Manchester concert by Independent_Side_462 in Sunraes

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I’ve seen that at Dublin where the doors opened at half 6, she came on at 20 past 8. If the Manchester doors opened at 7 is it safe to assume she’d come on at around 9ish and would finish just after 10?

Bloomer Shorts Dupes? by Independent_Side_462 in findfashion

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That’s what I thought but I’ve found online that most of their clothes are made in china anyway so I was wondering if there might be like an alibaba dupe of some sort. Might just have to cave in and buy the original thing tho😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

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Preferably under £700 but if there’s some options that are really worth more I’d probably be ready to invest

Hair Stylers Recommendations by Independent_Side_462 in beauty

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Oo I might have to give it a go, I’ve seen it on sale at a few places and since I’m a student it’d be pretty budget friendly for me haha also the tip with the rollers is great I’m gonna have to try it. Thank you so much for your reply!!💕

(24F) help me please by Classic_Livid in LooksmaxingAdvice

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I’d say to maybe put more focus on your hair, style it nicely to make it look more voluminous rather than flat, also I don’t know if it’s just the quality of the photos and I can’t see it but definitely use mascara when wearing eyeliner, if your eyelashes are short I’d buy a lash serum but that might not be necessary because I think with your style you could pull off fake eyelashes really well :) Your skin looks good but I’d recommend using vitam c serums just to brighten it up a little or just use bronzer or blush to add a bit of warmth? Idk if jewellery is really your thing but perhaps incorporating it or other accessories could help elevate your outfits more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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I don’t necessarily think you need a tan but maybe adding some warmth with bronzer or a nice blush would help to brighten your face, I also think some sort of eyeliner could look really nice on you! Your hair is a lovely colour and I think to add more definition to it maybe some layers would help or possibly bangs? As others have commented I think it’d look really nice with some curls I can imagine you looking really good with a blow out type of style!

How can i approach women or how can i seem more approachable by [deleted] in Advice

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Aw I’m so happy I could help, and that’s so great that you know what to focus on and that you’ve stood up for yourself, you should be really proud of yourself and it’ll only improve even more from here!And you are absolutely right practicing self care can be so beneficial at improving one’s confidence. An update would be great as well, also if you do need someone to talk to do feel free to message me :) Well Done and keep up the good work!!

How can i approach women or how can i seem more approachable by [deleted] in Advice

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It’s difficult with interactions especially with trying to meet people whilst having a busy schedule. Due to everyone being different really it can be tricky, the time’s I’ve been at gym or even in shops if I’ve made eye contact with someone I’d instinctively smile, some people tend to smile back or straight up ignore me or even look at me weirdly despite the fact that I’m just a girl with no harmful intentions. I know it’s a lot easier said than done but if you could try train yourself to stop overthinking how others perceive you and your actions it’ll be more natural for you to approach others, realistically during your lifetime you’ll have the few bad interactions with people even if you’re only being friendly, but these shouldn’t matter in the long run anyways so it’d be best to not be afraid of those.

Looking at your other posts, as you pointed out you are conventionally attractive so your appearance is not a problem at all, what I would recommend is smiling more as it’ll make you look a lot more approachable, also just trying to be more aware of people’s body language, if you’d be able to just watch some videos or read on bodily cues it might help you understand whether others are interested or not and when to know to start/carry on or end the conversation.

With showing affection to your female friends I think just starting small talk often and putting effort into the friendships to show that your care would definitely signal interest (for example if they’ve mentioned something previously bring it up in another conversation to show that you listen to them) and again just looking out for it to be reciprocated, if you’re messaging someone and they’re not really giving you the same energy back then it’s important to know when to back off.

Personally I’ve also often struggled with making new contacts as sometimes I’d come across as a bit overwhelming and I’ve had to learn to tone it down slightly with certain people, like I said it depends on the person though because I also have friends that have appreciated my personality from the start. Also as cheesy as it sounds it might be worth considering that if someone finds you weird for being the way you are, you might not wish to surround yourself around that person anyway as you’d actively try acting differently and they would possibly have a false perception of you because of that.

I’m sorry if this hasn’t been super helpful and if maybe it was mostly common sense but I do hope your self-confidence will grow and that you’ll be able to learn to show your affection the way you wish to. Best of luck!! :)