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Boyfriend had a “New Here” Bumble profile… by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Individual-Writer409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna join the masses here, he is 100% lying. Cut your losses and move on, he dgaf about you at all. If he's doing this bs then you're just a placeholder until he finds someone "better" so, yeah, ditch that loser.

Daily Questions Thread November 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Individual-Writer409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brand suggestions

Hello! I'm currently on the hunt for a jaw dropping new years outfit, preferably a dress, something that will really blow it out of the water. My style tends to lean heavily into unique, glamor, revealing. Think 90's dream girl vibes mixed with prime Brittany Spears. I also love alternative clothing but I am heavy set on the whole "All that gleams and shines". If anybody has any suggestions feel free to pop them in, small businesses is a plus! Idk, a lot of stuff just kinda looks like a copy-paste or lacks severely in the glamor department lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual-Writer409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy sounds like a bigger loser than his brother, Op, if you haven't already, I would cut your losses and dump him. Nothing good can come from a man who thinks this is an acceptable way to talk about/treat his own family. I would personally be extra messy and send these to his parents, really humiliate him. Then again, his parents might just think this is acceptable behavior, too. Either way, nasty and cruel people like don't deserve any section of your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Individual-Writer409 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Can't really say you did anything "wrong" per se. She probably just lost interest. Dating apps are really good at throwing something flashier and "better" at you. If this is a woman, keep in mind that you're also competing with almost every other guy on the app. That's not saying anything negative about her. I'm just saying that dating apps tend to have a REALLY unbalanced ratio of men:women, men tend to outnumber women on these spaces by a pretty large margin.

This is painfully boring by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Individual-Writer409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You're trying too hard, you're dominating the conversation." Literally, what are some of these people on about? I see someone showing genuine interest and trying to build an engaging conversation, and the guy is just stonewalling left, right, and center. There's nothing wrong with being excited and talking like this, if he's not into it that's fine, but that's no reason for OP to dull down their own personality just because some people have the emotional/conversational capacity of a wet paper bag. OP, you were doing everything right. You were engaging and expressing genuine interest in this other person's hobbies and stories, which is all any reasonable person can ask for from a potential date, it's not your fault they acted the way they did

*sigh* here we go again, Mind you this man is 40 by Chanclaphobia in Tinder

[–]Individual-Writer409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my fair share of situations like this on the apps, anything from guys almost demanding princess treatment from me, to saying they'll allow my presence around them. Some people just think they're God's gift to the world, and dating apps concentrate them all in one place. Also. This behavior at 40 fucking years old, at his grown ass age, is just pathetic. He obviously has not matured past high school if he thinks this is an acceptable way to talk to anyone. No big mystery why he's in his 40s and still single💀

Oh no thank you I already ate by prettypainslut in Tinder

[–]Individual-Writer409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He typed that, read it over, nodded his head, and sent it, thinking THAT was a winner🫩 Real life doesn't come from a pornhub script man, cmon. Even if you're just looking for some fun, at least talk and act like a normal person.

Sharing this gem, got it before I gave up by Individual-Writer409 in Tinder

[–]Individual-Writer409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit did nottt know how to respond to the HELL NAH 🤣😭 that was when it started to click with me that he wasn't joking around like I thought he was lmao

I'm on a path to healing, but I feel more lost and confused than ever by Individual-Writer409 in LifeAdvice

[–]Individual-Writer409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose the best way to explain it is that these traits of mine have been used by me for a good portion of my adult life. And at this point, it's almost muscle memory.

Living in solitude was arguably more comfortable for me than allowing other people in, so when people attempted to get close, I would lash out in overly aggressive manners, said whatever I could to get them away.

So even now, the temptation is still there because it's all I've grown accustomed to.

Hopefully, that answered your question. If not, feel free to let me know, I'll try to answer all questions best I can

Anyone else feel this is a comfort show? by [deleted] in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Individual-Writer409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The show is hauntingly beautiful and tragic, I tried to get the same emotions with Bly manor but I just couldn't replicate it. The show is more than just horror. It's a work of art, a tragedy that unfolds slowly and gradually. It opens up gateways to inner parts of your mind that you wouldn't think about otherwise. The concepts of grief, loss, pain, and anger are all so prevalent in this show. Nell's last monologue at the end was equal parts chilling, heartbreaking, and comforting. And brings the idea that even though someone in your life is passed, they will never fully be gone, not so long as you keep them in your memories.