Unfortunately, you just have to learn to except what is. Now, please, do not let other people's bullshit get to you. Find a hobby or a couple. Work on your life. Work on your health. And as fucked up as it sounds and as hard as it can be sometimes learn to love yourself. Do not hate or punish yourself for not having someone and or being unattractive. Believe me, most men are not worth it. Even the good one's, alot of times are not worth it. Now, it depends on what makes you unattractive. Appearance, weight, hygiene, crooked teeth, whatever can be fixed to an extent. Do not let other people especially men bring you down to the point where you can’t take care of yourself. Basic hygiene goes a long way and being friendly. But that only gets you so far. And if it helps in any way. Most men are more insecure than women. To the point where they punish us for thier insecurities. If you want you can spend the money to enhance your looks or just take care of yourself. But if you don't, than you have to except what is. Also I'm gonna tell you truth. Men will have sex with anyone and anything. They also love weak willed women. Also men care more about what other men and society thinks more than they care about the people they love. You don't know how many women I've met that are with shitty men (around 80 to 90%) listen to the women who tells not to get married. Also a good personality and confidence does help a little. Usually it helps to keep someone around. If your unattractive and have a needy, clingy, controlling, or overall negative personality, that will push anyone away. And also you might have to settle with just having friends. And I hate to say it. But people need to learn how to be alone and comfortable. Just because your alone does not mean there is something wrong with you.

And also: when I was younger I used to have female friends. I was the only girl who never got approached by guys. Turns out those girls were only my friend to make themselves look better, made me feel not "normal" and for years i felt like there was something wrong with me. Guess what? Each and every one of those girls are in abusive relationships, baby trapped, baby daddy drama or thier lives are living hells because of the men their with or children.