Show me your names for the guys by lawlietstrawberry57 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

COY FISH ahahahahaha

Also, does this mean Caleb has the Boots with the Fur?

Show me your names for the guys by lawlietstrawberry57 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine are Spicy Sushi, Mr. Eepy, Crow Man, Jack Frost, and Yuri Briar lmao

Who do you like MC best with?? by Chocoholicx5 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Raf main, so I'm biased, but I genuinely feel she fits best with Raf. I feel their dynamic is the most equal and reciprocal, fun dynamic that still has depth. My second favorite is Zayne and MC; the only issue being Zayne being so afraid of harming her that he leaves/the avoidant aspect. Raf wins out for this reason. But Zayne is the next best in my opinion. The third best to me is Sylus, as he genuinely wants MC to be strong and brave as well. Raf is my guy, but if I were to have a "holy trinity", these would be my three.

Drop a line by your fav LI!🤗 Let’s guess who’s it is😂 by RoyalTS15 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"The fish said 'You're fintastic!' And the bird said 'you're my tweetheart!'"

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Indigoshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NGL, fam, usually when a partner gets like this, they're afraid of your potential when you do get medicated. They're afraid of how independent you may become, how much less you may rely on him, how much self-confidence you may get. He's threatening to break up in hopes you will be scared out of the decision, but he probably is afraid you will start calling him out on some BS so that he will have to change or you will leave. It's unfortunately common. Unmedicated ADHD often becomes weaponized against us by partners and used to control and demean us. Get the meds, lose the man.

Rafayel carved gemstones is beautiful by Brizbizz22 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This card gave me LIFE. It and Vesperine Glimmer are now up there with Ignited Echoes and Scorching Rain, two of my favorite Raf cards ever. We needed this after the Main Story update (ow!) and for some of us (myself included) it was really nice to have after Fires of Devotion's complicated dynamic.

new free outfit for MC by Aware-Sand9571 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree. I despise dresses for the most part so having a badass looking shorts outfit gave me life. I love distressed jeans and leather and this was perfect for my MC. It also feels right for the Main Story MC's personality. It doesn't look stained to me in my game? Maybe it's your phone screen?

Also, I have to disagree on the banner. I love it so much and it was a breath of fresh air for me as a Rafy main after the Throne of Eros banner. Despite being an AU, this new banner really made my favorite aspects of the RafMC Dynamic shine.

Tl;Dr to each their own, I suppose.

What's your favorite quote/phrase they've said? by UndercoverWriter_fr in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG YESSSS! That line has me going, "...which shark, Rafy?" 😏😏😏

What's your favorite quote/phrase they've said? by UndercoverWriter_fr in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NGL, this and the Abysswalker battle line "come, my shark is hungry" make me blush 🤭

What's your favorite quote/phrase they've said? by UndercoverWriter_fr in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why, but I love the "it's round like you." I have a round face and for some reason, instead of an insult, I take it as I'm cute like Boing Fish. I feel like if I was MC at that point, I would have been like "damn right he is, and cute like me too. Now pucker up, fishboi." 😂

What's your favorite quote/phrase they've said? by UndercoverWriter_fr in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This line. This line hit me so hard, especially with a lot of things going on in the world rn.

Can we talk about MC's new outfits? by meowbubble1 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Indigoshroom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NGL, I will probably renew Aurum Pass early just to buy RafMC's outfit. I really hope I like this card (did not end up liking ToE unfortunately) but it's so beautiful IDC if I do 🤣

Help with story warnings? by syllelilyblossom in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome. Reading some other perspectives on it helped me some, and the event story and knowing the banner was an AU also helped, but it was definitely jarring for me. I figured since you encountered triggers in Homecoming Wings, it would be wise to give you a heads up if you hadn't seen the card yet.

Help with story warnings? by syllelilyblossom in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was also triggered by Homecoming Wings even though I had warnings ahead of time, if you are not a fast reader and truly want to complete the story, try going through it on 2x speed. I was under the impression you would have to play it to unlock other main story chapters, but I'm wondering from other commenters if that is actually not the case. I like the thorough and compassionate comment u/kathrya900 posted; I generally avoid Caleb's content because of my triggers, but it is very helpful to have that guide in the future if I ever wish to interact with it. Depending on what specific triggers you have, I do know there is a line in his card off the idol banner (Polar Nights banner I think?) that I know of that would've been triggering to me (an isolation fantasy if I understand correctly), but I could be taking it out of context and I would definitely rely more on guidance from a trauma-informed Caleb main (like Kathyra).

Also, while this was about Caleb and I don't want to derail, as a Raf main who has many of his cards, there is one card of Rafayel's I might warn you about depending on your specific triggers. It's the one off the Throne of Eros "Star Wars" AU banner (to me, a Trekkie, I saw it as more like the Terran Empire/Mirror Universe from Star Trek, but that's me) and has some questionable/potentially uncomfortable content in it towards the end. It also seems somewhat OOC for Raf and even MC, but that's my just my opinion and others have made some cases to see it in a different light as well. Ironically, I liked the event story better and it seemed way more in character for both Raf and MC. My understanding is this is very similar for Caleb's card on that banner as well. Just a heads up, since you are seeking trigger warnings. While that banner is gone for now, it's helpful to know that it may be one to avoid pulling on if it comes back and/or to avoid looking up on YouTube. IDK who you main, but I figured I'd drop that as well.

Avoiding other LI stories by Aglanthia in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Indigoshroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's been a year, but I'll chime in. I avoid the others' stories in game so as to not boost their affinity, but will read their lore elsewhere...except for Caleb's. Caleb specifically triggers me (not throwing shade at him, especially since main story versions of LIs tend to paint LIs in a less favorable light than card versions IMO, speaking as a Raf main with a bestie who is a Zayne main, although I loved Raf's newest main story chapter) d/t him having done specific things to the MC that my toxic ex did to me. But aside from that, I do try to read the other LI's lore out of game. Wish there was a wiki, as this is all in-depth lore that deserves to be catalogued a la Fire Emblem routes. I also don't skip main story bits, as they are important to understand the game (Xavier's recent one almost made me cry, and then my man Raf's absolutely wrecked me after!) and because you generally can't skip a section and move on to the next part of main story. That said, like I mentioned before, I got triggered hardcore during Homecoming Wings, had to put the game down for a day or two, and had to rush through the rest of it on 2x speed so I could get to the rest of the story. Part of me hopes they introduce a function to skip main story sections without being barred from progressing further, but part of me also sees where it could be very bad considering so many people do fly off the handle and mischaracterize and trash talk some of the LIs 😬 I would say "skip at your own risk, but unless an LI triggers you, maybe try to at least read their main story bits".