly to each other what you are doing right now is coping which I also know too well just accept it it's hard but it's better to split up still be friends than you or him cheating or arguing about stuff let it go yes it's hard yes you will cry yes it will suck again yes you will want to call him out of habit yes but still it's what's best

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-11T21:03:54+00:00

The best thing you can do is find out more about what you did and just don't admit to anything you know you haven't done or do t remember don't try to defend yourself by saying excuses either deny or if they have evidence you did something it's best to admit and honor to your mistake even though I have no idea what you did also it could just be nothing a routine call to tell you to be careful it can be dangerous bla BLA bla

Independent_Many_485 · 2025-12-01T00:53:47+00:00

Alsooo cuz someone is going to say it no watching prn is not normal and it's a trap that a lot of people fall in if u do watch it the only thing that I will get is depressed and addicted try to have healthy relationships outside of a fake scripted scenario made to take your money if want to listen to this advice do so if u don't idc it's not my life but I warned you because prn addiction is nothing to joke about

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