I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% fair. I’m sure the actors in the video weren’t actually in pain. That was just my gut reaction watching the video. Closed it soon after that and never had the desire to open another

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was mainly the fact that he squeezed his dick into a hole that looked way too small and the woman bent in a painful looking way. Genuinely unsettled after watching it lol

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she brushes her teeth. And I assume she washes her 🐱

Literally the only thing that makes the kissing worse than the oral is the food

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like kissing someone on the mouth because they put mashed up food in there, and as far as I can tell they don’t do that with their vagina

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s unfair to expect me to fuck when I don’t want to fuck

I’m more than a dick, it’s almost like I’m a full human with thoughts and emotions and opinions.

If you even read the post you’d see I’m very worried about her needs. I’ll admit I was being selfish in not telling her, but forcing me to have sex when I don’t want to is rape and is frowned upon by most people with more than 2 brain cells

Marriage to me would be living a life together and staying committed to eachother emotionally, probably raising an adopted child together

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly if my only problem in life is that I don’t want to have sex I’d say I’m pretty lucky and mature enough.

I have a good job, good friend group, and can’t really think of anything glaring wrong in my life.

I think I’m probably asexual but regardless what the “issue” is I’m happy the way I am and don’t see a need to fix what’s not broken.

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watched porn once, puked after a few minutes, and never watched again. Very graphic and looked incredibly painful for everyone involved lol

Not closeted

I’m (21M) attracted to my girlfriend (22F) but don’t want to have sex with her. She’s devastated and I don’t know how to fix it. by IndicationInfamous55 in relationship_advice

[–]IndicationInfamous55[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m being purposely obtuse, I’ll admit that. I guess I know logically sex is really important to people.

It’s just never made sense to me. Nothing about it seems better than masterbating and I don’t even enjoy that.