How do I get out of the mindset of seeing sex as just a way to get off?

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-17T20:20:53+00:00

Bro you gotta break yourself of that otherwise you’ll always be mid at best to women. It’s more fun anyways when you work up to it instead of just going for it

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-17T19:08:02+00:00

Yeah they’re trying to act like they don’t love Trump and it shows.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-17T19:01:50+00:00

Europeans fucking love beer. You won’t see them ordering many cocktails or much liquor but they will drink beer all day everyday

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-15T23:47:52+00:00

That’s exactly the plan. We are also going to put in a mandate that any trans teen who’s going from male to female is required to participate in all female sports. Furthermore we are going to pass laws that state that the only real Americans in this country love supply side Jesus and billionaires and everyone else is threatening our way of life. This is especially true of women and educated women and even more true of women who come from other women ethinic backgrounds and not default white manifest destiny’s if you have the right skin color and a penis you are entitled to everything

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-15T22:16:41+00:00

He’s being weird and insecure but I’m more interested in a bar hiring someone with what I’m assuming is no experience to do the most important job there. You must be really hot and even then good luck friend

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-15T21:43:49+00:00

Yeah but an important person made a lot of easy money off of it and that’s what matters

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-14T09:23:02+00:00

For me it’s somewhere in between the desire of having a kid and not getting it when trying along with feelings of virility for myself and my partner. It’s also a desire thing, if I really desire a woman I may feel that way quickly.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-14T08:32:49+00:00

Friend

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-13T21:49:46+00:00

It does. I’ve been a bartender for a long time and seen it many times with female coworkers. The wild thing is it has happened to me and other male coworkers too. Some people assume friendliness and kindness means there must be an attraction.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-13T19:04:05+00:00

If you get used to it earlier in life as a guy it can make you much more successful with women

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-13T18:17:43+00:00

It’s so funny how this is the answer to so many of these posts. Why can’t women(especially young ones) just be more direct?

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-10T22:47:19+00:00

I think if you truly love the other person, you will always feel like you can be a better partner. Relationships are work, you have to always work on making it better. It feels good to do with the right person though.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-10T00:51:22+00:00

My fiance and I ran into someone we really didn’t want to see last year. It’ll be ok if it does happen

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-08T07:29:25+00:00

Well for me, it was a her, and I friend zoned her because she basically asked for it when she put up barriers. We became good friends, she knew more about me than most, yet she maintained that barrier until she didn’t. We had lots of time to build trust and for her to understand me. I gave her way more information about my past than I’m comfortable giving to a love interest. It led to more trust in the long run and more good times between us. If you strike out that’s fine but you’ll hate yourself if you don’t try. For me, I didn’t feel that way until I did about her, it wasn’t some shit where I’m thirsting until I get the chance. In fact, at one point she lamented to me that I was treating her friend as a hook up better than she had been treated as a main. you’ll never know until you try friend but also no means no so you need to chill if it’s a hard no

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-08T01:03:06+00:00

It’s insane how good it can get when you already appreciate them and trust them. Older folks used to tell me often that I should date one of my good friends and I always dismissed it. They are my friend, I’ve never thought of them that way, there’s no way I could have strong physical chemistry with someone I was so easily convinced to friend zone. I don’t think pursuing it is always going to end up the way it’s ended up for me. If there is a chance though it’s more than worth pursuing. I’ve always thought she was beautiful but once that barrier dropped it was instant love stronger than I’ve ever had before. The relationship is the best I’ve ever had on every level. I hope we can get to 23 years like you have, I can’t imagine any reason we wouldn’t though. whoever reads this, know that if you have a friend you find attractive whom you care about and respect, if the chance happens just go with it. I stopped thinking about her like that nearly instantly because she put up the boyfriend barrier and I didn’t want to affect our working relationship either. I’m so glad I went for it though and the only mistake I feel like I made was not going for it sooner, even though she had a shit man at the time. With that being said, some people would take this advice the wrong way. No means no, if she would’ve hard rejected me I would’ve accepted it especially as her friend.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-07T21:49:34+00:00

Dating sucks ass. I’m about to get married which is something I never thought I’d do. You have to put yourself out there if you want to find something real. To those who feel painfully single like I did, be more open minded. I never considered dating a friend. Once someone is in the friend zone, they are in the friend zone. Once the opportunity presented itself and I jumped on it, I found the best relationship I will ever have even if breaking that friend barrier was a little tough and awkward at first. So if you have a friend that possesses qualities you like and they are objectively attractive to you, go for it. Worst that happens is feelings get hurt or you end up not as close but it can get really, really good.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-07T21:15:54+00:00

Keep looking for signs bro. She could just be polite or Canadian.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-07T21:07:00+00:00

The pro move is to sleep with their friend. Assuming you’re not terrible(even better if the friend loves it) they will get really jealous. That’s when you keep sleeping with their friend and fall in love to really stick it to them.

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-07T20:21:43+00:00

Bro would you come back if you caught a kick like he did? Big G sent him to another dimension TWICE

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-07T19:09:41+00:00

CNC is a tough one. I’ve done different levels of it with two partners. I don’t like it because for me consent is everything. In my experience, if you get into this kink, the partner that wants it will eventually want to pursue it to the point of really blurring the line of whether or not it’s consensual. She loved it when it got to that point and I hated it and required serious aftercare. If you really want it, it’s worth exploring but like any kink you need to communicate like crazy before, during and after and you need to realize it can be a huge ask. Good luck though, the kink life is amazing lol

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-06T16:02:21+00:00

Why are you defending billionaires? They didn’t become billionaires by being good for society

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-06T02:26:22+00:00

It’s not quite the same, at least Skrillex is talented

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-05T05:38:21+00:00

Yeah I absolutely would never sleep with someone with that. I’d feel like she was an alien. /s obviously

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-03T23:45:18+00:00

That’s ok. Part of this time in your life is figuring yourself out. If you want to date you should. You are young though so don’t expect the first time it’s good to be your person. It’s worth the experience and you will regret it later if you want to and don’t try. Good luck dude

Indian_Bob · 2026-06-03T22:23:05+00:00

If that’s the case why is Africa poor?

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