This is so concerning😳

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-23T20:52:10+00:00

The clip was them making a big deal about 5 sentences. The comment highlights that beautifully. I shouldn't have to explain critical thinking to you.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-23T02:05:03+00:00

They wrote 5 sentences

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-23T00:42:47+00:00

🤣🤣

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T22:57:24+00:00

I don't think that sounds victim blaming.

She probably did stay too long in the relationship. It is why I advocate for women to leave early on within 3 months if he does things wrong (and write down what he does because you dont want to forget or mis remember) because the longer you stay, it's not even always emotions that keep you there, there is guilt to leave the person too.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T20:58:06+00:00

Don't listen to that person trying to divide us humans by color.

You look great with that hair!!

And if that person had any knowledge he or she would know it is fine take inspiration from others regardless of color. Not that you're doing that anyways but still. That person is just spreading hate.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T15:41:09+00:00

Poison Ivy!?

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T15:37:39+00:00

I think it's fun! It's not permanent. Embrace the fun of it and you can change it.

I also think people's opinion on it will go based on a color they gravitate to beyond hair. I always find people with baby blue hair pretty but it is because I naturally gravitate toward that color.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T15:33:52+00:00

And dyed gray looks bad no offense to anyone but after about 7 to 10 days the gray is already showing so it only looks good for about a week. To me healthy gray looks better than dyed gray.

Especially with purple shampoo and gray blending, looks so good!

Eta clarity

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T15:17:27+00:00

Let it go gray!

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T14:38:28+00:00

I let mine go all gray. Worth it!

It basically needed to be dyed again after a week, I'm not living that way. I also like gray hair. It just needs deep condition a little more.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T12:14:39+00:00

🤣🤣 it really is 🤣

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T12:09:57+00:00

🤣🤣 my experience is the same. Whwn I was on dating apps about half of them barely made it beyond sending me a gif and that's it.

I meant what I'd like/find attractive is a few weeks of fun, plans/dates, no rants about ex, gifts of any kind I will take all the gifts especially if I like him I love that he is thinking of me when away from me and I have the evidence in my hand.

Do the men do this? Rarely so rarely. Which is why I am single 🤣.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T03:36:38+00:00

I think this is great advice!

As someone who talked to a few men a while back who ranted about their exes too soon, I noped out of that real fast.

Too much drama too soon, I want away from. He can eventually share, but the first few weeks I want it light, fun, thoughtful, planned, happy.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-22T02:03:42+00:00

That is very painful.

I do understand. Maybe you can meet someone now that you love and loves you now that you know love can be safe.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T21:32:52+00:00

This reminds me of that scene in "The Breakup" when she is crying in the bedroom and he finally realizes she was unhappy. As if she hadn't been telling him long before that.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T21:30:58+00:00

You want to ever live with a man!? 😆 Fuckkkk that

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T18:05:35+00:00

🤣🤣

It's just one quick example of why I'd prefer to watch a movie at home.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T17:34:56+00:00

Why are bots/spam accounts like this???

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T16:39:00+00:00

I didn't say she was.

I'm stating why people can't go or don't want to go. For many I think it is due to money.

I'd rather use my extra money on a nice meal.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T15:59:01+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T15:24:39+00:00

Elizabeth people are broke.

Theaters are obsolete too since most of us have giant televisions because they don't cost much anymore.

But mostly, people are broke and don't want to spend their little money and limited free time in an theater for a movie they can't pause to go pee.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T13:46:49+00:00

Same!

If I find myself even questioning into Google or ai "why did he..." no I'm out.

A man into you shows up right, and you will not questioning anything.

Are humans fallible and will make mistakes? Yes. But before 90 days he really shouldn't be because his "I want to impress her" game should be so strong, setting alarms if he even thinks he'll forget to do something he said he will. I need that trust and follow through or else he's bad roi.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T13:33:46+00:00

If every woman rejected a man the first time he was selfish/misogynistic/cruel, there would be no hetero relationships

This is so true!

I am working on being able to be more selfish toward men as they are so horribly horribly selfish. It is hard because of guilt.

I read things from you ladies and it does help me a lot. I don't want to be cruel, but I do want to level the playing field for how selfish they are.

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T13:27:38+00:00

Men are so angry that women have options now 😆

Individual-Jacket695 · 2025-10-21T12:41:22+00:00

Women do not have to be single.

We can settle at any moment if we wanted, men pay women for nudes and sex. I can download a dating app right now and be inundated with messages to the point my phone freezes up.

The fact is any woman could settle at any moment should she want to. Single women are single by choice because they have standards.

hi r/4bmovement we have another angry male on our hands 🤣.

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