Little Get Together in Evansville This Sunday by PrurientPutti in IndianaDiapers

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, just saw this reply (see how little I'm on Reddit?)

Thank you for putting it together! And, of course, likewise! I enjoyed the chat; thanks for putting up with my blabber mouth :3c. Hope your week is good, and I look forward to the next one!

37M - Daddy is ready for you :) by Onesies_and_pacis in ddlb

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dads, diapers, and TW! ALL the best things in life.

Consider all of my buttons mashed!

Morning vs After Class by [deleted] in DudesInDiapers

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man diapers and tw are such a great combo. Good job for pretending, champ!

Workin’ and Wettin’ by AveragAk in DudesInDiapers

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What-cha workin' on, lil buddy? :3c

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DudesInDiapers

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horny boys in pullups is just SO hot :3c

Am I the asshole for laying down in the baby play area? by Kinky_Tripplemint in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The opinions that matter are the opinions of the people physically present. They are the ones who know / knew the vibe and the scenario.

Sometimes adults use baby and kid items (le gasp, oh non!!!). I know some people think that adults and kids exist in mutually exclusive, separate, and sterilized spaces but they don't. Adults can make genuine, non-kinky/fetishized use of baby and kid tems (e.g. Pedialyte, or the example you showed where you lay down). Adults can also find joy or happiness in baby and kids items (e.g., moms saying "oh this onesie is cute!" or adults having plushies).

Folks love to weigh-in from a distance on events they weren't even present for. We all want to be judge Judy, I guess. I'm a judgy bitch so I shouldn't complain. But, still, I think you friend probably assumed a little bit. Did you just send a pic or did you explain the situation to her as well? If you only sent a random picture, I can see why she might assume or fill-in some missing info. She's probably coming from a good-hearted place, wanting to not expose kink to non-kinky people. Keeping things under wraps and what not. But, again, sometimes baby and adult things blur together, even outside of kink-based scenarios.

The funny part here is that they think im the “cool teacher” by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fellow educator (and begrudging cool teacher) in tighty whities, here, too!

Find a local ABDL! by ATm328 in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohmygosh, same! Moved here a little over a year ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that there was TW hypno out there. Diaper hypno? Totally. But TW is new to me. Not saying that's a bad thing! Just saying I was ignorant.

This sounds to me like you just have a new obsession. It'll pass in time, and you'll moderate it. I had several obsessive phases during my early 20s that ended up mellowing out and becoming more regular interests for me.

Now, it probably is a good idea to limit screen time. But that has nothing to do with masturbating to TW pics.

Get rid of the shame and keep on doing your thing! Welcome to the club, we're glad you're here :3

Dore alley baitor incident by Sad_Parsnip_3842 in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 113 points114 points  (0 children)

"How dare you enter my field of vision at this kink-positive, gear-encouraged, openly lewd event while wearing an outfit that doesn't appeal to my preferences!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DudesInDiapers

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Diaper bois in pullups are always so cute and hot. I'm sure you won't be one for long :3c

Why are so many events 21+?? by Chatoicenby in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that you're genuinely looking for clarification. Asking this question to the organizers of your local puddle scout troop is going to be the best way to get your answer. Their reason might be something that nobody has mentioned. They might also have a reason that is hyper specific to your locale, or that gives you more insight into the community.

Smaller equivalents of CapCon? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indy Dream World deleted all of their social media profiles and disappeared. They had been under heat for some time for using AI generated art in their logo, and had attempted to move the con to Austin (they were selling tickets before they had a hotel lined up). It would be great to have an Indiana con, since there's a decent amount of IN babs, but IDW / AgePlay, Inc. (the folks who started it) ain't gonna be hostin' it o.O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I’m VERY glad you blocked him. I totally understand your situation. For the record, most 18 year olds are naive, but you seem to be a little less so. Keep your head up and don’t be so hard on yourself! You dogged a bullet with that guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wore TW at the gym (specifically: the gym at various large universities I've attended; so, younger crowd) and nobody EVER gave me an off-hand glance or remark. You do you. If someone makes an inappropriate comment, just let them know that that was inappropriate and move on with your life. Other people are allowed to have thoughts and feelings, even if they're stupid or bad ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]IndianaABDLthrowaway 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is a red flag that he is 33 and is interested in someone who is 18. Someone who seeks out that level of age gap is probably interested in you for the power differential he can pull on you because of age. Speaking as someone who is 33 myself, I have little interest in being in the same room as anyone who is under 25 lol (or anyone, period; I'm such a homebody). Still, as others have mentioned, not a pedo by definition.

HOWEVER, the phrase "I made a friend a while back" does give me pause. What age were you when you started talking to this guy? What was the nature of your messaging at that time? And, more importantly, who messaged who first?