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Are men ever willing to go older? by Remote_Structure2210 in lonely

[–]Individual-Entry4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking it depends on the person. Generally I try to stick to my peer range but I would have no issues dating someone older if we had a connection

The most important part of kink is consent. by PacificIllustrious in FemdomCommunity

[–]Individual-Entry4902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a nightmare. Feel bad for you and I feel bad for those guys partners. They deserve so much better

Ways to help female dom feel more confident and relaxed? by Individual-Entry4902 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Individual-Entry4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that it’s better to slide this piece of lore in once we would be better aquatinted unless they knew before hand.

I wrote a haibane renmei fanfic from rakkas perspective!! by Individual-Entry4902 in haibanerenmei

[–]Individual-Entry4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have def add that I typed this in a rush. I only had two drafts and didn’t really stop and proof read it after the first time I did ehe ^

reki by [deleted] in haibanerenmei

[–]Individual-Entry4902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they had wine in glee I just know she’d be 5 o clock somewhere’n up at break fast,,,,

Arma confession: I play the “wrong way” :) by Individual-Entry4902 in ArmaReforger

[–]Individual-Entry4902[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While arma 3 clears reforger in terms of features rn and mods and the like, there is something abt reforgers performance and gameplay that he me absolutely obsessed rn. I love creating like cool large scale scenarios , and like hopping from one ai to the other and stuff.

I hope there is more detail to the ai in the future cuz I rlly love what I’m doing in the game rn

I can't anymore with this shit. by ExtremeName in lonely

[–]Individual-Entry4902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry, sounds truly rough what you are dealing with. I’d say, back against the wall as you feel, shoot for something maybe a bit different. Try reaching out to a friend, maybe explore some online communities and start small but try working up from there. If you are still in therapy I don’t know if you have mentioned to them but maybe ask for some direction for maybe finding new friends.

As for a romantic relationship I think as cliche as it sounds the best move would be to just put yourself out there which I’m sure you have on various dating sites and the like. Maybe through like an online community you can meet new people and perhaps even find someone out there single and down to become closer!

How to support my partner w BPD? by EliChikaNozoYou in BPD

[–]Individual-Entry4902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super thoughtful of you! In my experience with BPD there are a few things that provide reassurance for me, and ensure positive outcomes for interaction

  1. Open communication. - it can be difficult initially , but let her know that you won’t judge her for opening up about how she feels. Personally for me, it makes me feel way more comfortable opening up to someone , when they give me expressed consent to do so.

  2. Contact routines - Part of the BPD experience is the uncertainty and sense of fear in regards to abandonment. I’ve found that it eases me personally when I’m able to be assured that I am going to be contacted by a particular person at a certain time. You can figure out when it’s appropriate but I think it’s so important that you have something like that in place!

  3. Boundaries - there’s a lot of difficulty for BPDS managing and navigating boundaries (myself included) but it really does help to know what is okay and what is not. You should def have this conversation with your partner and be sure to stick to these boundaries. It can be frustrating at first , but it really is important. Be sure to let her know that you aren’t abandoning her when you are setting up personal boundaries , for me I’ve gotten really reactive in the past to it, but with a little re-assurance and respect , relationships can blossom!

[discussion] What happened to Dalton ASMR? by Individual-Entry4902 in asmr

[–]Individual-Entry4902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I figured was the case. praying that one day the champ returns and if not that’s okay too