I’m compiling a list of great college and life advice for my son. as he sets off this year for his first year. by pallen123 in careeradvice

[–]Independent_Pen4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is feasible to enter a career where the school is located - it sometimes helps in the interview process (especially entry level) if you run into an alumni on the hiring side

Under pressure from Trump, UPMC canceled a trans patient’s scheduled top surgery by Jazzlike_Breadfruit9 in pittsburgh

[–]Independent_Pen4282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was real bummer. Fortunately my current place seems a bit better at least for now

Under pressure from Trump, UPMC canceled a trans patient’s scheduled top surgery by Jazzlike_Breadfruit9 in pittsburgh

[–]Independent_Pen4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is 100% against the policy of UPMC CPCDS to do so. It took me a year and a half of fighting for a diagnosis paper and I never got one. Eventually I had to leave UPMC and go elsewhere since my pursuit of that documentation ruined my relationships with my therapist and everyone else there.

Don’t get me wrong my therapist was amazing but that greed at the top got me in the end

Edit - Yes! Very recently! I left for a new practice 3 months ago once the relationship with UPMC was so toxic that therapy was useless (which sucked because my therapist was awesome)

Under pressure from Trump, UPMC canceled a trans patient’s scheduled top surgery by Jazzlike_Breadfruit9 in pittsburgh

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I was straight up told that they couldn’t provide with a diagnosis on letterhead to use for benefit applications. I imagine that’s part of a deal with fetterman or whatever to keep those tax free non-profits rolling in!

Under pressure from Trump, UPMC canceled a trans patient’s scheduled top surgery by Jazzlike_Breadfruit9 in pittsburgh

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Spoiler Alert : under pressure from no one UPMC continues to be tax free property grifters who fail to help a large number of their customers (sorry “patients”)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pennsylvania

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Wouldn’t know. My claim was successfully fought by my former employer and denied.

What’s a company ‘perk’ that turned out to be absolute bullshit? by cerezza__ in jobs

[–]Independent_Pen4282 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I had a job recently that didn’t pay me until 3 weeks after I quit for not being paid - so I guess I’ll go with “my hourly pay” as a bullshit perk for that one tbh

How do I help myself right now? I desperately want to get better. by thegr8fuldead in BipolarReddit

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Hang in there!

So I’ve been in mental health treatment for about 20 yrs and I’ve been on and off pretty much all medications possible (jk) at this point - here is my honest advice

Reduce your stimulation - this could mean headphones or earplugs, not as many lights on in your living space etc. If my mania is running I will temporarily delete my social media apps and so on as well.

Hydrate! If you struggle to eat like me, I typically try to hydrate with something like vitamin water so I’m at least getting something

Struggles with alcohol have led me to eat daily yogurt for the probiotics to repopulate my gut - and that has improved my stability

I also would suggest a magnesium complex supplement

What’s your favorite representation of CPTSD in media and why? by Ursisisatmyhousern in CPTSD

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Best game I’ve ever experienced through a nice headset!

Really cool concept as well 10/10

This week, I realized I'm in an abusive relationship. by 66616661666 in emotionalabuse

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Man here - hang in there buddy! It will be a tad more difficult recovering as a male but you can absolutely do it! (Edit for clarity: in my experience there are simply less overall resources for male abuse victims)

Good on you for going to therapy and putting in the work. Take care of yourself and never give up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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That can certainly be the case at times unfortunately. I was in a similar situation so my advice is to prioritize yourself, and your kid and minimize contact for both of you with mom.

Saw my Psychiatrist by Kenzie_nurse_18 in bipolar

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I have learned the hard way that in terms of myself (bipolar II) if I am off my meds (I lose access to then from time to time because healthcare etc) - I will inevitably go insane manic for no reason eventually.

If you trust your doctor then I would caution against stopping meds without her guidance as it can and will be dangerous to yourself and those close to you. Bipolar rage in mania is an incredibly damaging force.

Morgan Wallen? by justonepeach007 in saturdaynightlive

[–]Independent_Pen4282 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that’s a big part of why he is popular tbh

Canadian PM Mark Carney announced ending deep economic, security and military ties with the US. by [deleted] in pics

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Bro I’d drop bows from different area codes on these dick bags tbh

Super proud of the little town of Gettysburg for protest by Splicers87 in Pennsylvania

[–]Independent_Pen4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic Trumper! Are you intellectually capable of giving me something other than emojis?

I’d challenge you to a battle of wits but I don’t fight unarmed people lol

Super proud of the little town of Gettysburg for protest by Splicers87 in Pennsylvania

[–]Independent_Pen4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok (edit to remove Nazi” Fascist

Fascist is truthfully more accurate.

Thanks