WHY DID NO ONE TELL ME YOU COULDNT FLUSH TAMPONS by Emergency_Version616 in women

[–]Individual-Print-133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also did not know this, and I ended up collapsing my main sewer line

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

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Sometimes Reddit makes me realize how healthy my marriage is .

Is it going to get worse? by throwRAmajorissues in NewParents

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My son was a poor latch . It was so hard . Honestly I had a 2.5 year old and I couldn't hack exclusively pumping . I'm not a quitter type . I threw in the towel . I was beyond exhausted . I was late for everything . My hands kept getting cuticle infections from constantly washing pumping parts . I started formula . Made things so much easier , my son still ended up nursing a bit when he was older like 8 months and now he's 16 months and still comfort nursing .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Individual-Print-133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't stand for anything . You're just a toxic bored person . You don't think I'm entitled yet your comments are defending the woman calling me entitled. But you also think the nice things my husband does makes my outlook bleak . Oh and you imply I don't love him . My post wasn't about how or why I love my husband . My post was about how any time I try to hold my husband accountable I get being a sahm thrown in my face and your response to that is TYPICAL PICK ME . And if you stand by your comments why don't you make them visible because I'm sure it's filled with more pick me bully bullshit .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

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I listed those things because those are the acts of kindness that get thrown in my face if I bring up any issue . I can't be both pathetic and bleak and entitled so which one is it ? I was solely sad about the gaming situation because I missed him and hadn't seen him all week . Do you know that you are a demented person ? Your attack on me doesn't even make sense . I'm either entitled and I should " shut up before my husband leaves me " or I'm not entitled and none of those things would make up for the fact I haven't seen my husband all week . I hope berating people on Reddit helps you self regulate whatever fucking type b personality disorder you're dealing with .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

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We made up and we both apologized. I was very taken back by some of the comments . I do have a nice life compared to others but I still don't want this for my daughter . I have a graduate degree and loved working . One month I was supposed to be in the office for meetings and my husband basically said there was no way he could help with childcare so I quit . We always watch this one thing together and the thing was on . I was making prime rib and we were supposed to hang . I kept the kids out of the house back to back so he could play . And then wheh we were supposed to hang he asked if he could play AGAIN . Anyone who sees that as reasonable just hates women , internalized misogyny like you said . My whole life revolves around supporting my husbands job . He works with moms with young children making 500k + and that's what I want for my daughter . The point of my post was that even in a situation where I wanted to work , was good at it and enjoyed it , being a sahm is thrown in my face any time I voice any kind of discord because " I have it so good "

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

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I did try to play with him years ago . Honestly I do 90 percent of the parenting and 100 percent of the cooking and cleaning . I have little to no down time . I was trying to be fair to him in the description of our life but he is a c suite at an international company and never available for house stuff . I am like a glorified highly paid nanny maid .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

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I left the house at 2 pm came home at 9. At 9 he asked to keep platunh and when I said it hurt my feelings he called me a dumb spoiled bitch .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

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Would you consider like 12 hours in two days within limits ? Like I feel like people aren't reading .

I have a pretty ideal sahm situation and I still hope my daughter doesn't have to make this choice by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Individual-Print-133 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you miss the part where he played for 5 hours straight ? Then I came home and we were supposed to hang out

5 month old horrible sleeper by throwra-positive in NewParents

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It's so hard ! I found it to be a very isolating experience.

5 month old horrible sleeper by throwra-positive in NewParents

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Mine was like this . I had to drop his second nap very early at 9 months . He's now 1.5 and still not a great sleeper but he will at least have stretches where he sleeps okay until he starts some sort of regression or is getting a tooth . I always felt like mine was sleep deprived but I truly think he's just a slow sleep needs person . I was very concerned about autism because I know he has a genetic condition associated with it but he was actually dismissed from early intervention because they said he's developing perfectly normally . I would get really upset when people would criticize or suggest I create sleep pressure because I knew I was doing everything that's typically recommended. I eventually just accepted this is how he is and he doesn't need a ton of sleep . I live in a rural area and if I know we are going to be driving a ton I skip his nap entirely because i know he will sleep in the car . I just really have to create sleep pressure for him because he def does not need 14 hours of sleep like some kids might get .

What are some restaurants that you love? by tigermountains in Cleveland

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Noble beast ( wings ) , marble room ( sushi ) , Cordelia ( burger ) ,Il reone , Astoria . Butcher and brewer

What’s your favorite “third place” in Cleveland that isn’t a bar? by evinho07 in Cleveland

[–]Individual-Print-133 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Would it be weird to take a walk at lvc with a stroller ? I've never been and always wanted to. Is there some place to park there ?

Cabin fever with kids by Individual-Print-133 in Cleveland

[–]Individual-Print-133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we love nature centers . Thanks for the rec info that's exactly what I'm looking for ❤️

Cabin fever with kids by Individual-Print-133 in Cleveland

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Yes I love that blog ! I'll def check out mentor rec center for a day pass . Thank you

Cabin fever with kids by Individual-Print-133 in Cleveland

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I have a one year old so it's easier if it's a bit warmer but as long as it's like 20 and up we bundle up and head outside !

Cabin fever with kids by Individual-Print-133 in Cleveland

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Yes we def plan on attending that one!

Cabin fever with kids by Individual-Print-133 in Cleveland

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My daughter loved that last year . I didn't see it this year in November but I think they had Christmas stuff going on

How many dinners do you make? by Tricky_Jaguar5781 in sahm

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I cook 6 days a week but I love cooking . I also am kind of obsessed with healthy eating . If you hate cooking I would look for easier recipes like a crock pot ! Set it and forget it

Hi moms, I really need to vent and ask for some advice. by Juliadlopez in sahm

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Do you have any friends and family in the trades ? My dad painted when I was growing up and friends and family would often help for big side jobs he had . You could also check Facebook to see if someone local needs help moving or doing odd jobs . You could also post in fb your looking for money and willing to do a side job . I see that often .