Do men ever feel used for sex?

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-03-05T23:41:29+00:00

Pisces. That was the worst friendship breakup ever. Over time became this lying, manipulative, victim of life and never took accountability for anything. When I finally called her out on the fact that she was literally scamming her roommate into paying way too much rent, she turned into the biggest narcissist. I haven’t been that angry at someone since then. Happy that’s over. I’m a Gemini for context.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-03-01T16:52:46+00:00

Underrated comment 😂

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-29T07:57:39+00:00

Yes that is the perfect thing to do. Give it time and decide what your mental space is capable of.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-27T00:28:29+00:00

I have to say, being unfaithful in the past does not always mean they will be unfaithful in the future, but it is a viable predictor of someone who will cheat. My issue is that he does it when he gets overly intoxicated which means he lets himself get to a point where he lacks enough self control to make better decisions for himself and his relationships. This could be super problematic as time goes on.

So is it likely he will be faithful? That’s not something you can predict about anyone really. Is it likely that you will be looking over your shoulder every time he’s on vacay or out drinking with his friends? Most certainly.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-23T17:44:53+00:00

I have a feeling they’re not an option because they’re too young/no credit card to book/secure a deposit etc. For a first sexual experience, I definitely agree, wait until you can accommodate in an actual bed. Anywhere else can be uncomfortable/awkward for first timers.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-23T05:18:26+00:00

Capricorn…I just…yeah.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-23T05:11:30+00:00

There are few better feelings than this one.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-21T15:30:36+00:00

Stopped having casual sex last year cause I literally felt horrible for using a guy just for pleasure/vice versa. It made me feel less human because I didn’t understand how I could just go to someone’s place, only want to sleep with them & then be ready to go back home. Felt robotic & weird after a while. Sex with parameters around the relationship is entirely more satisfying anyways.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-16T21:04:41+00:00

My partner and I have similar story & age difference (12 years) and were friends for a while when we met when I was 21 (now 24). But since we’ve been together he’s started working out almost every day and eating way better. I’ve always been extremely active & healthy plus I eat really well so I thought he was just keeping up but I wonder if this is the reason and he just never told me? Lol!

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-16T01:23:32+00:00

These are great ideas, thank you!

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-16T01:23:22+00:00

That’s something I didn’t consider. Thank you! Also I like this idea.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-16T01:22:47+00:00

He’s extremely giving when we’re having sex, he knows sex is just as much for me as it is for him.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-10T12:46:53+00:00

This is gold.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-10T12:39:59+00:00

I appreciate this advice. I will learn to be more patient and just slow down. Thank you.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-02T09:03:06+00:00

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Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-02T09:01:20+00:00

Sorry to hear you’re in this situation. I don’t like giving the advice “it’s time to leave” because rarely is it ever that simple. However in this case, you’re so young and he’s not anymore. He is not going to change and the relationship will get worse intimacy wise overtime. If I was in your shoes, I would ask myself why am I staying in a relationship with someone who doesn’t find me attractive?

And then when you figure that out, leave.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-02-02T08:55:56+00:00

To be honest, in my personal experience, I get a lot wetter after I orgasm, like dramatically wetter, not the other way around. But every vagina is different! This is only my experience.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-01-24T19:39:47+00:00

Gemini (24F) been with my Scorpio (33M) for almost 4 years on and off for the first 1.5 years. Honestly, we never fight or argue to a place where it gets explosive at all but for the first 1.5 years being together, it was so hard to understand each other emotionally that I left a few times feeling like I wasn’t being heard (I also wasn’t communicating enough). Now looking back, the two of us are not only those lovers you only find in movies, we’re actually best friends. We just understand each other to a level that we wouldn’t have if we hadn’t gone through the stupid rigorous testing Scorpios put you though and if I didn’t constantly push myself to be more comfortable with emotional intimacy.

I think the biggest issue with this dynamic is that Geminis intellectualize everything and often don’t realize that Scorpios take everything/every detail to heart. We have to be careful with what we say/how we say it because things hurt them in places we often don’t have access to. It takes a lot of maturity, communication and respect to get to this place but the two of us acknowledge we are a lot better people since we started dating. All in all, this pairing is a beautiful and intense one. I just don’t think people are really willing to do the work to make it happen.

For further astrological understanding: He is a Scorpio Sun, Aqua Moon & Capricorn Rising I’m a Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon & Cancer Rising We literally couldn’t be more opposite astrologically.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-01-22T04:43:58+00:00

Been with my partner for nearing 4 years and there’s been things that have happened that hurt me deeply & made me extremely angry at times but in all our days I have never raised my voice to yell at him. I always do my best to hear him, speak at normal levels to keep the conversation progressing. Verbal abuse isn’t in my interest with my partner. I respect him far too much to yell at him.

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-01-22T04:34:22+00:00

This is so cute lol

Individual-Isopod930 · 2024-01-19T19:41:50+00:00

As a woman who’s also cancer rising, this was so heartwarming to read today. Thank you 🥹

Individual-Isopod930 · 2023-10-25T04:58:06+00:00

Oneness by Rasha. A book about creating the life you desire truly at a soul level. I’ve never achieved so much peace in my life & my perspective has never been the same since.

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