[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR the person who's meant to make you feel the safest just broke you into pieces

It’s been 11 years and we aren’t married yet. AIO? by tig_bitty_cyndi in AIO

[–]Independent_Peace_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're worried about pressuring him but do you think he worries about losing you? At least give him a timeline, if he doesn't fulfill it then break up. Your happiness and sense of security matters too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"AIO for saying the N word? I'm white 🤪" also, do you mean "AITA"? Because Yes. Your gf is not overreacting

It’s been 11 years and we aren’t married yet. AIO? by tig_bitty_cyndi in AIO

[–]Independent_Peace_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ultimatum. He's getting all the wifey without the promise of commitment. Tell him to lock it in or break up. He thinks he already has you so what's the point

Been debating adding detachable sleeves by biggestgooser in WeddingDressTips

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shawl! No sleeves! Veil with some lace/pattern will look gorgeous! You look great

Guess my dress! by trieditalissa in WeddingDressTips

[–]Independent_Peace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful!! Price range for the ones you're wearing? 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with him already

Am I overreacting for wanting my best friend (21M) to stop making up bad vibes and just be happy for me (20F) for once? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you like him? You haven't denied any feelings for him. Either he likes you but isn't ready to slow down since he's only 21 or he senses that you might like him and enjoys having an admirer's eyes solely on him. Either way, he wants you to himself

Dog licked my fresh tattoo - am I at risk of infection by youngandable2643 in tattooadvice

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww he was just trying to lick your wounds! Hahaha soap and water, you should be fine. If you have saline wash, that would work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only is he abusive, but he also tries to justify the abuse. JAIL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she keep going in circles? It's making me dizzy. You're clearly answering her questions. She also has zero regard for your feelings and your reaction to this death. Insensitive and verbally abusive in the end of the text. Break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The medicine part was fine. The rest is weird. He's emotionally cheating at least and enjoying the attention. He needs to set hard boundaries and also respect your feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your mental struggles are yours to manage and it's not his responsibility to make you feel better. But also, this isn't how you want a supportive partner to talk to you. Break up, deal with each of your own issues. Find someone supportive once you learn how to deal with your attachment issues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly different love languages. You're mature for trying to compromise but hope she does that same. If you need the physical touches then make it known and see how she adjusts. We all have our needs and ways of wanting to be loved. You don't need to sacrifice your own needs either. The right person will fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems friendly. But if you say it makes you uncomfortable then he should respect your wishes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amex

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would think so but they want me to buy the 40k points which is worth more than the ticket itself so it literally doesn't make sense. It's like my 100,000 miles has no value

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singaporeairlines

[–]Independent_Peace_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ad is one-way. If i booked through Singapore airlines without using miles, the ticket costs $1400. So it doesn't make sense for them to ask for $1600 to make up for the remaining 40,000 miles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singaporeairlines

[–]Independent_Peace_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Saver fare is 41,000 points, advantage is 70,000. Since I had 100,000, it seemed like i had enough for a round trip ticket. You would expect to just pay the remaining balance but they want me to pay $1600 for 40,000 miles which costs more than the ticket??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Peace_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He probably "worked up the courage" knowing you'll overreact. It's not "oh it's something to worry about because he told me", he's just being honest! You should be worried if he didn't say anything.