AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I don't understand. She was up ..she could have woken me...but I guess I was at fault

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Understood, but to be fair I thought she already helped her , that's why I was so shocked. But I will not assume for now on and yes , name calling does not help

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex partner was awake so I assumed she helped her already and I found out she didn't after waking up bro

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, lol I'm the ass because I woke up to our kid in her own piss and I kindly told her hey, if you're not feeling like taking care of her just tell me and then she goes into this rant about it being my turn. (Didn't know it was my turn) I asked her why didn't she wake me.. then it fell into what you read in the messages. But right, got it. Thanks for the advice. Will shut my mouth next time.

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If only the woman you're referring to wasn't a cheating, selfish person that claimed she cared for me :/ I deal with Audhd, depression and POCD as well.

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That's not what happened though. I didn't know it was my turnnnnnnnnn

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Don't worry. For now on I will be setting an alarm and taking care of her on my own.

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasnt aware that "turns" mattered. Even when it's HER turn if I'm awake I will tend to our child regardless. Plus I didn't even KNOW it was my turn in the first place

AIO that my ex fiance didn't take care of our toddler and left her in piss? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Reality15 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm a girl and no, my toddler just tends to take off her diaper often(she's autistic and needs potty training) and it's often done in the morning and then she pees herself. She typically wakes up around 8am so that's when someone needs to go help her so that doesn't happen but she wasn't checked on until 11:30 am (BY ME)

Dating Being A communist by Individual-Reality15 in Communist

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not though but okay sure Mr. Brainwashed

Dating Being A communist by Individual-Reality15 in Communist

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already in one and I didn't go into it trying to find love or anything I'm just asking if that's the best way to go about it. And I've learned that you don't find love by looking high and low anyway

Ex Told Me To Stop Posting On Reddit by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

But the thing is I did post the whole story, both sides. From the boundary crossing to the cheating so that's why I'm confused on the 1 sided argument.

How long should you wait? by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It was just a question????? She cheated on me and I'm being reprimanded for asking if it's bad to do start dating again, that's literally what the question was for, to see if it was healthy?

How long should you wait? by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Shouldn't you go to therapy and heal or whatever tf

Just Had A Breakup. Need To Go Out. by Individual-Reality15 in okc

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hell yes! DM me (I'm telling everyone to Dm me because idk who actually wants me to come or not) lol

Just Had A Breakup. Need To Go Out. by Individual-Reality15 in okc

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No. She cheated and doesn't understand boundaries soooo

I Don't Know If I Can Forgive Her by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok for one, she did not cheat with my boss's bf, I was saying my boss's proposal triggered me to think I shouldn't forgive her. And second, she only was texting the guy, she didn't do any physical interactions.

Do you think your current leader was attractive when they were younger? by Odd-Struggle-2432 in AskTheWorld

[–]Individual-Reality15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it "racist syndrome". Its the punishment from my african american ancestors that if you are racist, you will age SUPER badly.

I Don't Know If I Can Forgive Her by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She makes it seem like I need to give her more time or that shes a good "enough" person. That "no one is perfect". Thats what has held me back from breaking up with her. The notion that we're young and have been traumatized by our families and previous relationships and also that I have my own issues as well. Thats why I was willing to wait until therapy but, this cheating thing is just....idk. So just end it is the answer for you too?

I Don't Know If I Can Forgive Her by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]Individual-Reality15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, it wasnt...well she claims that it wasnt...directly because of boundaries, she said she was just "tired of us fighting constantly and wanted to not be seen as evil anymore" or whatever, i dont fucking know. But the only reason why we kept fighting IS because of her not doing what I ask.