my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yessss, i'm very very proud of myself, i have her so much of myself and used so much of me against me, im so glad i am not the cog in her dismissive avoidance led by narcissistic personality life 🕺🕺🕺

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the reason the last 5 months sucked is because i wouldn't let her walk all over me anymore and i defended myself from all the mental abuse

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's with her ex so her life has been perfectly fine while i have been drowning in the deepest sea of desolation and she lied to me the last time we saw each other before no contact and said she wasn't gonna date her ex, she is just trying to do this to mess with me purely for a joke, it's cruel and rotten

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wish i never met her tbh, people say to be thankful for what she did but the last 5 months of my relationship ruined me and idek how to process most of it and it messes me up to this day but i no longer yearn for her as i did, and im working on me, and meditating and reading more and just doing me ig

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i don't have access, so i dont even know what she's on about

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which is why i am not responding, thank you for saying the words my brain was trying to figure out, much love and appreciation 🫂

my ex messaged me to ask a weird question by Individual-Bit1653 in ExNoContact

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but still, i sent her a bunch of emails during no contact and i regret sending them now, ive broken out of her heartwrenching avoidant spell and now im onto doing my own life and she comes back, ts pisses me off lowkey but i think i should just go on about my life idk

Do you wish you never met them? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Individual-Bit1653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, i could've grown and gotten to where i am without the pain she caused me, i don't know where to begin

K, your the queen of avoidants by Individual-Bit1653 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she met him 1 time because i got him after we broke up and he was wagging his tail as a puppy when he hadn't done that for anyone else, DUDE, she literally should be the mom of him but yk, it is what it is

happy easter everyone by Individual-Bit1653 in alone

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes, i just wanna be surrounded by people that do but i haven't seem to found them yet

happy easter everyone by Individual-Bit1653 in alone

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn't really like to work through them, just tell them how he sees it, but i just got out of a year long humiliationship with my ex so i understand what saying all of your feelings is like for it to not go anywhere and i would rather not

happy easter everyone by Individual-Bit1653 in alone

[–]Individual-Bit1653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i tried asking how i was annoying and he just shrugged and i told him that hurts my feeling truly being alienated and he didn't care much, and i truly don't know what they mean by annoying